Am I overreacting or just hormonal?

So my boyfriend played drakes new “girls want girls” song or whatever saying is was so good. We have extremely similar music taste and I thought it was awful. So I said “how do you think this is good, it sucks” and he said “it’s talking about girls wanting girls why wouldn’t I like it” like we have been together 2 years. We started a planned family together. I just feel like if you’re thing is liking girls who like girls why the heck did you pick me and start a whole family with me? Go find yourself some girls who want girl. Is that unreasonable? I’m also pregnant right now so maybe I’m just extra hormonal but like I feel not good enough as it is for him and then that.
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Yes sweetie, you’re being a bit over sensitive.

I get it, lots of people men and women do get sensitive when their partners make reference to finding anything or anyone who isn’t ‘them’ attractive. But I think that’s more about personal insecurity than it is about their partner more often than not.

My philosophy on the matter (and yes I’m a married woman and my husband and I have been together 16 and a bit years) is simply… would you rather they lied to you? Cos everyone has ‘fantasies’ or celeb crushes etc and that doesn’t mean they love their partners any less. It just means they’re human. So forcing them to be unable to admit it by making them worry about your reaction doesn’t stop it…it just means they aren’t comfortable enough to tell you about it.

People can find more than one thing attractive. I look nothing like most of my husbands celeb crushes, and he doesn’t look like any of mine… we still love each other though.

As for the liking girl on girl stuff… lots of men do. It doesn’t mean they want that, it just means that they find the idea of it a bit of a turn on… it’s a fantasy. Just like any other. Some people like a all kinds of things, just because someone likes being ‘spanked’ for example doesn’t mean they want to get ‘hit’

Different strokes for different folks… as the old saying goes.

If you’re really uncomfortable speak to your partner and say that whilst you understand it’s normal to fantasise and think about having things he doesn’t have… that it makes you feel insecure about yourself and relationship and that you feel you’re not good enough for him or feel you’re not what he wants, and ask if he would just try and not t

Both. You’re overreacting because you’re hormonal. And you are majorly overreacting. You’re being completely 1000% unreasonable and ridiculous. But yes, it’s your pregnancy hormones.

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Am I overreacting or just hormonal?

I think you’re just hormonal, hon.

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Wow That’s super jealous smh

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Really it’s a song get over it

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Even being hormonal and pregnant, you are taking that to next level extreme jealousy.

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Blame the hormones and keep on keeping on, girl. Men don’t usually mean the things they say, the way they say them.

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Definitely overreacting and possibly hormonal. :woman_facepalming: SMDH

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i think your overrreating :rofl: it’s a song it might not be a good one but your reading WAY to much into this .

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I think every guys dream is to have a girl that likes girls my old man watches girl on girl porn it’s just wired in there brain I think lol no big deal

Definitely the pregnancy

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I don’t know quite what to say, believe me that doesn’t happen often.

That drakes album going to either have people making or breaking families. :joy:

Ok so you’re probably overreacting a bit and the hormones are getting the better of you, I’m also pregnant and think too far into things but my husband listens to certain songs depending on his mood so I get why you think that. It’s a song he thinks is catchy, it will pass and he will probably have a new favourite this time next week. Don’t think too much into it.

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Lollll ur being hormonal… it’s a song :joy::joy:

I think you need to get over it. It’s literally a song. My dad is in his fifties and is as dirty minded as a teenage boy. :rofl: My stepmom just teases him about it.

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Insecure or jealous of the fact that there are beautiful females in this world and you wanna be part of the percent that hates them for it just because you chose a guy who feels there are many beautiful women out here but he chose you? Get a grip. I’m also pregnant but I’m not with the father of my kids. Maybe you should calm doen before you do something out of hand.

Hopefully it’s hormonal lol if not you probably should speak to someone about that level of emotion over a whole lot of nothing :see_no_evil:

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He sounds like a terrible person. You should absolutely leave him.

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I thought the song was dumb too but that’s definitely something silly to be upset about. It’s just a song.

Your overreacting lol

It is most likely your hormones messing with you hun. Your body is going through a lot of different things right now and it tends to make you over think things and feel really emotional about stuff you normally wouldn’t. It will be okay and will most likely happen again while you are pregnant. Next time just try not to read into it so much.

Probably just hormones.
Let me go check that song out :thinking:

Drama…
Stop being childish

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Its just fantasy. Its ok. That doesnt mean hes lookin for other girl

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Idk how nobody has told you this before but the majority of men in the world (probably) like girl on girl action. I would be more sad over the fact that he likes drake.

