Abuse and retaliation

I got a temporary restraining order against my ex back in dec. Since then his lawyer and him keep extending the hearing for the perminate one. Well now next week is finally our hearing for it to go perminate. Well today they told my lawyer that their getting a restraining order against me. It’s been 4 months since I filed one against him. Their has been no comtact. He just doing it to retaliate and I hope the judge sees Thur this. Has anyone gone Thur this and what will happen.