Here is an exhausting relationship for you. I need to get things off of my chest and this seems like the best place to do it, so here goes.
We’ve been together for a while now. I love him, more than I’ve ever loved anyone. He’s beautiful and can be so sweet and loving. But everything is so one sided. He doesn’t work, doesn’t cook, doesn’t clean. He contributes nothing to the house except for messes that I end up cleaning up myself. And he doesn’t appreciate anything I do, doesn’t even seem to notice the majority of it. For the most part he’s always in a good mood, but when he gets upset, he becomes so unreasonable. There’s no talking to him about it. His communication skills are severely lacking. So most of the time it’s just a guessing game of trying to figure out what’s bothering him this time. Like dude, just tell me what’s wrong, how can I fix it or make it better. He won’t tell me.
He always wants me to do what HE wants to do. Even when I spend nearly all of my time with him, he wants more. Sometimes it’s hard to even get things done like laundry, or dishes cause he expects me to be 24-7 available to him. He will even WAKE ME UP in the MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT, to cater to him. Because he wants to eat or hang out. I rarely get a decent nights sleep and he doesn’t care how it affects me during the day.
Like I said, I love him more than anything. But it’s so much. I try venting to my friends and family but they are always making excuses for his behavior. “Arhaan, he’s only ten months old…He’s just a baby. Things will get better.” but I don’t know…!
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Bro…I hope this is in good humor because if this is really about your baby, please give him to me😝
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I was about to be like GIRL FUCKING RUN…but girl…it’s too late to swallow 
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Paige lmaoooo why is this so funny
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Well this is going to sound rude…So he doesn’t work or do anything then what does he really have to be bothered or upset about?..he sounds like a pathetic excuse for a “man”…leave him and find a real man
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Ok I misunderstood I just read the whole thing lol that funny he only 10 months old how precious he enjoys your full attention
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People really need to read the entire thing before commenting. Omg lol.
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…they don’t get any better! 
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So is this a child or a man. Im confused, if its a man he needs to grow up and if its a child thats why you are mama.
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She is kidding people she was just talking about her baby been a baby and she is a new mom that need some words of inspiration come 9n ladies let’s give this mom all the courage we can
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I was about to be like giiiiiiiirl gtfo
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I was like oh my god girl! 
good one!
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I was about to stop reading and comment to kick him out but then I decided to Continue reading lol
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I was starting to think you were a complete dumbass. But then got to the bottom and was like “same”
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Lol! I’m was about to say girlllll run away then I got the end like this bishhhh 
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Amanda - this made me laugh 
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Your with a teenager …or a man who never had to be responsible for anything and all your doing in enabling that. He won’t change if your constantly bowing down to the way he is. But remember a man changes because he loves a women not because a women loves him
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What hell u need him For Dump him U Neen a Real Man what u have is not Real Love its a User that u have there is a real man out there that is looking for a real lover real Woman get going Honey Fast
I was gonna say the loving can’t be that good kick him to the curb but I changed my mind I think he’s a keeper
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Lmao i fucking love every bit of this!!
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My first thought was whoever raised this guy really missed the mark, this sounds like a child… then I got to the end.
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My so works i take care of house but i have damn rules have trash throw it away spilt food drink clean it have a plate put in the sink have laundry goes in the basket its little things like that that makes my job easier also he has 2 choirs i ask take trash out and clean the littee box he knows i do alot i like things clean so he does his part hes a grown man and can clean up his little messes
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Lmao Girl I was gonna say you need to leave him and move on! That was a good one!
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Find something possitive to do with your time sad all you people do in life is go on with this sort of crap on facebook advise would be grow up
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You need to set boundaries for him and balance lifestyle for yourself! You need a definite life full of joy for yourself other than catering and slaving! Find That core joy! Good luck and blessings!
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Thank goodness I read to the end!! Cuz I was like… you are flipping stupid if you put up with that shit!!
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Omg nobody read the whole thing 
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Omg its a baby! That was actually really funny
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GIRL I bout died til I seen the end
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I can see some people didnt read the whole thing
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You’re not in a relationship, you’ve got yourself a child. Get out of there as fast as you can. Real love isn’t so one sided. Your guy only loves himself.
