Jst message the number n start a conversation not askn who it is jst play it along n you will find all you need to know …
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Have u tried googling the number or putting it in cash app?
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You found a deleted picture of a car. No nudes or anything like that. Your snooping and drawing up ideas of what it could be instead of talking to him? He’s said he’s close to calling it quite. You say he’s acting up but what if he’s getting tired of you snooping and trying to find trouble? Talk to him like adults or end it. Sounds like it’s stress for both.
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He’s probably ready to leave the relationship because if you. Girl read that to yourself again. There is no reason to even fight. It’s his phone he should be able to delete whatever he wants when he wants. You’re being ridiculous and obsessive. You are no mature enough to be in a relationship. You have no respect for him. If I was him I’d leave too.
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Leave him, but save the number in your phone and look at their whats app photo
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Damn. My husband has full access to my stuff and I have full access to his. I’ve never gone through his stuff. I trust him. I have no idea what he has gone through on mine and don’t care, I have nothing to hide. The fact that you put so much effort to see what was deleted and knew that there was stuff deleted means you don’t trust him. Relationships are built on trust. No trust, no relationship.
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No right to be going through his 
be. If you do not trust do by stay
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If u have to go thru his phone just leave him bc there’s no trust there
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At the point that he tells you he’s ready to end the relationship he is probably not into you anymore. Cut your ties and move on. Find someone that you don’t have to guess if he is cheating and wants a relationship with you.
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He’s probably ready to leave this relationship because of you. You sound crazy jumping to worse case scenario from a picture of another car. I mean there is always a chance he is cheating. Looking through his phone and coming to cheating ahole over a picture of a car that was deleted and then coming to fb instead of talking to him?? Cant know everything if you arent talking to him.
But your toxic af. “Ever since a female started working and flirting him he wants to break up” maybe you’re pushing to that.
You know how mentally exhausting it is dealing with someone like you?? Having to always deal with accusations of cheating and everything because yall would go through our phone, jump to accusations instead of being an adult and talking about all this shiz. Its the reason I left my littlest’s dad. He was just the way you are sounding off your post
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If he is cheating the proof will surface don’t go looking for it
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You have trust issues for a reason!
Call the number & see who answers🤷🏻♀️ that’s what I’ve done.
Also, if you’re already questioning things, you’re right. Always trust your gut.
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Get your life in order. Why waste your time with a looser. Not a very good start, just get out.
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Get rid of him… if he’s not already cheating it’s about to start
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Stop going through his phone because you’re looking for something that you already know. Just pack up and leave stop torturing yourself
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I would just talk to him and ask him why he’s deleting everything an just straight up ask him if he’s cheating he’s already threatening to leave you as it is or call that number and find out who it is
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Look keep it simple hun if your at the point of snooping threw each others phone and asking on a social app what should you do .it looks to me as if your already screwed
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l get paid over $125 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $15329 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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If you feel that you have to go through anybody’s phone, you are not in a relationship.
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Big no going threw phone u will get ya feelings hurt bad
Put the number in your cash app and see who pops up
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You mentioned that things have already happened between you and your bf. Without knowing what those issue are, it’s hard to give you advice. It seems that he has given you a reason not to trust him. I don’t expect you to elaborate, but if cheating was involved, I can tell you straight up, that it will never, ever change. Trust is nearly impossible to ever regain, so if that is the issue, you can stay and be miserable, or you can end it. If he won’t be open and honest, and you can’t communicate, it’s over. My husband can pick up my phone and scour through it if he wants to. He can go through my cloud if he wanted to, and he’s not going to find anything, and the same goes for me with his.
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Sounds to me like you need to end the relationship because you have too many trust issues. Nothing you found in his phone, deleted or not is any proof of anything.
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I’m so confused. I need way more information than this. Sounds like he was just texting a guy coworker and maybe took a picture of the inside of a different car? I wouldn’t assume my girlfriend is cheating with those context clues. What did the deleted screenshot messages say? Idk I feel like there’s just info missing.
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You can message me with the phone number and I’ll look it up on my instant checkmate account! That way you don’t have to bother with starting a fight until you have more answers.
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l get paid over $125 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $11335 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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Keep out of his phone then
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You clearly don’t trust him and already have your Answer. Leave.
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Message me and I’ll tell you a secret to see all his deleted messages
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Don’t look if you aren’t ready to leave
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If I was him I would put a lock on my phone to keep you out of it no wonder why he’s threatening to leave you and who cares if he’s sitting having lunch with someone else that not a crime.
How long you Gon play these games?
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You have a problem only you can end or live with he is not being honest for sure
For all the gods sake… u are not married therefore if you feel like this now, it won’t get any better. Leave
It’s called privacy, please stop with the irrational thoughts you have going on in your brain. The man can have conversation with whom ever he chooses, you’ve seen absolutely nothing that’s worth asking about.
break up. your crazy.
he doesnt need that
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Your relationship is over, he already let you know that through words and actions. Why are you asking, you should have already left.
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Just as you are obsessed with him and the subject he maybe obsessed with another woman so go and find yourself some real good male friends and see if he comes back around.
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If you have to sneak around behind someone’s back and secretly go through their messages and message random numbers to find out who they are, then obviously this isn’t the relationship for you.
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If you don’t trust him, and are searching his phone, should you stay together, you’re bound for heartache, and going through his phone is a big no, no! If you suspect he’s cheating, talk to him, ask if everything is ok between the two of you, then if you don’t believe him, get out of the relationship, you can’t be happy if there’s no trust, sorry 
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If you feel the need to go through his phone…it’s over. No trust. No sense in keeping up the charade.
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Just leave … if he isn’t cheating then you still can’t accept it without proof so just leave
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If you want to go thru his phone then there is no trust and no relationship.
