So my mother in law- we are currently staying with her temporarily. (Her and her husband) she doesn’t work. Has never worked a day in her life. Anyways. I pay her to watch my child while I work. And I pay for groceries. I pay for electricity. I pay for things I also shouldn’t pay for. So everyday I work. I work 50+ hours a week. As most people, I’d like to go home sense I work late, to spend time with my little one. But rather she will ask ME (not her husband or son who gets home sooner than me) to get her things. Like Just random things. Typically, after she leaves the store…almost as if she “forgot” it. But it’s EVERYDAY she does this. Am I overreacting for being so annoyed by it? I mean I came over here with more money than I could have ever thought I’d have but I’m going broke with her. She cooks but I clean. Usually I’m doing the laundry too. I just feel if she’s home all day (she doesn’t keep my son everyday sometimes my dad keeps him-they alternate through out the week based off when he’s off work) but I feel sense she doesn’t work. She can do basic things.
Another thing. I love her son I do. But anytime there is a problem, she comes to me about it. Not anyone else and puts me involved…unless it’s about me, she will tell everyone in the family. I can’t wear jeans because im “Being rude. Seems like I am ready to leave”. Can’t wear leggings because “their thin or see through” and she had the audacity to tell my fiancé and family i dont wear shorts around the house (I do. Their short shorts because i Wear an XXL shirt. I’m a size small. But I wear huge shirts when I clean. Now my fiancé always ask “do you have shorts on?” There are even times she walks in the room (doesn’t knock. And yes I know it’s her husbands house) and I’m changing and she gets mad. Or times she will literally rip my shirt up to see what I have on underneath. Yet she claims “I do so much for you” she does does nothing but be little me to others and watch my son from time to time.