I’m a mom of 2. I’ve been dating this guy off and on for 2 years. We currently live together and this go around we have been together since.
The beginning of our relationship was rocky. I chased him hard… we talked for a bit. Then he disappeared for a bit. Then showed back up acting all sweet. We lived with my parents (he worked for them). We were good for 2 weeks… then he ditched me for his ex. Then he went m.i.a for like 3 months. Then he showed back up. Then he was in and out for a while. Then he moved back in. And we lived separate. Had the perks of a relationship without the relationship.
Then this past winter I moved out… he followed and we have been together ever since…
But the kicker is he won’t take me in a relationship status on fb. He never gives a answer to why not. We have no pictures together. It’s kinda almost like I’m a roommate that has the responsibility of a girlfriend.
He wants your crib, girl.
He’s just using you for a place to stay. You should drop him and find someone who’s gonna treat you way better then he ever will.
Stop being naive please. You’re just a piece of a** to him basically nothing more and once he gets bored he goes on to the other one and once he gets bored with them than he comes to you. He’s going to continue doing it until you shut that door completely stop letting this man use you as a revolving door
If it looks like a duck, talks like a duck and walks like a duck then leave it in a pond
Honestly he showed his true colors so many times. It’s time for you to catch on. Get him out of your life and find someone who wants to be with you. Not use you.
Is his name Bobby Melton. 
Cause I went threw the EXACT SAME .
He’s a “hobosexual”… he only wants you when he needs a place to stay 
Well you are a doormat, I cannot believe someone let’s someone else get in and get out of their life this much… love yourself and respect yourself since he clearly doesn’t. He is using you and trust me HE WILL LEAVE AGAIN. But well he knows you welcome him with open arms so he has nothing to lose 
I’m in the same predicament
He’s definitely seeing other women and having a different life
Girl this is not a relationship it’s toxic. Don’t sell yourself short. You deserve so much better. Let him be his Ex’s problem not yours. This kind of relationship is not good for the kids as well. The moving in and out takes a toll on them as too, it’s not fair to them. Concentrate on you and your children. Let you, your family and heart be at peace
He’s clear a hobo-sexual. Using you for a place to stay, money to spend and nooky. Sorry, but kick his butt out.
So who’s fault is it that he is able to keep you holding on the runway?
Hell no ! Good bye 
He wants his cake and eat too… he sounds like a narcissist, leave his sorry arse
You are the side piece
He’s going where ever it’s easy for him. He plays the 2 of you based on what he needs or wants.
Don’t understand why you’re still with him, every red flag was given and you’re still sticking with him? IMO you’re wasting your time
Sounds like a you’re a free place to live while he’s single, dump him and move on 
Sounds like a you’re a free place to live while he’s single, dump him and move on
Sounds like he uses u as his rebound bc he knows u will always take him back in.
Just stop all together and he’ll either see the actual picture or you move on to something better.
Side chick doesn’t want to let others know his taken run for the hills his already shown you who he is several times you are worth so much more
I’ll be the first to tell you people can make mistakes…and that they can learn and grow from them.
But this guy has repeatedly made the same mistakes and he won’t give you any reassurances of commitment even in a non-legal type of way.
Which are two huge red flags in my opinion.
If it was me, I would end it.
He’s using you. Kick him to curb. You can do better.
You are a place filler till he finds someone and ghosts you! This back and forth wishy washy is absolutely ridiculous but you keep allowing it. Do your self a favor and ghost him permanently. At this point you gotta do what’s best for you he honestly sounds like a trashy loser.
Be alone and learn to love yourself.
So wait…this guy has just been yo-yoing around you and the 2 kids? 
He’s using you and entertaining other women.
If “have your cake and eating it too” was a person 
Sounds like you deserve everything you’re getting. You don’t respect yourself why should he?!?!?! 
He’s a scrub. Move on and don’t take him back ever!!
Start treating him like a room mate, and stop giving him your body. Treat him like he treats you and I guarantee he will run so fast to find that easy snatch elsewhere.
The kicker is what??
"“almost”??? You ARE a roommate, not a partner. Leave…you deserve better. You are just there to fill the time, until he finds someone else.
Yeah hes just using you definitely drop him and move on
He is using you. When you are no longer convenient, he’ll leave.
You’re his girlfriend and he’s your room mate. He’s got a place and someone to take care of his kids and he gets away with jt
Call it quits with the guy.
He’s treating you exactly how you will allow.
Why did you let this guy go back and forth and get the goods so much without a commitment but now you want that commitment?
Walk. Away. – you’re his fall back when his other girls don’t work out.
Ugh.
I hate social media
You will be treated by what you continuously tolerate. There is a man out there that will prioritize you. He’s not the guy for you. 
Once I read “been off and on for 2 years” I said yes your eating your time but you don’t seem mature enough to be in a stable relationship so I say keep doing you… 
The “KICKER” is that he won’t add you as a relationship on Facebook?!!! That is the LEAST red flag you just listed; and you listed A LOT of red flags.
If you were a single woman, whatever, then you do you. No shame.
But the fact you have KIDS and are allowing someone to do this to you and your CHILDREN?!?!
Come on, you know this is messed up for your kids to see…. You KNOW there’s no future for you two. You’ll never stay together long term, you’ll never get married, he’ll never be a part of your kid’s lives. Just leave now and work on your own happiness for a while and focus on your kids.
Girl, he is definitely using you! You can do so much better than that. Start dating someone else and you will realize what a full of shit he is.
Common Sense isn’t Common
Obviously there is somebody (or multuple) else he’s going back and forth with also. He’s living with them when he “dissapears”. They get tired of his 
then he’s back at your door needing a place to stay. Tell him to go and not come back.
Maybe u shouldn’t make urself so available for him 
obviously he doesn’t want u for a relationship but he wants u because u give urself to him
Sad ur letting him get away with this. Run. He’s using u sounds like when his others r gone. Get a life for u and ur kids
Run away fast and look up narcissist. This behavior is very common with them. 
. And don’t look back. He will do this to you forever if you let him
Why are you still waiting on him?
You are just a roomate