I donât like that. Some people continue to be friends with exes & thatâs just something I donât agree with lol. Especially if youâve mentioned that it bothers you and he hasnât done anything to ease your mind.
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After youâve expressed yourself & did it again, heâs showing you pure disrespect. Up to you if youâre ganna tolerate being disrespected or not.
If you communicated your thoughts and they still do it itâs called disrespect. I like to say that Iâm ok with this stuff cause at least they are honest and not hiding opinions BUT due to pass mental abuse and trauma it still hurts
Alot of it depends on the current relationship and circumstances. I meanâŚif she blew him off and he is still liking her stuff⌠I would have an issue with thatâŚit would be like without social media him mentioning her every time he got a chance. Even in this woke society there are not many acceptable reasons for a guy to follow a past lover around on social media. Take social media out of itâŚput the behavior in a real life scenarioâŚand it is a little creepy.
Anything that violates the agreed upon boundaries of the relationship is cheating. If they canât respect your boundaries then you donât need them in your life.
Thatâs not acceptable behavior in a marriage nor should it be in a relationship. Tell him to get a life. Thatâs so disrespectful doesnât matter if theyâre on good terms or not.
If you are uncomfortable with him liking photos of his ex, then you need to focus on your own self confidence and self esteem. If you arenât secure with the idea that you are enough then you need to get there and when you get there, youâll notice that the stupid shit your partner is doing isnât on your level and heâll get on your level or youâll walk away and find someone on your level. Itâs a photo of his ex on Social Media. Have you ever liked a picture someone posted on facebook of anyone that wasnât your partner? âŚ
I have exâs as friends on fb and we like each others pics. Nothing wrong with it as long as thereâs no flirting going on.
You kill them⌠jk donât do that youâll go to jail
Depends. I heart react my exs selfies heâs also the father of my child and we are friends. Would I heart react a random ex boyfriends photos no I donât think thatâs okay. But if you talked to him the only thing you can do is keep talking to him or decided when enough is enough
For me it would be what kind of photos. If it was a post of her (or him) getting their life together or just something incredibly genuine happening in their life, then I wouldnât have an issue. Kindness goes a long way in this world.
But on the other hand, if my man were liking half naked pictures of his ex lovers, heâd be a dead man.
I think it depends on the situation and the maturity within the relationship. My ex and I have a beautiful daughter together. If theyâre in a picture together, I will of course react to it. Even if itâs just him, I may react or âlikeâ it. It doesnât mean I want to be back together with him. It means âhey, cool pictureâ.
Your boundaries are your boundaries.
And both of your boundaries should be discussedâ and if theyâre crossed, discussed again. If he loves you, then he should care about your opinion, comfortability and feelings on any matter.
He also should know, whatâs good for him, is good for you too. Sometimes people have a hard time putting them selves in otherâs shoes, so ask if he minds if you like/love your ex loverâs pics. If he wouldnât like you doing it, tell him to please stop being a double standard. 
I mean personally I donât care. However, if I have made him aware something bothers me and he continued to do it, that is not ok. That is disrespectful. He should be sure to consider your feelings before doing anything like that.
My man likes his exs photo updates. She is a family friend and though I do not like the shit that went down between them if she a good woman through and through with flaws hey cool. She had a baby cool how the baby doing whatâs the name ect. Like Iâm happy she doing good. But the ex that uses her kids as pawns and uses the dads for money she can just guck off and that is a no no ⌠no texting, calling, asking questions, liking, sharing no social media connections⌠NO. And she is blocked.
Really depends on the relationship i think.
If youâre all friends and thereâs no flirting involved i donât see the harm tbh
If you donât trust your partnerâŚshould you be together at all?
Thatâs not acceptable. Extremely disrespectful.
No I would be mad too especially after you have expressed your feelings about it already. He is being extremely disrespectful.
Pack their shit 
Eh that would be a fuck no he would be packing his shit and going yo stay with her ass
Who cares? It seems silly to get worked up about something like that. It sounds like your own insecurity/jealousy
nah, i dont accept that when im in a relationship, if your still liking pictures of your ex, then
you must still have feelings, thats a NO GO for me!
I think it depends on the relationship and how they carry themselves how they act around eachother if they are genuinely just friends and you trust that then who cares.
Not acceptable knowing how u feel. He has no respect for youđ
I donât really care. If it was a good photo Iâma hit that like button too!
I took the social media away when it became a issue for mine.
Id be disgusted n disappointed, bro he dont even love my photos or posts, even the ones hes tagged in. But would get upset i didnt like his shit. Get a life bae
My now x said it was to bad theyâd do what they wanted too
If youâve said itâs not okay and itâs still happening there is no respect. You have to decide what you are willing to tolerate
Thank you All! I caught him in a lie on social media, involving a past fling. Which happened to uncover quite a bit more. Overall, this has been an abusive relationship, peppered with these issues of disrespect. But I made it out safe and Iâm very grateful.