Take your husband on a fun bonding vacation or weekend getaway with just you two. If you give yourselves some free time together without any kids or distractions you can both focus on each other talk and let loose a little.
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Look this is your husband, you should be able to talk openly about your needs and wants. Hopefully he hears you, find what his needs are too.
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Omg. Appreciate what you have.
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Maybe he is having Low T or an underlying medical condition. My hubby has health issues that cause our activity to be next to nothing. We been married almost 22 years and together 25. Intimacy is still there and the love but not the act. Hugs and I can so relate to your post. I agree to make Dr appointment to check things out.
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My fiance and I been together over 5 years now and we are a maybe 4 times a month couple …because work, kids and mental health. It can really take a toll on people.
We are good for each other and help each other in our own ways but don’t care to have sex all the time like when we first got together. Lol
This is my marriage also. Part of it for us is medicines hubby is taking.
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Maybe he’s depressed
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Have him see his doctor and have some labs run. His hormones could be out of whack. He could have low D and B levels. Maybe depression.
Maybe initiate in the morning before work?
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Masterbate. Have him get his testosterone levels checked. Also not wanting sex is a thing my wife and I don’t really have sex I don’t have an interest in it
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Sex is not everything, but it is very important in a relationship. It creates a stronger bond, its a show of love and a yearn for one another. My husband and I usually have sex every day, if not multiple times a day. We’ve been together for 13 years and have 3 small children. We make that time for each other every day because it’s important to us and because it’s fun. Something that is also very important is open and honest communication. Tell him how you feel. Be honest and raw. It’s okay to need more from your partner.
Usually low testosterone is the cause. Get all his levels checked
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My husband has a lower drive than I do, but my husband will never turn me down unless he’s too tired or not feeling well. In that case we will do it the next day.
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Since having my son I never want sex I just don’t feel for it.
My son is 1 and we’ve done it a handful of times.
My husband was having this issue and his testosterone was really low. He may need to go get checked out. It’s important for more than yalls sex life.
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Why are you asking strangers when you should be talking to your Dr. There are many reasons for this so talk to your Dr. or ask him if he can refer you to someone that can help him. Best of luck.
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You have to be honest with him and tell him,then if that don’t work buy a sex toy
This didn’t change over night. You’ve always known that your sex drive is higher than his. You’ve been together a long time…what has changed now that your wanting to pressure your partner to be intimate with you when he doesn’t feel sexual? Why are you making it about you? He doesn’t want to have sex with others, he isn’t cheating, he isn’t masturbating and refusing you, etc. if the situation were reversed and you Only wanted sex from your partner once a month, how would you feel if he kept insisting that you have sex more often?
I think as long as your partner is having active and regular sex and what is “normal” in your relationship that you should focus on the positives in your life. You’re creating a problem where there really isn’t One. You should self pleasure when your partner isn’t interested.
Maybe you could try a supplement for low testosterone or maybe he has an actual medical issue he needs to be seen for
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Definitely get his testosterone checked. Also I would be curious as to if this has always been the case? If not, has something changed?
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Maybe a complete physical and some marriage counseling.
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I would get some sexy lingerie and get the kids to bed, put it on, have a few drinks…
We’ve been in ruts before and it sucks. Get him in the mood. Make sure you both have the night off and enjoy yourselves…
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Have him tested for LOW T
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Communication is the key!! My husband and I were in your shoes. I opened up to him about it because it hurt feeling like I wasn’t good enough for him to even want to touch me. We had long talks about this and he understands where I’m coming from. We have sex at least once a week now, although I’d like it more lol as a last resort get yourself some toys and take care of “it” yourself lol
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Is this a new situation ?
Is he older or on new meds ?
Talk to him.
If its a new problem then Drs visit is called for
If this is normal for him then you knew what you were marrying into
sounds depressed to me
Have his testosterone levels checked. Guy’s hormone levels go down with age just like a woman’s. He needs to see a dr . Maybe he just needs a vitamin supplement.
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Check to see he isn’t depressed.
Sounds to me he may be depressed
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sounds to me he needs to see dr about the intimacy issue. have u tried talking to him maybe try different things like different ways try candlelight dinners and wine maybe a nice nightie to get him in the mood
Buy some toys for yourself. Placing your pleasure in his hands solely is not a solid idea. If you have needs, take care of it yourself and enjoy when he wants to join in. It’s okay to masturbate and make yourself feel good. Don’t depend on others to satisfy you. Learn to satisfy yourself.
