give it back to him !! find a cute guy to say the same thing about
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Well men are always going to fancy other men or women. Women are always going to fancy other men or women. Unless you go celibate or turn to animals or plastic dolls theres not much that can be done about that. Its human nature. Ignore it.
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Maybe itâs the way you dress or carry yourself !! But donât get me wrong he should NOT tease u with others women, that is WRONG âŚ
I agree with Sandie , maybe he will feel the way u feel, well that human nature part get me ALL men does NOT plus I feel there is a little disrespect there and treat peoples the way u wanna be treated ⌠just me âŚ
There is no way he just started doing this in the last 2 weeks.
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Reverse itâŚmake comments about guysâŚgood onesâŚlol
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Itâs time for you to leave!
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Itâs very rude and insensitive for him to say those things. I donât blame you for being hurt. If he loves you he shouldnât hurt you like that.
Tell him straight out if he doesnât stop doing this your leaving.his sorry ass, he know this makes you uncomfortable youâve tried telling him goes in one ear out the other time to make some decisions,good luck my dear
You have to heal your own wounds that cause you to be bothered by it as you admit you have ptsd from a previous relationship that causes it to bother you. You canât expect someone else to change who they are to avoid triggering your wounds that have nothing to do with them. You need to want to heal your past traumas and release them. Otherwise your forcing him to be responsible for them and cater to them and thats not fair. Our traumas are our own to heal regardless of who or what caused them. Its part of our journey of growth. Your not a victim anymore so its time to live like it instead of sitting in it and expecting others to sit in it with you. Now if you dont trust him then leave. Either way stop trying to make someone else change to be what you need them to be. Your either compatible or your not. Fix yourself and the rest falls into or out of place as it needs.
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The 3 years before the marriage it didnât happenâŚnow that tou are married he is doing it to disrespect you. I would also.leave. disrespect is the start.
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Hereâs the real dealâŚâŚ to him you are overreacting⌠for you with the baggage you have( we all have baggage) you are not. Both points of view are valid. However my question is when did this behavior you canât handle start? Is it ongoing but now your married? Or is it new? If itâs new ask him why he thinks itâs appropriate? If itâs old you really didnât think marriage would change him and stop behavior right?
They are good when you arenât married but once that ring goes on some like to see how much they can get away with
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To be blunt, he either has SO little concern for your feelings that he canât remember not to make these comments in front of you, OR he is doing it on purpose. For what agenda, who knows but itâs not a healthy one. It has nothing to do with you and I would honestly think about whether you want to continue with someone who is treating you this way. When you tell someone their behavior is hurtful, and they make excuses and/or continue the behavior⌠that is not love. It doesnât mean itâs beyond repair, but it does take two to fix a relationship
No you are not overreacting. Itâs wrong and he clearly does not respect you.
It is ok to get hurt about it but the greatest victory is when you learn to love yourself and never ask that love to anyoneâŚi had been there and never lost my husband.I undergone process of pain yet ,afterwards i forget about it,forgiven him and divert myself into being more compassion to him but ridiculously do it to myself even more and it attracts positive vibes I radiates beautifully that he can not resist.Loving yourself will make your aura very beautiful.
Dump him. No good. You deserve better.
Do it back to him. Bet the reaction is not pretty. If that doesnât bother him itâs time to leave donât degrade urself for any man.