Get a restraining order on him, and call the cops.
Call the cops and change the locks!
Iām praying for you. You deserve to be happy without that extra burden he puts on you.
File an eviction notice at your local court house. I think itās $50. But this is the legal route, and if he starts behaving aggressively, threatens you, or damages your home/belongings, then video it and immediately file for a Domestic Violence Order.
Call the police get a restraining order then apply for maintenance support off him
You start the eviction process and a restraining order.
Find a domestic violence agency to work with. Itās especially hard and dangerous when they are violent. Itās going to take some hard work.
Thereās resources out there that can help single mothers. Try find a program that your comfortable in, then pack up you & your kids, move to the other side of the city without telling him where youre going. Call the cops if he knows where to find you. Good luck
I would relocate and change your name and your kids names.
Evict him and restraining order
I just got rid of one like this never will ever put up with it again either
File for an order of protection. This removes him from your home and restricts him from doing property damage without having to deal with jail.
If heās on your lease you can try to have him evicted but thatās going to be an expensive road if you donāt have extra money to spend on attorneys and court fees.
Iād start with the order of protection.
If you arenāt serious and ready to follow through with it then donāt start the process.
Current except mine donāt destroy my stuff. I already got mine for stealing and pawning my laptop for money. All I did was call the cops. You need to learn how to put your foot down or else you are always gonna be a pushover. I am one and after I get home (I had my last baby Thursday morning), shit is getting real.
Get a OP and evict him
Kick him out, evict him. If he comes back call the cops and get a restraining order.
Phone the police 
You must have something if you own a house & can still live there. Now as for him, this is your house, not his, throw his ass out, change the locks & if he comes around, donāt let him in & call the police, File charges against him if you have to. This is all on you, if you continue to allow it. Change the locks, file a complaint against him if he continues to come around, but if you let him back in, again that is all on you
Eviction-restraining order - court
Tell him you have some incurable illness , STDs HIV ETCā¦
Sit his shit out and change the locks
Restraining order? Itās your house. Kick his ass out and donāt let him back in.
Kick him out even if you have to call the law and get a restraining order against him
Get yourself a job how do you pay your bills when you donāt work snd he donāt help .
Get a protective order, call the cops if need be, change the locks, and evict him if the law requires it.
Evict him and file for child support. Thatās the legal way. Only communicate through text so you have all communication in writing and get some cameras so you can see what he does and have proof if he damages anything. And if he does call the cops. If it continues after he leaves then call the cops and get a restraing order against him.
Its called a 30 day notice or if he broke your stuff thats domestic violence in that gets restraining order
Iām not understanding how you have no money or job, but have a home he is staying in with you.
Call the locksmith. Go get a OFPā¦ and go talk to the cops about removing him from your property.
Call the cops. If he doesnāt get mail there, youāre good. Get a restraining order. If he is in the childās life though, forming a relationship with his child, be wise.
You better get him out, if he comes back call the cops immediately, or your ass is going to jail for fraudā¦if he is court ordered to pay child support, and you let him move in with you after it was set, that is fraud and somebody in his family could report you, YOU ARE BREAKING THE LAW!!! GET HIM OUTā¦GROW UP AND IF HE COMES BACK, CALL THE COPS!!! THEN GET A RESTRAINING ORDERā¦SOUNDS like you donāt really want him out, you just want a man around, and that my friend could land YOU in jail!!!
Get an eviction notice sent to him , he then has so many days to get out
How are you affording the rent or mortgage and your utilities with No job??
This makes me so angry , but there is a lot of them kind out there , get a restraining order against him & when he knocks call 911
If youāre not calling the cops when he does these terrible things youāre not ready for the advice you claim to seek. While heās gone put his stuff out and call the cops when he comes over or heās acting up. I think you know this tho.
Geton with your life and set the example for your children and not him setting it with his awful behavior.
