You’re not finna “let” a grown adult do anything …
And yep idc I’m watching it too
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Tbh, I don’t know where anybody gets the idea that watching other people have sex is normal… that’s weird and creepy 
… idc who said it’s ok and it’s normal blah blah blah… everything is normal now according to who you talk to…
I think I will have a problem with my man watching it at work because why do you need to watch p*** at work unless you f****** the secretary or you beating off at work which is weird other than that I would not have a problem with my man watching p***
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There’s a couple of things I found wrong with this. 1. Why are you going through his phone? That is an invasive of privacy and obviously if he does not know you know about the adult videos then he probably doesn’t know you went through his phone either. 2. Relationships are not ownership. You do not “let” your partner do anything. You can discuss your feelings about certain things and come to a mutual agreement that works for both of you or if your ideals are too different, don’t be together.
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It’s porn
As long as it’s not an addiction and ruining your marriage there shouldn’t be a problem
Have you thought about asking to watch it with him?
Every relationship has it’s own boundaries. Talk to him about your discomforts.
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I don’t “let” my man do anything lol. I told him how I felt about it and we established that boundary. If wants to cross it that’s his decision but I don’t force him or tell him what to amd what not to do. Every relationship will be different but the boundary has to be set by the ones actually in the relationship. Some of it I don’t even really care about but I think it’s in appropriate in a workplace setting. It could easily cost him his job if he was caught. Just my opinion
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It’s p**n… so harmless
You do understand that s e x ual urges is human nature right? Unless he is neglecting you to watch it, it really isn’t a big deal.
Now, if it is a huge issue for you then you need to talk to him. Express your feelings. Ask him what his feelings are about you watching it. Communication is key in any relationship and if you would rather ask here if it’s OK, then what’s lacking in your relationship isn’t s e x or the fact that he watches p o r n. You obviously have insecurities about something and should possibly look to seeking help so you can overcome them.
I “let” my husband do what he wants when it comes to videos if he wanted to He’s grown. They are just videos. He’s a man he’s gonna look. Always comes to me. Just because they “Look” or “watch” doesn’t make them a cheater.
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It’s ignorant. And it’s cheating if u didn’t know
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I think it’s a weird thing to control about someone. I don’t “LET” my partner do anything. They’re a grown ass adult and can watch whatever tf they want.
First of all, LET my grown ass husband watch what tf ever he wants. Second, stop snooping on said grown pfuckin man.
When I was younger, it really bothered me to the point that I called it “practically cheating”. Now, I don’t really care if he does or not- and I don’t really know if he is or not because I’m not searching through his search history.
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We watch together I like more than he does lol
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Watching it at work is hella weird so there seems like there’s so much more wrong here then your man just watching a little spicy video you know what i mean look into that instead girl lol
I don’t “let” my husband do anything. He’s a grown ass man who can make his own personal decisions. If he wants to watch adult videos, whatever. I’ll watch with him or I’ll take a nap.
Nope. 
Don’t fkn fly with me n I’ll find someone else if he decides to
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I agree with the others… why were you going through his search history? And what’s so bad about a man watching porn? I’m assuming you don’t?
We as partners don’t control the other there is not letting him watch it he’s a grown man with free will however being in a relationship with you he should respect that you don’t enjoy when he does watch it. There is no easy way to approach it just be upfront about it. I mean shit I watch porn but my husband is fine with it and our rules are if the other is in the house approach them for satisfaction first and if they don’t want it find some time alone just don’t while the other is in the house especially if the other would have been good with the satisfaction. I’ve told him because he’s done it in the house when I had asked for sex and ended up falling asleep. I was quite upset to wake up to go to the bathroom and find him. It was then that we established our boundaries. You are grown just talk to him there is no secret no ease it’s uncomfortable but necessary.
I don’t care. I’d rather he’d be at home watching it, than out sleeping with other women.
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Let? You don’t own him.
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If my man made me feel good and still gave me attention I wouldn’t have a issue after all il rather he was hiding away jacking one off to some porn then finding someone else to personally entertain him.
