Has anyones child had a micropenis: What was the outcome?

From experience, if you’re thinking his future, make sure he learns about other forms of pleasure. It makes up for it about 90% from a woman’s perspective. Hope this helps.

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Lmfao your exhusband… “Tic tac” hahaha Elizabeth Scott

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Did your sons testicles drop? There is an issue called anorchia or vanishing testes syndrome that can cause a micro penis if not treated with testosterone that a boy needs

For those of you who are making ‘small penis’ comments- this is exactly what she’s worried about for her child when he gets older. A little classless to bash men with small penises on this post.

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Shaketita L Bates we know a full grown man with one

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Can we delete the unnecessary comments :roll_eyes: so rude :unamused:

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To the women in this thread mocking this, shame on you. This mother is looking for advice, not jokes. Not the place or time.

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Also, since everyone is sex obsessed. Just remind your son, when age appropriate, that toys come in all shapes and sizes because people have all different preferences. Theres small ones too. :grin:

I hope the article above helps you Mama. Also make sure to get a second opinion some have been diagnosed wrong and it was actually caused by other issues.

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I don’t even understand how this is funny! And people are tagging their friends about exes! Comments are down right disgusting. Please stop !

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Some of you are assholes. Good lord.

Not to sound dumb or anything but what is a micropenis I have a son and 3 step sons so would love some tips please

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This is a child with a real medical condition, not a joke. Some of y’all need to grow the fuck up.

I knew of someone years ago that had a tiny one but it grew pretty big when erected so might be ok

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So I don’t have any advice, I think the biggest thing is ensuring that he actively hears how beautiful all body types are, and how everyone’s body is different, chances are (unfortunately) he is going to have to develop some thick skin due to the fact that as you can see above people can be cruel.

I believe that if you only promote body positivity in your home, you’re able to have more open and honest conversations about how an honoured body is a well kept soul, whatever someone’s version of honouring themselves are.
I’m sorry I don’t have any helpful advice, as I only have a daughter, but I think that as long as he is kind, as long as he is loving, those are the only things that really matter. :black_heart:

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Wow mocking a child ? What kind of women are on here
Makes me sick these women

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Testosterone shots have helped someone I love dearly. He’s 7 weeks old, but the results have been fabulous.

To the women who are using this as a source of laughter, I pray your children never have a deficiency or deformity. I’d hate for them to know their mothers think it’s funny.

Asses.

Keep the medical sessions going and introduce him to weight lifting early :muscle:t3: God will do the rest

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Hi :wave:
I’m really sorry to see that girl being ignorant about the situation
But it also goes to show that there is a real concern for the original poster.

In my early 20s I was involved with someone who had a very small package. I had never seen or experienced that

I liked him so much tho that I tried and tried. And there are certain positions that you just really can’t do and it’s so unsatisfying. Until we took our time exploring other ways.
He told me he was insecure about it since high school when he was in football and the boys would walk around and he noticed he was different. So I’m college he would practice giving oral to his girlfriend and he really did perfect his technique

So just some of that and girl on top and it was workable.

It’s not the size of the boat it is the motion in the ocean

I can tell you though he may want to take the conservative side so as not to be beaten up by the rude ignorant people out there.

Girls can’t choose how their privates look, neither can boys. All we can do is educate them that all are different and there are different ways to please or be pleased!

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My son is 5 months old and was born with 2 extra female chromosomes. Doctors said that he had a micropenis. He just had his first testosterone shot a few days ago to hopefully help with it.

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My son is having urological problems as well. I really hope you can find some good medical advice. My prayers are with you :pray: :heart:

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Is the child heavy ? Some heavy men and boys hide the penis under fat. I can’t understand why you would have a child see a Doctor because of this problem at such a young age. I’m thinking the child will be humiliated and it’s going to make him have complexes because he thinks there is something wrong with him.

I honestly didn’t even know this was a real medical issue until now. Looks like some fantastic moms with wonderful advice in this group. Love to see women lifting women up :heartpulse:

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Following for info I didn’t know This was a thing.

Bless your mama heart.

Hugs

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As a mother of a little boy; I’m sorry that your son has to go through this. Only thing I suggest is to build his confidence and never let him feel ashamed. Support him and teach him that he isn’t less of a male. Don’t let anyone here or when he grows up degrade him. I’m sure he is a sweet little boy and you have my prayers. Kids and people can be cruel and unfortunately people forget they are not perfect either.

