How to help your children bond with each other ? My oldest daughter (5) is having problems bonding with her lil sister it’s a huge jealousy thing and she’s bossy to her doesn’t really like sharing either. My youngest daughter (4) is on spectrum so a lot of her rudeness she doesn’t even realize/pay atteattention to. She has her mean moments back but my oldest is having a hard time sharing attention from parents & family when her little sister is here. We have my youngest every other week. I’m at a lost