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lol its just a song unless he keeps saying that what he wants, but relax gurl its just irritating you the hormones n all nothing major

Men say stupid stuff while you’re pregnant. My ex made a comment about Angelina Jolie, I don’t know her nor does he but til this day I hate her.

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Omg, that’s so ridiculous. You should leave him.

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Feel how you feel but it’s a song, not like he’s pressuring you to be with another girl. Throw a rock, you’ll find a man that thinks it’s attractive for girls to like girls. Meanwhile, good luck finding girls who like girls that want anything to do with men who are creepy about it, including Drake.

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I think he knew how she felt on the subject and he should have not use that song. To much is made on such subjects and we all have our belief’s and that’s okay .

It’s a song! Hopefully it’s your hormones doing this to you.

Contrary to what some people who have commented on her are SEEMINGLY saying… I understand why you would feel a certain kind of way about his statement. You are allowed to have feelings. Do not feel bad or guilty about YOUR feelings, ever. However, it is pretty much every man’s fantasy to see two chicks together, so don’t take it too harshly. It doesn’t mean that he’s going to be unfaithful to you… He’s just a normal red blooded male.

Hahaha it is just a song and I’m not going to lie this post cracked me up. Girl take it from one pregnant woman to another, it’s the hormones. Don’t be saying some silly crap to him about going to find girls who want girls. That’s just silly and you will look immature in my opinion. Good luck haha.

Find a song about boys liking boys and ask him why he wouldn’t like it for the same reason :rofl: But yea, I think you’re bein a little hormonal & jealous, try to focus on something else Lol

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Is this a joke? Are we all being punk’d right now? :woman_facepalming:t2:

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Are you being serious?? :woman_facepalming:

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….most men are all the same when it comes to that :rofl:. On his part it was a very stupid thing to say. I wouldn’t take it personal tho… I know it’s hard . Men are easy to ….dislike

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I hate when men talk about women around their partners it’s disrespectful

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It’s just a song… talk to him more in depth about it I guess but I wouldn’t be too worried

You are hormonal 100% and this is super childish. It’s not like he’s acting on it or asking you to have a threesome with another female… he’s allowed to have like and dislikes. Just bc he thinks that guy women or bi are hot is 100% ok!
You are making a mountain out of nothing at all.

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How can he get a girl who wants girls , they’re called Lesbians and dont normally go for men😂.
It’s a well known fantasy for most men. Just need to get over it and move on unfortunately

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Extra hormones girl.

Stupid. What guy doesn’t like girls that like girls.? Doesnt mean hes wanting to be with a girl that likes girls or hes asking for a three some or anything like that. Fantasy for lots of guys :rofl:

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Girl it’s a song. If you cannot handle someone listening to a song then maybe you need to leave the relationship.

Definitely hormones lol men say stupid things. Just because he says hes attracted to woman who like woman doesn’t mean that he doesnt want to be with you or that he’s not attracted to you.

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If you like Drake period then idk how you can say that song sucks because all of his songs sound exactly the same lol literally almost the same beat everytime just different ill-put together words.

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I wouldn’t like it either just saying.

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I cried over vanilla raspberry filled donuts with Chocolate frosting for 3 hours till we found them 2 days after I found out I was pregnant!
(They were out of them everywhere, my husband & I had to explain why I was crying way before I wanted to become I ran into people at every place we went to look for them)
Hormones are crazy, I don’t even like donuts typically but I had to have them…
Calm Down & realize it’s a song & most guys make comments like that just to make them, this doesn’t mean he’s seeking someone new out.
It’s just your hormones trying to confuse you girl!

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Alexa- play Taylor Swift, You need to calm down.

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All guys think like this… doesn’t mean they act out on it.

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It’s a male fantasy. Has no bearing on reality. Relax. It’s not about you or your relationship.

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It’s hormones but definitely a dumbass thing to say to your pregnant woman.

This spat was hormones. You not feeling good enough over all could do with some therapy to get you back in a self loving headspace.

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Thats all guys fantasy… chalk it up to hormones and let it go.

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Emotional intelligence is a very important quality in a man.

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Its the hormones I thought same exact way. Literally to the T

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Lol. He can’t go be with a “girl who likes girls” they date girls. Lol

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Hormones for the win. I did the same kind of questioning when I was pregnant and even cried over dirty dishes… :upside_down_face:

Hormones taking over

What guy dosnt like girl on girl? It’s just a song I wouldn’t take it to heart

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So he can’t have a fantasy that doesn’t meet your taste.