Call the cops, get a restraining order, 30 day notice
You said if you donāt let him in he trys to destroy your things. How?? If he canāt get in ,he canāt destroy anything. And honestly at this point Iād let him destroy stuff as evidence for a police report.
When his put pack his things and put them outside on the drive way, away from the house. When he shows up, if he starts breaking things call the Police. Donāt let him back in.
Kick him out, call police when he tries to enter
tell him its not a hotel. consult a lawyer because you may need to legally evict him. Stop feeding him and ask him to leave
How do you pay your bills if you donāt work and he doesnāt pay them?
Restraining order 
If you are the owner and not married just call the police. Heāll have to leave. Who cares of he gets pissed off. Iād get a PO after that.
Get the police & Courts involved. Take the steps necessary to free yourself.
Heās not on the lease or owes, so give him 30 day notice. If heās not out by they, pack all his belongings leave it out the front door. Change locks and tell him he out when he gets home. Record him and let him see you recording him from inside the house and if he gets violent call 911.
Kick him out. Change locks. Call police when he shows up. Document everything
Go get a restraining order against him and get a pro bono lawyer for child support and push it as hard as possible if heās not going to pay he will go to jail
That is your house, put your foot down and tell him if he doesnāt help with the house hold duties that need to be done then heās out. You donāt owe him anything just because heās the father of your kidsā¦ if heās going to be lazy and destroy your belongings then kick him out. Call the police to escort him off your property! I assume you arenāt married so he has no rights to your house and cannot force himself to stay.
Put him out,call the cops if tries to destroy. Why would you even let him in to start?!
How do you expect to receive an answer and not give the whole story ?
You donāt have money or a job ā¦. But he doesnāt pay bills. Iām so confused lol
Get courts involved. Get an attorney. Stop choosing lazy, entitled boys (they are not men).
Unfortunately youāll probably have to legally evict him. But if he is destroying your property call the police to file a report
If all his stuff there and he been there a while just ask him do you have somewhere else to go and tell him why tell him you not paying any of the bills your not helping me in any way. If none of that works ā¦ Go do a eviction heāll have 30 days from the time he gets the notice. And when you go do the eviction tell them he going to come back and destroy your things.
Give him a 30 notice and then at the end of 30 days evict him. Cops will help remove him. Change locks.
Two sides to every story and the truth lies in between somewhere
each time he destroys your things have him arrested. After a a while he canāt come back, cause heāll be too busy in jail. Seek an order of protectionāFOLLOW THROUGH with court, and keep him out for 2 years. When he tries in two years, have him arrested again. Destruction of your person property or safety threat is domestic violence.
If he is not on the lease or the paperwork, then just tell him he has to go. And if he gets mean about it call the police and get a restraining order or file an eviction notice on him. And every time he starts destroying things call the police and have him arrested. That is a form of domestic violence.
Get a job, unless your on disability and canāt.
Get the courts to kick him out.
Get a restraint. Order and if that donāt work have hem arrested.
Depending on how long he has been there, you may have to go through the courts to have him removed.
If he has been there more than 30 days and receives mail there, you would have to file an eviction on him.
Alternatively, the next time you tell him to leave and he flips shit and starts destroying stuff, call the cops. Tell them he doesnāt live there, has been crashing on the couch and when you asked him to leave, it lead to this situation. You could also file a restraining order, which would forcibly remove him.
These options, of course will make it more difficult to co-parent in the future. By the sounds of him though, I donāt think youāll be getting much co-parenting.
If I were you, and it was my owned house, I would pack all his shit and sit in on the front porch, then change the locks while heās at work and send him a text saying he doesnāt stay there anymore. Then when he shows up starting shit, call the copsā¦. But again, thatās not the ālegalā way to do it.
Everyone telling her to just leave, you clearly havenāt been in a hard situation. I couldnāt just up and leave my marriage because I wanted to, I was a stay at home mom, we had one vehicle only, it was very hard, and I had no where to go without a down payment for a place and down payment on utilities, and I tried to get help with no luck because they went off my husbandās income. Itās not always so easy.
