Personally I would rather had my kids at least 2 years apart. I feel they have a better bond when they are. I have a 9, 6, and 1 week old.
I had 4 in 3 years I found it quite easy…. The teens years are making up for that 
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We had 3 girls in 4 1/2 yrs. They got along until they were teenagers, fought like crazy, went there separate ways, now struggling so close. You can do it, its rewarding
My kids are all stair steps (2 step sons) ages 7,6,4,2 and 5 months. It’s the absolute best having them so close too!! My 1st and 2nd are almost 4 years apart aside from my step kids and my last 2 are only 2 years apart
My girls are 13 month apart. It was a bit rough at first but I got the hang of it pretty quick and they are the best of friends!
My youngest two sons are 15 months apart. Those first few months are an absolute blur, but now they are the best of friends. They have the most unbelievable bond.
I had 4 babies in 3 years, last two were twin boys and it’s a lot of work but it’s great for the kids
I had a 4 yr old a 18 month old and a newborn I was worried to death about how I was gonna raise 3 kids but I did it it was rough sometimes but I made it through by myself cause me and their dad divorced when they were little now they are 21 22 and 25
My children are as of the end if 2021 will be 26, 22, 20. Girl. It’s a helluva ride but so worth it. My birth control failed me as well.
My neighbor had one right after the other and struggles… mainly cause theres so many. She enjoys them but at the same time…
My brother and sisted are 13 months apart and it was interesting. Cause the moment one is out of that stage the other just started that stage.
Youll never have a boring life ill tell you that
My oldest are 17,15 and 14 my youngest two are 6 yrs old and 10 mths…3rd and 5th were failed b.c. but anywho I feel first “group” was easier to take care of because they all were close in age and liked the same things at the same time…at times it may feel like a lot but you’ve got this and time really does fly so enjoy those younger no school to attend yet years.
My kids are 6, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12. It wasn’t easy at the beginning but as they’ve gotten older there is positives to being close in age like sharing clothes or having the same interests and always someone to play with.
My now teenagers are 364 days a part 1 day from being a year a part. Boy and girl but 90% of the time are best friends. They have each others back and a great relationship. Yes they argue and dont always see eye to eye but I love over all how close they are! 
You will have crazy days but its all worth it. You will get the hang of it.
My first two are 10 mos and 3 weeks apart… Don’t remember it being difficult at all. 1 large diaper bag. Carried one in a carrier, 1 on my hip and diaper bag on my shoulder. They were close until they got older and they still are but not as.
Makes it so much easier when they are in the same activities. Mine are about 15 months apart
I had 4 in 3 years, we did everything together and they were all very close growing up, it was always fun at our house lol. They are now 28, 26, 25 & 25 my advice is to enjoy every minute and let the old kids help and feel included
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I had 3 under 18 months, you will be fine.
Mine are 13 months apart
Mine are close in age. 1 year apart! It’s been like having twins! And I’ve been a single mom…It will all work out! No worries!
one hour/one day at a time
My BC didn’t work either and this will be my 4th ! I have a 6 yr , 2yr & 1yr 
My second and third babies are 14 months apart and my fourth and fifth babies are 16 months apart. There are 3 years between my first and second.
They will all be in high school together. Get a can and put $20 a week in it. And, watch a couple episodes of “Outdaughtered”. You got this!!!
Thaz nothing , i haf 13 months apart🤦♀️
Miranda Payne, if anyone can give advice, its you!
My 3 kiddos are about 18 months apart. Right now they are 6,5,3.5. It’s a little hard in the beginning but we are starting to have some fun! Lol
My brothers and I are app within 3 years. We are close now as adults!
WHAT birth control were you on FIRST… let me know so I AVOID it!!! 
Seriously though, 11months is a long enough gap and I wouldn’t worry too much.
Just ensure your next birth control is better than the previous one.
All the best.
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My boys are exactly 1yr 2wks apart and it’s stressful but I love them and can already see their amazing bond forming! My oldest has become such a caring and loving child and is so helpful. It gets overwhelming at times but if you constantly involve them (especially so young) i think it really helps them learn and helps their bond grow strong
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My daughter and son are 17 months apart and a grade apart in school. I love they that are so close and they truly are best friends. 