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Sounds like he’s all for his self bad
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Ashley Sanders Jacki Britni McKinney
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ClarissaClarissa You have to read it all the way through
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People…this is a well written “funny”…read it again.
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Haha that made me laugh so hard.
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Lol I was about to say sounds like a toddler not a man
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That’s motherhood for you.
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Hahaha i did not see that coming
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LMAOOO I was about to say “Damn leave his ass.”
Kick him to the curb. Don’t waste your time
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Things will not get better, leave him. He is nothing you deserve so much more. Go back and read what you wrote and pretend someone else wrote it.
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Kaila read this… TO THE END!! LOL
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LOVE your sense of humor!! was totally NOT expecting that!! I’m in the same relationship! Hahaha
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Don’t blink …it will be over before you know it !!!
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Quit kissing he’s a s s@do what’s best for you.Think of yourself instead of this ungrateful piece of S H I T.
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You had me until the very end that’s funny
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My best question for you…Pick a woman that is in your life that you love dearly…daughter , sister, mother, best friend…would you want them to be involved with a guy like you describe…if the answer is no,…then why accept it for yourself?
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Lol
Best thing I’ve read on this sight.
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For those who didn’t read to the very end, don’t comment until you read the entire post! Lol
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He is a baby. That is what he does. You will look back in a few years and wish he was that size again
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Sounded like my ex for a while.
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He’s a narcissist! And your a victim ! Get out now !
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That’s so funny! I was going to say sounds like your raising a kid. Thanks for the laugh! That was a good one! Haha 
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I was reading this and thinking “ he sounds like a baby! “
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That just made my night l feel for you momma you are doing a wonderful job keep up the good work one day it will pay off
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Everyone keeps telling me to savour this time when the baby’s not talking, because once she starts she’ll never stop. BUT, it would be really great if she could just tell me wtf she wants.
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I thought it was your spouse oh well… Nice one!
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Kara a little humor Sonya
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Omg you got me lady !!! Yep sounds about right but I promise it will get better !!! Take some breaks away. Utilize friends and family and your partner !!!
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Take me in, I can drive, make coffee, take out the trash, cook some, tie my own shoes, even work part time. Are you a sports FAN?
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You don’t have a man, you have a toddler.
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it will not get better for many years!
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So it is about time you kicked that overgrown baby to the curb. And maybe re read your post. He is not loveable he is a user. You are not equals you are his maid.
He wants a mama not a girlfriend
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Omg get rid of him. It only gets worse. You will end up having no self respect. He obviously has no respect for you. He needs to hit the road. There are so many nice men out there. Engage in social activities. Take a class you are interested in, go to some church events, walk in the park. There is someone out there who can be a PARTNER. It’s not this guy. If ever you needed someone to help you get thru a bad time or injury you would be out of luck. You are better than that.
Wow …What is wrong with you?
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See …yall muthafuckas don’t even bother to read shit through 
In time you will a just ,he will never understand you and visa versa, but he will always love you too after all he is you soul mate
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A 10 month old baby? Puppy?
Oh my gosh did you people read the article at all before you started writing it’s a baby not a man he is only 10 months old READ!!
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K I ck him out he’s narcissist
Kick his ass to the curb and don’t let the door kick him in the ass.
I don’t see nothing wrong with him (just kidding) I see something wrong with you for allowing somebody like that into your life, remember we only live once and the years go by so fast, get someone that is your partner and not your baby.
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Thank you for the laugh…happy I did a full read!! Hang in there!!
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Melissa dont you miss the days!!
Amanda Chapman xoxo awe you too!! I miss this!
Get rid of him. Grown men don’t change. They are set in their ways.
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I have a son just like that he’s a good-hearted person but he is spoiled and will always be spoiled that’s what the problem is I did everything for him he didn’t have to do nothing when he was young so it’s partly my fault
Ok I stand corrected, go figure, got put in my place.
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for him
for you
I dare you to try and ask him to do the dishes. Watch him try all these excuses “I’m tired… i have homework”
