Do you wake your spouse to help with baby at night?

To me, sahm’s do not work at all, but you’re working as well you said. That being said, he can and should be helping too. He’s there, you both work, you both are tired and it’s both of your child

I worked and went to school too. My son’s FATHER wasn’t given a CHOICE as I didn’t have one. WE are Parents so WE would alternate who got up. So many Men today demanding they be SEEN as an Equal Parent, Then they should be Equally Participating PERIOD!

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When my husband iss off he gets up with me, when he works I get up on my own.

Why don’t you have a conversation with him to explain what you explain that you’re exhausted and maybe he can get out once during the night with the baby you understand that he works, but it would help you out

We both run a farm so unforgiving hours and we both switched off nights with kiddo. Tell him to be a partner not a pu$$y

I did it myself with our kids, I woke up regardless of the situation every time a child wakes up, so there is no point to us both getting a crappy night sleep!!

In my opinion, he should help on nights he doesn’t work the next day and during the says he has off. You can’t take this work load on yourself.

:rofl: you housed the baby, popped it out and now having to raise it on your own for the next 18 years bc princess needs to sleep ?
If his kid to. He can help with the nights a few times a week without waking you up.

Not unless I really needed help

you didnt make that baby all by yourself, your husband should help at least in the evening after work

this pisses me off. it’s his baby too. he needs to help. i think men fail to realize that women stay home with the baby ALL DAY too. and it’s just like having to go to a job like he does. so you’re actually working double time. wake that POS up by bringing the crying baby into the bedroom. fck that guy. he can help!