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Yup bye bye 
ashamed of you how rude 
Yes. Why would you even want to be with someone that would say that
Yes. No one deserves to be treated that way.
Tell him that you do feel ashamed …
Ashamed for ever falling for him and kick him out of your life .
Be happy . Have your self a fresh start and a happy NY .
It depends why he said it. For example was your behaviour bad and nasty then no but if it was cause you put on alot of weight and he’s ashamed cause of that yes then yes maybe
You can leave someone for any reason, you are always in control of your own choices. 
Yes. Don’t be anyone’s secret, you deserve way better then that!
Awwwww super hard to get over something like that. Sad for you. Is there any more context, I’m not sure if that would make a difference to my decision to leave, but I just thought I’d ask.
Given you didn’t say why he said it, I am pretty sure he was right.
100% yes… I would be repulsed by that and you deserve a lot better this shouldn’t even be a question!
Given there is no other information I guess it could depend on why he is… I mean if you hurt a child and he said it then I would be on his side…
We need more information
If you’re questioning about leaving him, regardless of anything, you should probably leave him.
Yes, why would you want someone like that in your life!
Honestly I need more context here. Is he saying he’s ashamed of you because of how you acted or something you done. Or is he saying he’s ashamed of you because of your looks or something like that? Because if it’s the latter, yes, leave him, why stay with someone is ashamed to be with you?
Sorry two sides to every story and you did not explain your story.
If you’re questioning leaving at all just go.
If you’re looking for a reason…
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Um, if I was ever told by my man that he was ashamed of me, I’d leave. That’s fucked up and whats that doing for your self esteem?
He sounds like a real asshole. Who tf says that to someone they love?
HOWEVER, if he’s ashamed of something you did or said, that is different. But if he’s ashamed of YOU as a person, who has feelings, nah, sis. Throw the whole dude out. Hes not a man. Hes a fucking coward.
!!!Also!!! I’m single. And happy. Very very happy. 
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Ashamed of you, for what?? Bring the whole story!!
It’s much deeper than that you should be asking yourself “why do I want to be was somebody who is ashamed of me”?
What made him say that…
Depends on the situation.
Should he be ashamed?? Are you ashamed of yourself? We all screw up… did you? We all can be ashamed of our partner’s actions… as well as our own… so… it depends if it’s justified or not… sometimes… we need to suck it up and make things right.
You don’t have to justify it to anyone or even yourself, if you don’t want to be with someone, leave. Break up with them.
It’s different for everyone. There’s not enough context to the story to answer that.
Yup. If you have to resort to asking the internet, that’s your sign.
Yes absolutely it can be. Yes words can be reasons to leave.
That’s a pretty low blow. That would totally knock my self esteem. If he’s ashamed to be with you then be with someone that’s not. There is not much detail here but for me those words would aways haunt me and they can’t be taken back. I would move on.
Okay regardless of what was said, you don’t need a “good enough reason” to leave someone. If you don’t want to be in the relationship anymore is enough reason to leave. Don’t stay where you’re unhappy and looking for reasons to leave. It is your life after all. You don’t need permission or any reason to do what will make you happy.
If it’s enough to bother you then yes it’s enough.
Absolutely. Verbal and emotional abuse IS abuse and you never deserve it.
They aren’t just words. You deserve better.
Absolutely. Don’t allow it.
Perspective. Do you think so? If so then do it. If not work for it, like actually put in effort
I feel like if you have to even ask that question then the answer is yes.
Why would you want to stay?!
Not enough information!
Is he ashamed of you, as in your appearance/attitude/personality or is he ashamed of something you did/said?
I mean, if my husband just walked up to me one day, out of the blue, and told me he was ashamed of me, I’d throat punch him and it would be over. Now if I did something, like cheated on him, he has every right to be ashamed of me.
So what’s the context of why he said he’s ashamed of you?
Whats he ashamed of you for? Did you do something or? I’d say it all depends on the reason. Parents have told their kids they are ashamed of them for different reasons. We don’t leave our kids for it.
Leave and learn your self worth.
I think it really depends on the situation. There is not enough information here.
It’s called verbal abuse and most definitely is reason enough to leave bc it usually ends up becoming physically (mine did). And it’s a narcissists greatest weapon so you have to be very careful who you chose ad a partner. Good luck.
If you need to leave, do so but he has to want you enough in his life to change his behavior you can’t do that.
I would need context to answer. I mean did you say or do something shameful and he is reacting or???
relationship going nowhere move on
Why is this even a question to ask…OF COURSE IT IS!!
Any reason is a good reason if it feels right to you. There shouldn’t be a bad reason to leave someone.
I mean if he’s ashamed because of how you behaved, that’s reason for HIM to leave you. But if he’s ashamed of you because of your skin color/how you dress/your personality then yeah I’d be pissed too
I think you already know
How do you feel? You think he is lashing out? Are you doing something that embarrassed him? You take care of yourself? Need more information. But if it’s all good, then let him know you are leaving…
You rather him throw you out by the hair
Say bye…and find someone who’s proud of you…but more importantly…be proud of yourself.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t like you or appreciate you? There are worse things than not having a boyfriend/girlfriend.
Depends on why he’s ashamed of you. What’d you do
Have some self respect and freaking leave his ass
why would you even want to be someone who’s ashamed of you? he is not deserving of you.
You don’t need a “reason” to leave a relationship. If it isn’t working, then go. Don’t wait for a reason or you’ll waste a lot of time.
It would be enough for me 
Without fail i am gobsmacked daily on the questions being asked in this group!
Yes you shouldn’t be with someone that says they’re ashamed of you!! Women are so much better off on their own than staying with these fucking dogs!
Yes !!! It means he doesn’t love you. Move on
I mean… I would say that is a yes…
Hurry. Don’t waste any time. You do not need to take that kind of treatment.
There is a whole lot missing from that question
Why is he ashamed of you? Do you embarrass him or act out? Have you done anything to make him feel like that? If yes then own up to it and fix it. If no then put him in his place and don’t tolerate that.