Can you post an update as a new post for me? I kinda have a question too…and don’t know what to do…I am the girl who messaged the other day about me being pregnant by my best friends dad…we are in love, not just hooking up…she didnt take the news very well…which i get…kinda…its not like this was planned it just happened and i wish she would understand this…my issue is…we are going to get married and i want my best friend to be my braidsmaid and she straight up refused…the wedding is in 6 months and i want to plan as if she will be there…does anyone think she will come around or should i find a new bridesmaid…which i dont want her to do…i love her but i am in love with her dad and I cant call things off like she wants me too…i feel horrible she feels so betrayed but at the same time this is what i have been looking for my entire life…what do i do?
I am not really sure why you are having a wedding… I think it’s selfish … your friend will not come around cause it is gross. If you where trying to mend the fences you would just go to courthouse and then have a nice honeymoon alone…instead. To her you are celebrating months of lies ending in betrayal. Just say you don’t care about her or what she thinks …