Legally you most likely have to go down to the court house and file an election notice. Heāll get 30 days. But if he gets physical and heās already destroying your property you can go down to the courthouse and get a restraining order. I had to get a restraining order for my ex. Itās the only thing that worked. And you can have him arrested for breaking your property! Do it! I didnāt with my ex and I ended up with a black eye. Who knows if Iād still be alive today if I kept him around.
Change the locks and if he causes trouble! Call the police!
Call 
the cops . I normally never suggest this, but eff that. He canāt be destroying your stuff.
Kick him out you said itās your house lock door close windows and ghost him phone police Everytime he turns up heāll soon get the picture!
Call the police, have them evict him. If he destroys property, arrest him.
First things first, does he get any mail there? If not you can have him removed, change your locks and get a restraining order. If he does get mail then you will have to go through the eviction process.
Get him outā¦police involvedā¦although if itās like it is in my State and heās been living there youāll have to take legal channels to remove him from āhisā residence
I suggest getting in touch with your local DV agency because you need their guidance and help (some even offer legal help)
File a 30 day eviction notice at your local courthouse cops will make him get out without destroying your stuff
Next time he destroys anything call the police.Get an AVO put on him.
You have a house. But no job or money. Something doesnāt add up here.
Depending on where you live, you might have to give him 30 days notice to move out. Even if you own the house. Thatās unfortunately how it works in Utah.
if he is supposed to pay child support and isnāt turn his ass in and while heās sitting in jail change the locks
Call the police next time he comes there and breaks your stuff. Press trespassing charges.
Restraining order if he is damaging property and dangerous
When he starts destroying your shit, CALL THE POLICE.
Kick him out, call the cops. And if he had a job and supposed to pay child support u should automatically get child support cuz they take it out their checks.
I know itās scary but if he donāt help anyway then there isnāt a change with him gone. I would tell him if he canāt help then he has to go and serve him eviction notice. Then if he brakes your stuff make sure to record it and call the cops. They will give you a restraining order.
You will have to get an eviction notice to get him out and if he isnāt out in the allotted time you can pit his stuff at the curb
Eviction notice, hidden cameras for evidence of domestic violence, restraining order, press charges for property damage.
I believe that if a woman has to do everything by herself then she DOESNāT need no man 
If you get a restraining order against him (breaking your things) then he HAS to move right then escorted by the sheriffs
Your kids have to witness this? Jesus. Please put a restraining order on him and get him out. Fuck what you want, your children arenāt supposed to see domestic violence and thatās what this is
Restraining order if hes destroying your property
Get the police involved 
Eviction. If he tries being aggressive and destroying things call the police and file the report.
get a restraining order
Can not get a restraining order unless he is violent and abusive with PROOF without violating his rights, such as cameras have to be announced on the property. You can try to evict him, even then he is the dad. So good luck.
Pack his shit. Put it outside. Change the locks. Call the police.
Eviction notice and if he breaks your things itās domestic Violence call the cops. Getting a PPO.
You donāt need an eviction notice if itās your house. Heās a guest. Tell him to leave, if he doesnāt, call the cops to put him out. Then file a restraining order. He canāt force himself on you!@
Kick him out. Get a restraining order. If he comes around call the authorities.
Call the police, change the locks and when he comes call 911. It could be your life one day.
I had to get a restraining orderā¦
Next time he leaves bag all his shit up and put it outside, tell him he has to go. Change your locks if you need too
restraining order. Believe me. they will give you one pretty quickly. They gave one to my brothers ex even though there was proof that he wasnāt even around her the day she accused the abuse happened. The judge looked at him and said you donāt need to be around one another so he granted it. So he isnāt even allowed around the children either bc she cried wolf. So if this is what he really is doing then go for the PFA.
Go to h&r block. Get some of your tax refund early. Go to magistrate and get an eviction and a restraining order
File eviction notice on him.