I had 3 boys in 22 months(no twins and a set of true Irish twins). I completely agreed with Amanda, at least up till 5, 4 and 3 years old. It is rough now, before it was a little easier but they do always have someone to play with and be around. Toys basically revolve around the oldest age and you get rid of other stuff quickly. My boys are very much the rough and tumble with each other, respectful of others and they are very quick to help each other out. You will find that the age gap that you have, they will be more helpful and a little more understanding.
I had mine 7.5 yrs apart and they aren’t close at all. Now my oldest has 2 that are 3 and 1. It is better to have them close together. You’ll be fine once they are all out of diapers. It gets so much easier.
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It’s definitely exhausting not gonna lie but it’s so worth it. My boys are 18mo and 1 day apart lol they are both the best and worst of friends😂 but they are protective of each other and play really well. When my now 18mo old was born my oldest was so excited and just wanted to hold him and help with everything. I gave him a baby doll to practice with and it worked really well.
My kids are 17 months apart. So far I’m about 2 1/2 months in to two under two and it’s not bad. I was super worried to but it’s much easier than I thought. Once get some sort of routine established it seems like nothing changed at all. At least that’s my experience
I have three boys that were all born 11 months apart. They’re now 11, 12, 13 and they are all close emotionally. When one is gone, they miss each other. They do argue, but they’re always playing together and laughing together. They also help alot, even when I don’t ask them to. They get on each other when one isn’t helping. My boys are a blessing to me. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
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I wouldn’t think it would be any different than have them spaced apart. I would think it would be easier because the 2 infants you could keep a close eye on, but that toddler can move around very quickly,
I have 3 boys. There is 17 months between my eldest son and middle son and then 17 months between my middle son and my youngest son. My eldest turned 3 just over a month after my youngest was born. It’s hard work but now they are getting older (9,7&6) it’s so lovely to watch them all playing together! The bond they have is incredible. They do argue but it doesn’t last long and then they are back to playing. You’ll be fine. The key thing I found was routine, routine, routine xx
My oldest just turned 3, middle is 1 1/2 and my youngest will be here in about a month. It’s definitely rough at times, but so so worth it! I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I love having them close in age and able to grow up being best friends.
My kids are 4 years apart. I actually wish they were closer in age, but I was so scared to have a second one! I think your children will actually get along better since they’re so close in age!
My newborn is amazing. My toddler is a glass case of emotion!! He loves his little sister though 
I have 3 boys. The youngest was born just before the eldest turned 3. It was chaotic to say the least. Keeping busy and having a routine will keep you sane early on. Also getting them to all nap at the same time is like trying to find a unicorn but when it happens it’s like winning the lottery.
right now both my kids are 33 yrs old- July 5 the oldest will hit 34- they are very close now. as youngsters I swore they’d kill each other- JK… will be rough for a few years but, you know they’ll have a friend for life(or a partner in crime 
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My kids are not quite 15 months apart. My daughter was just born on the 9th of June. My son was born end of March last year. I was so scared and it’s still new obviously but it’s way better than I expected. It’s not as stressful as you might think. My boy tries to help with her and pets her lol I was terrified but the worst part for me was being away from my son while I was in the hospital and not being able to pick him up right away when I got home. Both my babies were born c section so I’m unsure of healing with natural childbirth. It’s nice that I recycled the bottles I still had and some neutral clothing to her lol. Toys and all that can be shared. She sleeps alot right now so I’m more tired than usual with her getting up every few hours to eat but other than that it’s way less stressful than I thought it would be lol
I had 3 boys each 2 years apart. It was hard as hell. Dont be afraid to ask for help & make sure to take care of yourself, I learned that the hard way. Having a good support system is a must, especially if you are staying at home. Good luck, mama. You got this.
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I’m 28 weeks pregnant with my third and have a 2.5 and 1.5 year old. It’s stressful at times but I wouldn’t have it any other way!
I have 2 sets of kiddos 18 months apart. My step sons are 7 and almost 6 and are the best and worst of friends they go from fighting to being so sweet to each other. Then I have an 18 month old and a 3 week old and my 18 month old absolutely loves his sissy already. I love having kids close together they’re such good friends but one hasn’t grown out of a “phase” before the other grows into it which can be frustrating as all get out!