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Communication is key??? Ask what the issue is???Come up with resolutions to resolve the issue…explain how this is making you feel…what would happened if you only cooked once a month??? What would happen if you only cleaned once a month??? Has it always been like this…good luck
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Low T. Get him checked out.
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Get some toys & take care of yourself. When he see’s that happening, he will probably want to join in! 
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My man and I have been together 17 years. We used to do it some times twice a day on weekends and every week night once a night. But about 2 maybe 3 years ago it started slowing down. Now he will tell me when he wants it and when I joke around about how much I don’t get he tells me just to grab it even if he’s in bed half asleep before i get there. I never pushed it about a year and a half ago when he changed jobs and had to get up between 4:30 and 5:15 in the morning and going to bed around 10 I just never wanted to keep him up another hour. BUT now about 2.5 months ago he got a hernia in his ball sack so sex is really out of the question till he can get it fixed (happen while working but they will not admit to it). My sex drive is up more than his even before he got hurt. But I had sex toys he got me 16 years ago (others since LOL) but if he can’t I can.
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It could bee other things, see a marriage councilor.
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Sooooo…him being a deadbeat dad and husband is cool. But him not docking you down isn’t…
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He may have an issue. He should see a Dr. They can help these sort of problems. Also it could be medical condition. Good luck. I hope he does go to Dr as it would make you and him both feel better.
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Get his testosterone checked
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Or… Hear me out on this… Maybe he’s asexual. And that’s completely normal as well. But you guys will need to talk about it and decide if that’s something you can both live with within your relationship.
Majority of his comments are saying to get his testosterone checked & to do all these things blah blah all along the lines of it’s abnormal for a man to feel like that… But sometimes it’s really not. 
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Have him go see a doctor. His testosterone levels could be low. Tell him how you feel. If he refuses he is being selfish and bedroom problems always filter into other problems in your marriage
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Check testosterone levels. When my guy wasn’t eating clean and was a little over weight his sex drive went down, but we started eating clean and working out together and his se, drive significantly changed
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Give him more blow jobs. He’ll change his mind real quick.
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He should have his testosterone levels checked. They are most likely low. Doctors can prescribe meds. Not sure if his age but this happened to so many men. I have been giving my husband shots for years. It helps with energy, sex drive, overall health.
Difficult situation . Have you spoken , as a couple , to your Family Doctor ?
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Some people have phobias and think sex is dirty. I’d tell him you’ve thought about learning accupressure and want him as a test subject. Get him to take his shirt off and go behind and with your thumbs firmly probe the shoulderblade curve. Where he flinches just massage around the area.
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Take it from someone who has once screwed up bc things didn’t change. He has to get on meds for low testosterone. It is a major issue and if your anything like me you feel like your not wanted if he doesn’t want you. Things can change. I promise
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Slip sone viagra in his beer lol
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Talk to him about it. I know it is an awkward subject, but it needed to be discuss before it goes too far and misunderstanding happen.
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Get a vibrator or sex toy and use it in front of him when y’all are alone see if that works it did for me but than again everyone is different but the other women here have a good idea about his testosterone levels.
Communication…you need to sit down and really have a good talk…i know soneone who was exhausted all the time and slept alot and sat on that dam couch afte work…he didnt think about sex anymore because he lacked the energy to do anything and had excuses…and was probably on the depressed and bored with life stage
He changed because his wife started working out and when he saw other guys starring at his wife
he decided to change his eating habits and took walks in the evenings with the wife and started working out …he had energy again and intimacy improved
But it also could be medical
But by talking with him maybe he might seek help or change his ways
Try leaving him on your days with your child for a couple of hours since it seems like he doesnt spend much time with his kiddo and go to a gym yourself to help clear that frustration…there might even be babysitting there
Talk to him
You may need to wake up the freak in him
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He may not be able to get it up.
Was he like this before you married? I suspect his job takes a lot out of him. Do you have the ability to take a vacation? You might be able to spice things up a bit, if you can get him away from the office for a few days.
Get some toys find but also respect his sexuality and seek counseling for yourself as you clearly associate sex with love.
Give him a massage, do more sensual stuff give him a bj… Dress up in sexy stuff… get yourself some toys and do your own thing…
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Have you ever talked about your sex life with him? Maybe he is having ED problems and is afraid to tell you or go seek professional help.
Me and my ex from years ago were like this but with no children and not married. Turns out he was cheating.
Ask him if it’s ok if you buy yourself a bedroom toy. If he wants he can join in on the fun or watch. Sometimes that helps with the intimacy that you are currently missing
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Health food store or go online for testosterone pills
See if he’ll go to the doctor there could be something going on