You don’t want him watching porn well then become his porn star! Four play and wearing sexy costumes and fullfilling his fantasy goes along way
I just came here for the comments and they didn’t disappoint
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All you girls are obviously just the kind to let your man watch porn and cheat on you just to keep a man lol its not ok for your man to be jerking off when he’s suppose to be at work and working hard probably even lies and tells you your crazy for suspecting he is doing it when he is doing it. And then why do you need to jerk off at work that’s weird for one. Internet is the biggest destroyers of relationships and what people view as something normal for a man to do no that’s not normal at all its actually sick that means they have a sex addiction. My guy would watch porn and look up local escorts. And all the above and on multiple dateing accounts under his name and random names. It’s not ok for a man to sneak and do shit like that behind your back no it is not. Women act like they like it and watch it with their man but they only do it because they feel they have to to keep their man happy well guess what he’s probably still watching it without you no matter how good you are in bed.
The fact is…most men who watch porn end up treating their partner like an object instead of a partner, I’ve seen this over and over again in many relationships while counseling.
I do so technically…I can’t really get mad at it 
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Leave it be, it will drive you nuts and he’ll keep doing it
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Does he “LET” you search his history AND do you LET him search yours as well as LET him control every little thing you do? Just to get a better understanding of the dynamics of your relationship
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No he doesn’t, and I don’t like it so I wouldn’t allow that.
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Let? He’s an adult. I am not his mom. If it bothered me no he wouldn’t because he respects me. But it doesn’t bother me. So go do you boo lol
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Ugh I can’t get my man to watch them with or without me. He’s just not interested. I thought it would be a fun night to have a few drinks and let him pick the category to see what he’s into.
Some of you chicks are spineless and have some major confidence issues! Hell I’ll turn it on for my man and watch it right along with him 
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Some care some don’t but you can’t be upset with him if you haven’t talked in advance about it
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I don’t “let” my husband do anything because I am not his authority. Nor is he my authority. We are partners who lovingly respect one another’s boundaries. No, you are not the only person who considers consumption of pornography to be a violation of their boundaries. Many people, regardless of gender, view porn consumption as infidelity. You have a right to assert your boundaries and he has the obligation to either respect your boundaries or admit he won’t stop using it. If this boundary is a deal-breaker for you, you may be better off without him.
Just don’t. First off, you’re not his mother you’re his partner, you don’t “let” him do anything, he’s a grown man. If he was on here asking should he “let” his wife do something people would rip him to shreds.
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Lol it’s ok he’s probably learning new moves on you.
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Let? I didn’t marry someone underage. I sure as hell wouldn’t let him decide what I can or cannot watch, so I’d never try to monitor his viewing habits. I never really got why so many wives/girlfriends are bothered by it. I suppose if it interfered with daily responsibilities or became an obsession that altered the intimacy of the relationship or something, maybe. If it’s just some occasional viewing of adult entertainment…what’s the big deal?
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Let him? I join him!! Then we create our own!!
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A man who only has eyes for you, and the truest, purest form of love for you, will not do that to you. Trash him. There are men out there that do not partake in CHILDHUB. Pornhub is disgusting. Your man is stroking his Thang and getting it off to other women other than his own.
Lmao yes I’ve got kids I didn’t marry him to be his momma or the porn police
We would watch porn together… on the tv lol
My husband can watch anything he wants just as long as he stays out of strip clubs lol
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Do I LET him? He is grown… I’m not his mama
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No, but he finally found out that it’s against the Bible…but I’ve been telling him that for a while but he finally found out on his own. He stopped after that.
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Let??? Lol. Y’all be so weird thinking you can control people and what they do TO THEIR OWN BODIES
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I don’t care what anyone says. Society has been conditioned to view it as normal and it’s not. Just because someone is getting paid, doesn’t change the fact that you are still getting off to and fantasizing about sleeping with someone else and WHY should anyone have to be ok with that? There is a higher number of divorces among couples where one or both watch porn. There is actual proof that it is problematic in relationships. That’s not even taking into account the details. It sets unrealistic expectations for what sex should be like and how women should look and it can cause people to not be able to get aroused without it. It’s a whole thing. I would just explain to him how it makes you feel. Although it’s super weird that he would even be watching it at work of all places. 
Let him? My husband chooses not to.
Is he 10?
You don’t get to control grown folks ma’am?
And there’s nothing wrong with watching porn. Why are you looking at his search history? This ain’t it ma.