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Just ask him straight up.
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Just split. Lack of trust won’t be fixed by searching the phone.
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Nothing good comes with snooping. Looks like you want clarification. If that’s true the I’d leave now. It’s only going to get worse between you. Especially when neither party are truly trying
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Anytime you’re at the point of snooping, especially to this extent, it’s over. No trust, no relationship.
Why would you want to be with someone like that? 
And by looking through his phone…are you looking for a reason to stay or a reason to leave?
First things first:
since the two of you are not married, stop living together.
God doesn’t bless sin and disobedience.
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You already have your answer!
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Trust your intuition. You already know the truth. Liars cannot be trusted. No trust, there is no relationship.
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Let me start off with I am sorry you’re feeling this way. I hope for your sake he isnt. Whether he is or isnt you are going to only prolong your stress playing the what if game. You need to be able to communicate the hard stuff its growth or it shows change. I wish you all the best.
-From someone who has been there.
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Either ask to Go to the gym with him , or just surprise him afterwork , go to his car at the the time he supposed to get off work wait by his car, or go to the gym when he says he’s at the gym. you’ll get your answer if he’s pissed your there n not happy to see his girlfriend he hiding something. N just be like I’ll go back woth you to get your gym stuff rhen let’s go . Almost all gyms have a bring a friend policy!!!
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You need to follow him…but be undercover.wear a wig
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Listen to your gut! Not in the same class as cheating but my husband had quit smoking, life got tuff, he went back into restaurant management, the whole management team smoked and you could still smoke in the office back then. He managed to keep it from me until the one night he suddenly wanted a chocolate shake, never in our 20+ years at that time had he ever just wanted a shake. I made him spill the beans because I trusted my gut.
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Say adios. He’s up to no good. And you are going to get hurt.
Ask to join him at the gym?
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Sounds like he may not even have a job! Trust your gut instinct, there’s your answer!
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TMTR…just get rid of him.
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Girl. Pull him aside and say “listen, you know I love you, but we need to communicate… what’s with the venmo $$, hair removal stuff??? “. Go in the conversation open minded. I dc what my husband wants, but if I see a tiktok on some new hair removal or something… you know I’m trying it lol maybe your SO is the same way??? I’d be going straight to him and asking what’s up. Privacy is one thing, but being sneaky is totally different.
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From experience when physical changes start that were never a issue or problem someone else is in the picture … definitely a lot of red flags
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If you have a feeling of something then follow the feeling. Communicate with him about how you’re feeling and if he doesn’t communicate back there’s your answer. Your intuition typically never lies.
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I mean I would start working out randomly because I want to stay in shape to protect my wife, pets, and home.
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Do you have a joint bank account but don’t even live together???
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Yes. The answer to your first question is Yes!!
If he will lie, he will cheat.
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I’d definitely follow him and see if my gut is right or pay someone to do it 
nothing to lose in my eyes, you could ask him out right but he might just deny it all so get your evidence first because he might just be feeling low about himself!! Hope all goes well
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If your gut tells you he’s cheating than he is… your gut is never wrong.
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Oh he’s getting off alright! To the curb!! No one deserves this bs!
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Ask him! Don’t be scared but expect him to lie.
The pills ARE helping him gain muscle. Just not where you would see. His 3rd leg is getting a great workout tho.
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If he makes u question anything then his feelings aren’t mutual…move on. If he was in the relationship 100% u would know everything & be confident in the relationship. These relationships never work.
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No trust = No relationship
Go with your gut feeling. If your questioning things in the relationship then obviously something isn’t right.
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7 years together n you guys don’t live together? Is it long distance
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I’m confused about having a joint bank account and not living together… also sounds like you need to sit him down and talk about all of this
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If you don’t have trust you have nothing. Move on.
Yup 100% signs of cheating 
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I’m a firm believer in gut instinct. If something feels off, probably is.
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You want to know if he is going to the gym, make him bench his max. Then in a week do it again. If it’s the same weight then he is not hitting the gym.
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Don’t ask to go to the gym with him, don’t bother trying to find evidence, don’t even talk to him. Just back door boogie the f out of there and leave him to his games. How much more of your life are you going to give to him? Claim it back!
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I think you knew the answer to all of this before you asked.
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just show up at his job???
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I was thinking maybe with the money thing hes gambling and doesn’t want you to know about it… but then you said the pills and that’s a red … communication is key for sure.
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Does he have muscles? That would be a good measure of whether or not he is working out.
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Sounds like somethings up
7+ years together and you don’t live together by have a joint bank account. Nor are you married, maybe that’s for the best though. I’d unlink the bank account and just move on. I wouldn’t want to be a girlfriend for over 7 years, it sounds like he has commitment issues unless you both decided you just don’t want to be married. My husband proposed after 6 months and we were married 6 months later…that was 11.5 years ago. Trust and open honest communication are KEY in any relationship. Throw him for a loop qnd break up with him first and see how he acts. Don’t go back to him though, stand your ground.
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Trust your instincts!!
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Alright where ya girls at??? This is the time to activate the troops. Someone needs to get together and follow this man and see what he’s up to.
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Find out what gym and show up. or he could just be doing what HE likes to do with his own pubic hair:woman_shrugging:.
And google the dang pills.
And maybe he is outgrowing the relationship and trying to find what HE wants
And why are you opening packages without your name on them 
that will bother ANY man, or woman.
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Sounds like he is cheating. Those are all flags of it. Don’t go searching unless u ready to find out the truth
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He’s definitely cheating
Now go catch him !
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Cashapp and venmo say it all lol that’s how all “influencers” take their $
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it is time to take the blinders off and trust your gut instincts talk to him get him to fess up about the money issue and that is a biggy and the gym