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My husband is in love with the little mermaid… I’m no mermaid, fish or a red head :rofl: I’m pale as heck tho…so maybe :thinking:
Anyway…
It’s hormones. Men say stupid shit sometimes. I have learned at my old age of 33 that men have many taste. Which is why none of their relationships make sense lol

It’s a song… get over it!!!

Yoh girl. You need Jesus to pray for your emotions

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Definitely hormonal. It’s a song, no need to get that deep. Also, it’s man thing to mention girls wanting girls, it’s even something women do often. Don’t make everything dramatic. But the big thing that needs to be said here is…. Nothing Drake does is good, absolutely nothing.

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It’s really not that deep…

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I am so tickled. It’s a song save the theatrics.

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Girl it’s the 21st century - legit every guy likes girls who like girls and we have porn to thank for that lol

Jfc 🤦 then he leaves you cuz of this all n you’ll still be on here asking strangers something. Leave it alone

Girl it’s just music :rofl:. And a lot of guys have that fantasy.

You chose to
Allow yourself to get pregnant . So why is it all being put on him ? He likes the song , you have no right to dictate to what he likes simply because you’re having a kid together :woman_shrugging:t3:

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If likes Drake he’s ghey

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My man would never say some shit like that lol, he also thinks it’s cheating if I were to ever do anything with a girl white together. Which I agree. But me and my man have boundaries lmao but I wouldn’t be offended by him liking a song…but if he’s saying it because it’s about lesbian shit than I’d be like uh wtf lmao but in your case, I don’t see the problem with it, especially if y’all never even had conversations about anything like that before

It’s not that deep blame it on the hormones !! It’s a song :musical_note:

Girl, respectfully, you need to chill. It’s just a song. Plus that’s an average dudes fantasy. It doesnt mean that’s what he’d rather have.

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This post made me laugh. Get over it.

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It’s just a song and I think a lot of guys like the idea of girls with girls. I don’t think its a big deal.

Gurrrl its definitely the hormones lmao

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If this is a one time comment then I wouldn’t think anything of it. Probably just hormones.
If for some reason he actually is that ignorant and has the mentality that all women aren’t straight then toss him or reverse the roles and ask if that means he loves songs about men who love men.
If he gets offended the same way you did then at least you’re not overreacting. :woman_shrugging:t2::joy:

It’s not that serious grow up or shut up it’s just a song

Both… this is like balls to the walls crazy behaviour :joy:. It’s literally a little remark don’t take it to heart x

Whew Chile!!! It’s a song!!! Literally a song about girls liking girls. Please let the insecurities go. Pregnant or not.

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Hormonal.
Alot of men like girls with girls.
However, if you truly have an issue with that, you need to decide now if it’s a deal breaker.

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This is a joke right :laughing::woman_facepalming:

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I think your relationship is safe. It’s the hormones talking.

Oh it’s the hormones for sure. Girl, that’s every mans fantasy (ok not EVERY, before ya’ll start). That doesn’t mean he wants to be with someone who wants girls!

Wooooow ya’ll are a bunch of assholes. You gotta be uber sensitive with pregnant women.

Sis, it is honestly hormones. Your relationship with your man is gonna be great. I will say, people are not kind. Look at all of these dick head responses. You are sensitive right now, and that is OK. Confide in people who are going to be kind to you while another human is growing in your body. These lames need kicked in both knees… EXTRA HARD. Hope you have a great day and feel a little better. Happy and healthy mom and baby!!

Why would he want to be with someone who wouldnt find him sexually attractive??? Work that out

This relationship sounds exhausting

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Oh it’s a song you’ll be ok

This ain’t it, cis This relationship sounds exhausting

It’s the hormones. My husband fantasies about girls on girls, but obviously doesn’t go out seeking it. I fantasy about cowboys fucking me, but obviously I don’t look for that :rofl: Just let him dream. He chose you girl

This has got to be a piss take??? My ex use to like sex is on fire… didn’t mean he was going to throw a lit match stick up my flower!

Most men like girls who like girls… some just not open… I doh see an issue with his comment. Maybe it’s ur hormones… it wouldn’t bother me though. Cuz I like girls who like girls :grin:

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Girls who like girls wouldn’t like him :rofl::rofl::laughing::laughing::laughing::rofl::rofl:
He’s not a girl :wink:

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Men sometimes say things, they are just talking crap. I would let it go. Hormones probably are playing a part.

Oh sis. It’s jus a song. Let him have his fantasy

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