Ok I deleted my first comment because my stupid ass didn’t realize the XXX was porn
Girl kick his ass on down the street and find you someone who will respect you and your relationship.
That’s beyond disrespectful
Ok I deleted my first comment because my stupid ass didn’t realize the XXX was porn
Girl kick his ass on down the street and find you someone who will respect you and your relationship.
That’s beyond disrespectful
Girl I swear you wrote this from my brain, my hunnys facebook still had them kissing and cuddling and no pics of me 2 years later,
Alot of these comments are from females who don’t empower other females. Which says alot…what a Shame to be calling yourself one. Back to you friend…no he shouldn’t. What’s in the past stays in the past and if he can’t do that then you need to put him in your past too.
No. Your overeating. His masturbatory aids are none of your business. Unless it’s like really dark/disturbing. And makes you fear for your body or well being.
HELL no girl he should not have any of that he clearly still has feelings for her if he didn’t care it’d be long gone after TWO YEARS of dating, yeah no way
You seem very insecure and jealous.
It’s not about being insecure or jealous here. It’s about simple respect. He shouldn’t have immediately gotten rid of the stuff the moment he knew it made you uncomfortable. You don’t deserve to feel insignificant because he’s a manchild. Let him go sis.
I honestly think that is just disrespecting you. Like why keep them? Theres so many porn out there
Maybe he actually respects you enough to not expect you to make porn? Except he should not be keeping them from exes.
You deserve exactly what you want so if you want someone that takes pictures with you or videos ask for it if not received then keep looking. I hope you find some one that is willing to give you everything you want and deserve
When my spouse and I first got together 9 years ago, he had old chicks photos on his phone. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with it, mainly because they were girls we personally knew. He was completely fine with immediately deleting everything from past girlfriends.
Now, we take stuff together for him to have if he needs “porn” to look at or he can use a site. We have always just had a rule it could never be a person we knew in real life if he was to be looking at pics or videos.
The best thing to do is communicate with your partner. Tell him how you feel about the ones he does have and id you are interested in that kind of thing or not. Relationships only work with good communication:) good luck girl.
Men are going to watch porn. He shouldn’t be watching old videos of past playmates though and sounds like he is. You sound like you would be willing to make videos of you two so tell him you will if he gets rid of the old videos. If he refuses deleting them no matter what you say, then maybe you should think about leaving him, because it is disrespectful to you.
Anyone condoning this man’s behavior or telling this women to get over it needs to check their patriarchal bullshit at the door.
He knows how to delete and she should not have to take no shit from anyone
I asked my man to delete old pics and he did it instantly cause he only wants me… something fishy going on there definitely red flags!
Uh you can’t be with one person and have another persons pics on your phone. Disrespectful.
I don’t go digging for old pictures, but I do delete them as I find them!!
I think it is perfectly normal.
He is definitely in the wrong if it’s old girlfriends in the porn.
Tell him you wanna do it too
Out of respect, I delete pics of people when we break up or no longer see each other. I don’t have pics like that of other people once I’m in a relationship because I would hate for someone else to see personal pics of me on someone else’s phone. I would ask him to delete. If he refuses or hides copies, then I couldn’t stay with someone with those values, ESPECIALLY with me knowing those same girls.
No, that’s disrespectful to you and his exes to be quite honest. As soon as you break up those pics and videos should be gone. Most definitely when you get into a new relationship they should be gone. To be honest the fact that he doesn’t delete them should be reason enough for you to never want to make them with him. I find it odd that the fact that you’d even want to let him take videos of you when you know if anything happens he’s keeping them and you have no idea what he does with them, does she show them to friends?
I was with someone who had that crap for 12 years. Nothing I could do or say to get him to stop. I finally woke up and kicked him to the curb. Good luck to you.
If it’s people he fucked, you’re in the right wanting him to get rid of it. If it’s random internet porn let it go.
I’m not going back and searching for old photos and videos because my new boyfriend is jealous I don’t do it with him.
Yeahhhhhh…he would be gone. He can take his pictures and videos with him.
Hope those memories keep him warm at night Know your worth.
You are Also nit picky.
Samantha Jo Tyler agree with you also totally.