Mine are 11 months and a week apart. As close to raising twins as I could want to be!! He out grew her in a hurry. People always asked if they were twins. You can handle it. You have no idea how strong you are until you have to be!!
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Mine was 18 months apart all boys they got along great
It’s hard some days and some days are easier than others. But my Dr gave me some advice “mommy has two hands or mommy can only do so much at one time.” Kids don’t have patience but they’ll learn and you already know they ain’t going without anything so be sure to utilize mommy can only do so much at one time.
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I haven’t the slightest clue…mine are 19, 14, and 7
I have a 4 year old, a 14 months old and I’m expecting a 3rd in September. I’m wondering the same thing.
Do your best and dont forget to ask for help for anything and everything so you can fit alittle selfcare
My baby r 20 months apart xxx
I have a 7 year old 17 month old and a 2 week old. All i can say is try to have babies on a nap scheudle were they atleast have one nap at the same time each day . Itll give you time to rest and do things you need to do. But i havent found it hard its really enjoyable. But i also have lots of help from their daddy
I have 5,6,7 year olds. I love them being so close in age. At first, it was tough when they were all in diapers, but it gets easier. My birth control failed as well and I was so scared. Now, they are into the same age toys, helps a lot with schooling, and they always have someone to play with their age. It will be stressful, but I promise it gets so much better. Good luck mama.
Both my nephews were born 11 months apart! My sister-in-law was so scared that she couldn’t do it and she is absolutely killing it! She has a 4 year old girl and her 2 boys. It will be hard at times but it will be the best times of your life. You got this Mama
My 3rd and 4th are 11 months apart and are the same year in school was hard in the beginning but now there best of friends I’m pregnant with my 6th and there will be a 16 month gap this time so it obviously didn’t put me off haha x
I have a 6 year old, 2 year old , and 7 month old & 17 weeks pregnant .
My daughters are 22, 20, 19, 17 life was hectic when they were little but it’s been amazing watching them go through their milestones in life.
Mine are now 21,18,17, and 16. My 17 yr old was born the day before my 18 yr old lol, so they are the same age for a whole day. Life was a bit chaotic during toddler years, but routines and schedules and organization are your friends
Mine are soon to be 5 & 7. Their like two peas in a pod. Never not together. Lol
Currently 34 weeks pregnant with a 1 year old, 2 year old, 3 year old, & 4 year old all girls. Sometimes it’s super busy, sometimes it’s trying especially when they have rough days but I wouldn’t have it any other way honestly! I love having them close in age because they all love to help each other.
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My kids are 22 months apart and honestly I’m glad I had them so close. They conquer new mile stones together and I think it helps them realize they can depend on each other. Don’t get me wrong, they fight and argue just like brothers and sisters do but they seem to get through it well.
I had 3 under 3 it’s not bad.
Well, I have twins. So they are close in age for sure. its crazy but its fun. They always have a buddy to play with. Then my daughter is 11yrs older than my twins. THATS insane. But she adores her siblings. She is 16 and my twins are 4.
It will be exhausting, but it will be fine has soon as u get a routine down. Hang in there.
I have a 6, 5 and 3 year old. Wishing you patience because you will need that more than anything! Prayers for you 
Yes 23 months between first and third
I have a 3 kids 3 (almost 4) 2, and 1 year old. 18 months between the 1st 2 and alittle over 12 months been the last 2. They fight like noone else but at the end of the day they’ll tell each other there best friends.
My kids are 12,11,8,5,3,2 (13months between older 2).(11months between the younger 2)
I had my 1st 3 within just over 3 years. Currently have children aged 10,9,8,3,2
I’m also reading these because my daughter will.be 2 in October and my son will.be here via c-section July 4th and I am terrified. I’m scared my daughter is going to hate me.
It’s busy and can be chaotic and overwhelming at times, especiallywhen they’re babies and depend on you for everything, but the years will fly by. Remind yourself to slow down, breathe and hold them a little more. Mine are now 15, 12 and 10
There is 7 years between my son and daughter
I have a 3 year older (she turns 4 at the end of August), a 2 year old and end of November a newborn. I love having my littles close together. They are the best of friends. It can be very tiring sometimes but they play together so well and they love each other so much! They can argue sometimes but I think it doesn’t matter the age they will still argue.