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This group would never put up with these terrible comments. It is a great resource for approaching sexual based parenting questions. I do think this question would qualify.

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Shame on you guys for making a joke on this subject, my heart goes out to this mother for wanting to help her son.

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My son is 9 and he was circumcised. For the longest time I thought the dr did it wrong. I have brought up that numerous times and they keep telling me when he gets taller and more fit it will start getting bigger. He has a big fat pack. His penis hasn’t really grown since birth. His 6 year old brother is bigger in the area so I will be mentioning it again at next appointment. I would like to know for sure. What will the neurologist do?

Unfortunately as parents we tend to seek advice from people who run their mouth. Eventually kids from his school will find out and bully him.

Tip as a parent. Stick to doctors advice and look for doctors second opinion.

Keep your child’s business private.

Dont consult family or friends on this highly personal matter.

If you have. Try to discontinue.

Dont give people updates on his progress.

All these things will eventually hurt him while growing up.

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See if your doctor will put a referral in for endocrinology. We see this often.

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Any person mocking this child your going straight to hell!

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You got this momma. I have no advice but I see some good advice here for you! Don’t entertain it

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I know a child who did and once they hit puberty it grew to within normal range, his was 1.5cm at 11 yo

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Facebook needs to shut down bully comments from people mocking others with medical conditions that they didn’t ask for

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Following my 8 year old son is very very small and he is starting to be affected by how small it is bc his older 11 year old brother makes fun of him calls it a tic tac.

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Not trying to be rude in any way, but what is a micropenis?

My son does as well he has a growth hormone deficiency, he’s taking genotropin that will hopefully help with some growth

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I’m curious now! We just had our son checked by family dr and he said his lil man hood was ok, however I wonder now if we should see a urologist instead :thinking:

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Awww that’s not something to worry about. It’s like the size of breasts. He will find a partner in life that loves him the way he is, just like his mama. There are other thing that matter way more in the grand scheme of things. If you show your son love then he will never know different.

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My one ex bf had one. Not a good time as far as that goes, but he made 2 kids ( me & another chick he cheated on me with).While I doubt they are amazing to have, I think you have to be a super supportive mom & let him know size doesn’t matter & he isnt less a man or meant to be a female etc . When seekin medical help, please do so sensitively.

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I haven’t read all of the post, but if you are being mean & hateful shame on you. This is a serious question this mom is asking.

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I don’t know how much they can do while he is a child but babe there’s soooo many options for when he is older. Just encourage him to love himself no matter his differences and that if he wants, doctors can work miracles. He will be just fine.

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My ex husband had surgery when he was younger to fix it. I know that is not advice necessarily. Hope everything works out.

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For all of you asses making jokes and shit…
y’all should really look at yourself, and that’ll be enough joke for you…
Disgusting people.

As a M/B RN, i hate to say this, but this is fairly common. Most say it will grow, but when one sees it all, these boys will always have a small one. Sorry. Unfortunately i think when he us a teenager, he might be teased about it. I never heard anything that really can make it larger/bigger. If they can, i do hope for the best

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Why are ppl so hateful? This is a child…smh

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Prayers. But hes still growing maybe things will come out fine

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Bruh, this is like 85% of the population. By the time I was 20 I was convinced big ding dings were a myth. He will be fine. Lots of other micros out there that are still getting some.

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A boy’s penis doesn’t grow much or at all till he goes through puberty.

Some of your children have social media or will soon enough and you are on here talking about their penis size and medical condition. As a mother it terrifies me that other kids will get their hands on this information and bully or hurt your children. I mean there are grown women on here making jokes about it, imagine what will happen to your kid? There is a link on the post to comment anonymously. Just a word of warning.

<3 hugs <3 I’m not sure if they still dress out for PE, but getting a medical 504 might have other students be insulting/bullying. This group doesn’t have the parents name, which is awesome. Just make sure this personal information isn’t listed, more people see a child’s school info than they should.

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Seeing how some of you behave and knowing that y’all are moms is truly terrifying. Immature, classless, heartless are just a few words that come to mind. I really hope y’all are raising your children better than this. I hope that y’all never have a question about a medical condition your child has and have to deal with the shit y’all have dished out (or maybe I do). Imagine how y’all have made her feel? Y’all should be ashamed of yourselves and yes im talking to you like children bc y’all are behaving like children. Trashy…that is a big one I was forgetting!