Wow I’m honestly Surprised by these comments 
. Unfortunately it’s normalized now for people to lust over others and be hoes. No you’re not in the wrong he went into your relationship knowing it was a commitment. If they want to look at other naked women they should just be single or apparently with some of these girls in the comments 
. Plus you don’t have to be okay with something just because it’s a band wagon thing now days. You’re not insecure or weird for not wanting your husband to literally get off to other women. Why would you ? That defeats the purpose of getting married. If you’re cool with it whatever but it amazes me the amount of girls now days that bash someone for simply wanting THEIR OWN partner to want them . It doesn’t make sense why people even go into committed monogamous relationships if they have eyes for the whole damn planet
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As I’m sure you’ve realized by now, your choice of wording probably wasn’t the best. My husband knows that I do not like it and that I’m not okay with him watching it. He respects that and therefore doesn’t watch it.
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I don’t tell my husband what to do, he’s his own person. Out of respect for me he doesn’t. There’s just no desire there, same as me. I don’t and wouldn’t want to. If yours is, talk to him about it. He won’t know how you feel to discuss it with you unless you say something.
I personally don’t have a problem with it but some people do so it’s really just your preference. Does he know you don’t like it? Have you had a conversation with him? Why are you looking at his search history? Why is he looking at it at work of all places? That’s what strikes me as odd and concerning. 
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Do u “let” him?? Hes a grown up! Its tv! He might learn something. Better than him cheating on u. 
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At work even. I would just ask why he was watching porn. If he says he’s not, that’s his first lie.
your going through his phone
you don’t know how to approach him.
He’s a grown man go up to him and tell him “hey I went through your phone and saw you looked up porn I don’t like it stop watching it” and then be mad for days lol he’s a grown man did you ever think about asking Why he watches porn at work? Be a happy wife enjoy your man and stop worrying so much he has eyes and again he’s an adult
Yes my man watches it, it’s been a while but he does. And I don’t have a problem with it as long as he doesn’t come to me right after and ask me to do something he just saw. He needs to give me a little bit so I don’t feel like I’m a convenient vessel to do what he just saw
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I’m sure mine does. We’ve been long distance since early July. Been two months apart after almost 6 years together this November. He’ll be flying to where myself and our daughter moved to December 3rd. But when we were together, sometimes we would watch together. Try new moves. Spice things up. Fetish vids of things we had never tried before and wanted to. It really made a difference honestly. I watch it and I’m sure he does as well. You aren’t his mom. You’re his equal. How would you feel if you did something and your man told you you were not allowed to do it? You’d feel like you’re in high school. Anyways it’s just a video of a stranger he’s never met before. And will likely never meet anyways. So it’s really just a fantasy. Let the man live. But maybe remind him that work is a professional space and he needs to keep his private life at home.
You’re insecure girly
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It’s weird he watched it at work lmaoo, that’s the only issue I see
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Ok, so, honestly I do not care that mine watches prn. It is honestly something EVERY man/boy/male does. If they tell you they don’t, ha, they are telling you that to not hurt your feelings etc.
It doesn’t bother me unless its watched on youtube or tiktok and they can communicate with the nastyness that those girls are. That I think is disrespectful and disgusting.
Stick to prnhub or those of the same ilk.
Honestly if you have issues with it, talk and communicate your feelings with your SO. Understand that I don’t think its done to hurt you, its just men are hyper sexual.
If you communicate your feelings and it doesn’t change, then that is something you have to figure out for yourself. We can’t tell you how to deal with your SO. We can only give advice.
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Let him? Are you his mom?
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I don’t “let” him do anything. I’m not his mother. He’s an adult. If he wants to watch porn that’s his decision. Does it bother me? Sometimes. When he was on the road, it didn’t. I wasn’t there so I understood. However, at home? Yea it’s a little annoying because ya know “Hey I’m right here” .
Again though, it’s his decision. I’m not his mother, and my insecurities don’t dictate his life 
With that said, if you have told your husband it bothers you, and he blatantly ignores that, there is an issue. I am not saying he has to stop but he should be more sensitive about it.
As long as it’s not an obsession. I personally don’t see anything wrong with it. I’ll watch it with my husband tho, so my take on the situation is different.
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Let him?! We really need to remember we don’t own our partners. We don’t “let” each other do anything.
I don’t really watch porn. It’s not my thing, my choice. But I wouldn’t allow my partner to tell me I can’t lol
If that’s something that bothers you, talk to him:heart:
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Porn is a no in my relationship
It’s really like all of y’all just got tired of begging men to respect you so now you’re just okay with whatever they want to do (including getting off to someone who isn’t you) as long as it keeps them around 
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I don’t care if mine does lol
The only issue I have with porn, besides it being repulsive and thinking what if that were our daughter’s up there fucking for any perv to see just for money, is if he’s neglecting me to jerk off to porn videos instead. He’s a grown man, he knows what’s acceptable and what’s gross perv Behavior. If he thinks his hand is better than me that’s sad and that’s a him problem. Idc but I don’t go looking to see if he is either. Theres no excuse about men needing sex and porn just because they are men. That’s not true. A man can contribute himself. If they watch porn instead of being with you that’s an issue. If they watch it occasionally who cares.
