Ur definitely being taken for granted💔
Tell him men are stupid
Love languages, girl…not everyone loves the same
You are being taking for granted,you need to speak to him
I’d be saying something. My husband knows I don’t play those games. We both pay bills and we both buy eachother gifts randomly
Men aren’t mind readers as much as we wish they were. They don’t think the way we do. and unless you specifically tell him how your feeling nothing will change, and you will continue to feel resentment and disappointment. Talk to him about how you are feeling.
Stop getting him things he likes since he does that on his own. See if he even notices then have a talk.
Please send yourself some nice flowers then he might get the message
Communicate all these things with him.
Sometimes you have to teach him how to show his love which is crazy ! I would stop buying him gifts also. He is taking you for granted . Tell him what you want and like. He has gotten tooComfortable with you. Go shopping for your self . Get back to loving yourself. He sounds selfish. I hope he catches on !
Explain ur love language is gifts. Definitely look up 5 love languages.
You feel that way because you are
Stop buying for him and buy for u
My husband is the same way, so now I shower myself with his money.we did tlk and came to that conclusion, he isn’t going to do it, so I can help him out in that too you are precious to the Lord and even though it is hard, don’t validate yourself to what other may or may not do for you. All because you will never be treated the way you feel you deserve. Be your own Queen Bee, I am not saying to stop doing all of those things for him, I’m just saying you can’t control others actions, or reactions. Straingten your crown, mija:heavy_heart_exclamation:
Talk to your husband. Communicate with him, they aren’t mind readers. Also once the guy gets the girl it tends to happen to this way, they just don’t realize both parties need to make an effort to keep dating once married.
A bang and a vape? Is it usually in that order?
He probably doesn’t realize what he’s doing. Sit down and have a good talk. He’s probably just gotten to comfortable with you.
Quit doing everything for him
Sounds like you should be talking to him.
Young one first of all - he may have showered others with gifts - but what did that get him? He found a simple woman in you and you’ve expressed that. Sounds like you may be changing a little. But this sweetie is good - you are maturing- just talk to him- communication is one of the keys to a lasting relationship kiddo. Also maybe you have spoiled him a little to much - try slowing down on the gifts.
I agree with the sit down talk with him, and you should start the conversation recognizing anything that he does well.
First how did you get your job I need help …and your husband change things now I have been with mine 40 years and he is so selfcenter everything is him and hide money trust me
My boyfriend tells me he use to be better about buying gifts til he started dating me. Told me about some 1500 stove he bought his ex but the most I’ve got is some flowers and that’s just on my birthday ect…and I’m the mother of his child like idk. It hurts me too cause I go out of my way to get him things atleast once a week cause I know he will want or need it at some point. And when I bring it up he says “well I never asked for that”
Stop doing for him and start doing for yourself. He’ll see it