I am so sorry that there are so many insensitive people in this thread. This poor woman is looking for advice for her son, and grown ass women are here bullying and making fun of the condition. Imagine if it were your child.
Momma, I hope you are able to find answers for your sweet boy, and are able to protect him from ignorant, small-minded, judgemental people like the ones commenting here. Hugs :heart:

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If I was you in that situation I will Google it for more information.

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My child does not have a micro penis but I am a urology nurse. Most likely he will get a small amount of testosterone injections, there could be surgical intervention but they will more than likely try the shots first.

Wait I’m confused I thought between the ages 10 and 15 they are still “growing”. How do you know he isn’t done growing yet? Growth rate usually begins around 12.

I did some research on the subject. Because your post scared me about my ten year old, but I’m genuinely curious. How do you know that he surpass puberty and he is done growing? :heart::heart: mom to moms

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I was told by my Dr. it is the same size from birth until they go through puberty. Even took time to talk with child.

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My son was tiny after a trip to the urologist it was discovered he has buried penis and his sack was too far up his shaft. They did a surgery and his peanut became a Vienna sausage :flushed:, it was a little shocking.

This thread is a travesty. Best of luck mama, I’m sure you’re doing all the right things. By even recognizing there’s an issue and addressing it-you’re a step ahead of many.

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Why did y’all marry a micro penis??!? I need a grown man

I can’t believe some of you are actually mothers. It’s all fun and games until it’s your child correct? Smdh #dobetter

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I’ve heard of this issue before. I believe in puberty they can have surgery to correct it. But I would talk to his doctor. Just try to teach him to be comfortable in the skin he’s in. Everything will turn out ok. It may be costly but some insurances may cover due to self esteem and being bullied in high school.

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One woman made a rude statement about my son being little, I just remember thinking what an idiot. Anyway he had woman chasing him and fighting over him. I don’t think that he encouraged it but women were crazy about him so don’t worry about it! I have no idea about what he grew into, I don’t think it was any of my business. But love is more about how he treats a woman.

This page is spose to be a safe haven to ask questions and give advice . We are all different . We all should share love and understanding xx

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Wow! I am out of this group. Don’t want to be associated with such rude unsympathetic women.

It’s a good thing that you and your son are aware of his condition. Someone I once knew was clueless. He was in his early 20s when he went to see a doc for help cos he wanted facial hair😊 doc examined him n gave him a hormone shot. He grew a a beard soon after and everything else grew too😉

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I have been trying to figure that out for a very long time. As my son grew from an infant his penis did not and noone could tell me why or anything. I don’t want my son hung like a horse but I also don’t want this to become a complex with him when he already has mental and emotional issues combined with Autism. He will be 12 in September. He has a referral to see an enchronologist so I’m hoping for some answers and hopefully a treatment.

He’ll be okay mama :heart:

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To the person that asked this question, please message me.

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My friend’s son had this and they put him on testosterone therapy. Plus when is an adult they can lipo the fattypad around his privates to show more penis, plus they do pumps before intercourse and I’ve heard some ppl use Viagra to get the max amount of blood flow to make it large as possible.

Why would you put this on social media? People can be so cruel, this poor kid will probably get bullied about this

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They will probably put him on hormones…

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My son’s was very small I know til he was at least 10 or 11 I was really worried that it was never gonna grow. I mean i haven’t it in years but he’s almost 16 and doesn’t have insecurities about it. So I’m guessing when puberty hit… but I dated a guy with a micro penis like 10 years ago and that poor guy so I was worried about my son having those problems as an adult. I really hope for your sons sake that everything works itself out around puberty or that the Dr’s are able to help.

I know this may sound stupid but I’ve never heard of that before could someone sort of give me a definition of what it is

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They will probably test him to see if he has a gene mutation or androgen insensitivity - there are hormonal and surgical options available pending the outcome of testing - it can be a characteristic of being intersex

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Contrary to what the snake oil salesman try to sell insecure dudes, it’s not possible to increase the natural size through medication or the like. If the kid is small, he’s gonna be small forever.

