I have been having problems with my boyfriend. We have a baby girl, my son from a previous relationship and his son from a previous relationship. Everything was great. We moved into our first home together beginning of this year. Now we’re constantly arguing. He checks my phone as if I’m cheating, and I recently found out he’s been on only fans paying a woman for six months, five days after I gave birth! I consider it is cheating. He kept telling me how I have to try to save grocery shopping how we don’t have a lot of money, but over the six months, he spent $718.78. He always tells me how this is his house. I don’t have anything but my name on a piece of paper. To top it all off, he runs to his mom about all our problems and makes me look like the bad guy & she texts me rude stuff about how I need to wake up and realize I’m about to lose her son I’m about ready to leave but don’t want too hurt my son because he’s older he understands and loves him a lot already he is good to my son my daughter a baby, so it’ll be a little easier I just don’t want too hurt my son again leaving I really don’t know what to do any advice helps thank you.