You don’t know how to approach him about it? Just come right out and say “why the hell are you watching that at work?” And “why do you feel the need to watch it at all?” If you’re okay with it when you’re with him, let him know that.
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Lol the work part is MY concern but sure porn for all maybe just not at work 
We watch it together idc if he watches solo either
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Personally I’m fine with it since he doesn’t watch it much and I also watch it…especially on nights where neither of us feel like doing anything. There are some things I’ve learned I liked done to me during sex from watching porn that I wouldn’t have realized otherwise. Plus he has his own “toy” so he uses that from time to time, I don’t have a “toy”…just my hands which doesn’t usually work well. So yeah I’m fine with him watching porn lol.
I like porn too. I’d never take that away from my man. I feel like this is more of an insecurity issue than anything. Why are you so worried about a person he’s never going to meet? I know that from personal experience, it’s not even about the people in the video persay. I’m not like super into them and wanting to be with them it’s just sexual entertainment.
He can watch whatever he wants. It’s a video and you sound insecure
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I watch porn so yes, I think it’s ok for my man to watch porn. But that’s just me 
At least it was while he was at work, and not when u were home or in bed ready for sex being ignored while he watches it instead…that would be a much bigger problem. I understand you, some people aren’t as open to it as other couples are…maybe he got horny on his lunch break and you weren’t there?
To the people calling her insecure some people have an actual addiction to it, and completely IGNORE their partner and NO, that doesn’t mean their partner is lame or boring…it can be an actual addiction. Where they prefer that over real, physical sex or putting in any “work”.
If you are a real woman, he don’t need to watch porn !
Absolutely not, if that’s what he wants to do then I’m done. No different than cheating, why does he need to see others having sex? I’m not insecure but to me it’s no different than cheating as he fantasizes over women in video. It’s not healthy in a marriage. We are highschool sweethearts and he’s never been into that thankfully.
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Nope. It’s a gateway to cheating, wanting and fantasizing about other ppl other than your partner. It depends on the relationship I guess.
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There’s a time and place and work is not the time or place
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It’s considered cheating in my marriage after lots of long fights and conversations and crying. Wasn’t an overnight decision, it took a lot of bullshit for it to get to that point
Why do so many women have a problem with their SO watching porn? As long as it’s not kiddie or beastiality, what’s the issue?
I’ll never understand people who have an issue with this!!! Could be worse lady he could be out making his own porn else where, just be thankful it’s only porn!!!
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As long as it’s not an obsession, I would say that it’s normal for someone to want to watch porn. Telling him he’s not allowed just gives him a reason to hide it. It’s weird that you search his phone. Sounds like there’s a lack of trust. Porn is probably is least of your worries at this point.
I dont have an issue with porn…we watch it together
My man is a MAN. He doesn’t need permission. I dont care what he WATCHES. Lol
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I think it all depends on what you are comfortable with 
if you aren’t comfortable with it you need to let him know. My man isn’t interested in porn. He is grown and makes his own choices but it’s something to discuss. My ex husband used to watch it and it became an obsession to him and once it hit that point I did get insecure and I wasn’t goin:woman_shrugging:t2:
I don’t really agree with it, but I know every guy does it, so I try to just let it go so to speak.
But my question is, if your going through his search history, maybe there is bigger problems ?
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I send him pics and videos so he doesn’t have to.
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Now that’s a good one!! Let them play alone:rofl:
Maybe step up your kink game and make sure he is getting off with YOU at least a few times a week, but rest easy. I would maybe take note of the type of pn that it is (watch the same videos he does when you have a private minute (you might like it!), so you have an idea which direction you need to go. If pn is your chief complaint, and your man be bout that sex stuff at the moment, you are large and in charge, ma’am. Get ya freak on and put it in your man (go outside your comfort zone if you gotta) trust me y’all got it made. Good luck hon.
At first I didn’t mind him watching but then when he mentioned having a favorite I started to get uncomfortable with it. And said anime version only but eventually that stopped also
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