Lol my boys are 4 3 and 2. Its so fun on good days. Struggle on rough days.getting better as they get older
My 2 middle kids are 15 months apart. They get along great for the most part. My sister and me are also 15 months apart and we did not get along until we were adults. It really just depends on the kids.
I have children aged 2, 4, 8, 10, & 15. Send help. But seriously, you’re gonna be fine!! Routine is EVERYTHING.
My kids are 13 months apart- 5&6 they are the best of friends, and you get through each stage at the same time. I love it. Yep it was a lot of work in the beginning but I’m so thankful now!
Honestly having two kids that were 11 months apart was a blessing. Once the younger one could crawl, they played together.
My son and twins are 21 months apart. I never had any problems. I actually liked having mine close together, especially now as they are 19 and 20 and they are all grown. I personally like that better than having a big gap. I would say it really depends on the children (personality, etc.) as to the difficulty of it. Once you get a routine going when they are young that part is relatively easy.
Mine are two years apart they are now 19,21,23
I have a 2 and a half year old and a 10 month old so 22 months apart and I thought I was crazy but they are best friends my oldest has been momma big helper.
My first 2 were 13 months apart. Boy, then girl. It was nice (most of the time). They always had a playmate.
It’s hard but make a routine! I have twins(5) 3,1 it’s hard but it just works some how.
I have 4 girls 5 4 2 and 8 month the 2 year old will be 3 in December! You can do this
Mine are 13,13,12,10 & 9. The hardest was the 4,2, and newborn stage. You’ll be fine though. Mine are very close and always keep each other entertained.
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HUGS It’s definitely scary but with a helping partner and good support you’ll do just fine. That’s what these groups are for afterall, here anytime ya just need someone.
Sincerely a mommy of 4, bonus mom to 2, chicken/cat mom + plant mom🖤
I have a 7, 2, and 1. The age gap between my first and second is hard sometimes, but it’s nice having my oldest to help. Having my 2nd and 3rd close is wonderful because they’re BFFs and I have them both in the same schedule. If I had to pick, having them close together is the way to go. The diaper stage is over faster, the hand-me-downs are a life saver, they’re basically into the same stuff around the same time.
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I have a 4 yr old a 3 yr old and a 3 month old and honestly its that bad at just allt of work keeps you busy for sure but worth it
My 2 girls are the same age for 3 days…they’re enemies 1 minute and best friends the next…but I love they’re close in age
Mine are 5 ,twins 3 and 2 it can be challenging but it’s alot fun too and they all play together very well for the most part. My oldest likes to help me too !
Following…im dying I have an 8, 2 and 3 week old and this is so different then my first set 
I have kids ages 10,9,7,5,3,1 and having one in 5-6 weeks. My first 2 are 1 day shy of 11 months apart. The easiest thing for me is a routine and structure
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I have a 5, 4, and 2 year old and it’s nice having them close I think! It’s hard at first but hang in there, you will get through. It’s all worth it!
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Oldest Dec 2006, son Nov 2007 so they are Irish twins. The early years are ROUGH. All you can really do is try to find the humor in it all. Remember they’ll love hearing the stories of covering each other in kool-aid, and pouring sugar all over the carpet to make a sand box. It’s double the trouble but also twice as fun.
My 2 middle boys are 8 months apart. We got pregnant quickly after our first son and our 2nd son was a preemie so they are Irish twins and it was hard in the very beginning but as they have gotten older it has been slightly easier. Same clothing size, they play together easier now, the older helps the younger. It’s great now
19, 19, 18, 18, 16, 15. It’s not as hard as it seems. They keep each other busy. Good luck & Congratulations. You got this
Mine are 4&6 now…many heart attack moments when 2nd baby was born bc 2yr old didn’t understand she was a baby and not a babydoll now they are about the same size and just love to hate each other LOL they always have someone to be mad at and love at the same time 
Mine are 18 months apart. It is difficult at times but it’s so much fun watching them grow so close in age 