Okay I honestly don’t know where to start. I have been married a year in June to who used to be my best friend. We know EVERYTHING about each other & used to always mesh so well. Granted the first year of marriage is always the hardest this has been HELL!!! We come from 2 different backgrounds & religions which caused enough issues as is. BUT I could also be ignorant & unaware.
He is very strict about several things as a lot of it he has given up on because I tend to still do as I please & just put up with the aftermath but you can understand if you been in my situation how mentally exhausting it is for the verbal abuse . I used to not be allowed to go out ( meaning a girlfriends house, or out to eat with girlfriends ) now a days I was more able to go out it just started to cause a lot of issues at home for us & he always has a great excuse as to why I should stay in. Another thing he is super strict on is me not being around ANY men. Meaning no girlfriends, boyfriends. No men what so ever period even old men like that’s how serious it is
Welllllll we’ve both agreed it’s time to say our goodbyes because we both want different things but it’s just him being manipulative because tomorrow he’ll call me baby & ask for sex ( which is another issue because I stopped giving it to him forever ago because I lost attraction from the way he try’s to be so strict & controlling towards me) ANYWAYS to wrap this up I’m young & Dumb in many ways I know many woman have been in my position & had to play along with the craziness to get by & maybe save up enough until you could get out or just get out in general. How did you deal with everything & not let it effect you? If you didn’t have anyone like me by your side who did you contact ? Who did you ask what did you do?