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Why are people talking about being bullied? Since when do teens show their peniss to eachother? No ones gonna know unless hes intimate…

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I had a relative who was born with one and he grew to normal size

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I don’t really have anything helpful to contribute. Hugs :hugs: to the family as no one has the right to tell you how not to feel as they have not walked in your shoes. (I also want to say. Holy crap, the smart alecky comments from some of you! Can I seriously borrow you all to tell off some of my extended family members? :grin::pray:)

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He might have an extra X chromosome. He might be an intersex. Intersex is a general term used for a variety of situations in which a person is born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the boxes of “female” or “male.” Sometimes doctors do surgeries on intersex babies and children to make their bodies fit binary ideas of “male” or “female”.

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I don’t know but I’m just sending you love :revolving_hearts::heart::revolving_hearts::heart::two_hearts::heart::revolving_hearts:

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I dated a man with a micropenis. There’s someone for everyone, doll. He’ll work around it.

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Have an ex boyfriend with a micro. But when he was a kid it wasn’t something “fixable”.
Hubby has his own penis issues, reallynot up for sharing. I will admit he has testosterone issues. Finally got blood work for him. His levels were so low that the doctor said they misread the test! Second test was literally onr point better. Doctor was stunned. It happens.
I would really ask in detail how surgery will help. If it will have any long term issues, for either general sex, having kids, or even into older age. If you aren’t satisfied in detail with answers get a second opinion.

Wow. Some of the “mothers” in these comments making a joke out of a child. Grow up!

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Well if there’s no improvement I recommend getting him into therapy in a few years.

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My son does. I wanted him circumcised after he was born. They told me his penis was too small. Then at his one month check up, his pediatrician diagnosed him with micropenis. Since it doesn’t run on my side of the family or on his father’s side, he sent us to get his thyroid function tested. It came back at ZERO. Sidenote, he had a seizure the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd day of life. They didn’t know why then, newborn testing was all normal. After the thyroid test tho, we were referred to a children’s hospital 4 hours away. After several days of testing, they found out he has Panhypopituitarism with cortisol dependency. Basically he was born without his pituitary gland, so he doesn’t produce any hormones on his own. He had NO hormones at all in his tiny body. They said he shouldn’t be alive. He was immediately put on hormone replacement therapy. At 3 we found out he is blind in his left eye. Around 7 we found out that something was up with his hearing. We finally got him to cooperate with the hearing test, after the 4th try, when he was 9 or 10. We found out he has mild hearing loss in his left ear and is deaf in his right ear. He has also been diagnosed with Schaaf-Yang with Autism thru genetic testing around 3 years ago. He is nearly 14 years old now, and he still has a micropenis. But we have seen a urologist a few times over the years. He said to hold off on circumcising him until a few years after beginning sex hormones. We can’t start sex hormones until we are satisfied with his height and bone growth. After that, the urologist said when he’s older, he may have enough extra skin on his penis to possibly do an elongation surgery. If we were to circumcise him, he would lose that option. It’s looking like he may be an adult by that time. He may never live independently, but I’m glad he may be an adult by then and maybe have a better understanding of all this and be able to make the final decision for himself.

Whether it’s surgery, medication or it still stays the same I’m sure he’ll be ok. Build his self esteem and let him know his punishment doesn’t define who he is.

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I have honestly never heard of this before!!!

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I’m sending hugs. I hope you will find the answers you’re looking for.

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I wish you and your beautiful son health ,blessings and happiness.

The sensitive sallies are out in full crybaby Karen force, I see :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::v:t4::fu:t4:

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I dated a guy like tht. Found out his sperm was bad. So no kids .

I think my grandson does. He’s 6 months and literally looks like he’s got an innie. When we change his diaper we have to push on the surrounding fat to get it to pop up and its tiny. My son was bigger but not alot bigger. I don’t know what he’s like as a 27yr old but he himself jokes saying he’s " hung like a parakeet":rofl:

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Wow Melissa you are insensitive and rude!!!

Mine was the same be has Fragile X (missing x chromosome) he is now 12 and his is finally starting to grow.

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My ex has a micro penis, but he still made a baby w me just fine :woman_shrugging:t3::rofl::rofl:

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Is he circumcised? Did they fuck it up? Try what ever you can, but when the sex talk come up he doesn’t need to be worried about his size, the right person will come into his life, and there’s so much more to relationships.