Walk away! This guy cait be trusted & too many red flags, file for divorce and be done. Then, You’ll know for yourself you won’t be lied to & hurt by him ever again.
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Do you want to be with someone who hooks up with escorts? Because that is who he is. He is showing you who he is. Believe him.
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Run as fast as u can b4 hes with 1 or maybe has being n you l get an std dat would be dreadfull n maybe pass it 2 ur new brn baby plys hes a lier fuck him out quickly 
He should respect you not to lie to you…I would break up with him
He needs to dry it up and quit being a sissy. Man up admit it. Crying is his way of getting out of it
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Cut him loose!! He is a narcissist.
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What you allow will continue! So 
stop! And this crying shit is for the birds!! Tell him your done and he now has a real reason to cry because your out! He can call and get an escort all he wants now! Hopefully he doesn’t have/ get HIV or a STI from his behavior!
Stand up and take care of yourself and your new baby y’all don’t need this drama!!
Happy parenting 
Should have been gone from the first sign!
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Childish as fu€k.
Manipulación at it’s pettiest.
Woman… breath and think. You know damn well he’s lying, you feel it. You know. Do you want your son to be like him?
Pack your bags momma. Or pack his. Whatever the case may be.
Your a queen. And deserve nothing less then to be treated like royalty babe.
Remember that.
“doesn’t let me leave”… Just leave…you don’t need his permission.
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Leave, he obviously won’t stop what he doing no matter how many times he is caught. You have caught him how many times now and it’s the same sob story every time and now he’s lying to you?
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Girl that crying escapade is a joke, is a lie. He’s doing that because he knows you’ll stay. He’s obviously cheating on you and don’t care. Leave girl. Plz leave. You deserve so much better and he ain’t EVER gonna stop
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You know what to do that’s why you’re here.
Leave. He will not change.
What you allow will continue.
He’s lying and from experience the crying is to make you feel like he’s the victim and have you feel sorry and not leave. It’s typical mental and emotional abuse from a narcissist. I say leave because it will only get worse and he will get better at hiding it
I mean, he shouldn’t be doing that
But you shouldn’t be going through his phone either
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I would have been out the door the first time I caught him, the crying is just another way he’s manipulating you and you keep falling for it. I’d also suggest going to your gyno and getting an STD test done because I’d be willing to bet he’s done gave you something since he’s using escorts services!!!
Get out while you can he will not change.
Who is the baby, him or the one you are carrying??
Why do people find out this kinda stuff and then choose to bring a child into messed up situations? If I found out something like that the last thing I’d be trying to do is bring a baby into it.
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So going through his phone. You can’t have a real relationship like that. And stop having kids with someone you don’t trust.
Maybe he’s a sex addict and needs help? I wouldn’t deal w the disrespect, especially w children involved. Your children learn from you what relationships should be like.
Girl from experience JUST LEAVE
I know I’ll cry and she’ll feel sorry for me and stick around. Typical cheater there! It’s not going to stop as he knows all he has to do is turn on the water works and blame someone else and not only will you believe him but you’ll stick around. He’s probably having a right laugh about it behind your back! Just think how would you feel if your son was to treat a women this way? Because if it carries on he’ll grow up thinking this is normal!
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Leave. It doesn’t get any better.
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Leave. Wtf?! Should not have given a first chance to violate your relationship a second time
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I never understand these questions. He’s looking for escorts…what do I do? You LEAVE! Who would want to stay with someone who is trying to hook up with escorts.
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How many time does he have to “cry “ before you understand he doesn’t respect you and your the mother of his child, why put yourself and your child through this?
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If u dnt wanna get ya feelings hurt stay outta their phones it will ruin a relationship quick.
Leave this loser, it won’t get better he’s been lying to you this long he’s not gonna stop now and sorry doesn’t mean shit when he keeps doing the same thing to you!
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He’s lying. Time to leave
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You leave. There has never been a coworker.
Girl. How many times are you gonna fall for his “I’m sorry” and tears. He’s a cheater, or at least he’s trying to be. He wants some strangè. Can he have it? You gonna tolerate that? Turn a blind eye? If not then leave. Get your own place and put him on child support. Otherwise let him cheat in peace.
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Hell no …cut that cheater loose unless you want to catch STDS or possibly AIDS
You don’t need a cry baby u h a ve s new one so just take him and get out…he will never change
Wow. Red flag. Red flag. Red flag. 
he is manipulating you by crying when he did wrong. Gaslighting you by saying you shouldn’t feel a certain way. Its YOUR feelings, not his. Leave mama while you still have love for yourself. Before he brainwashes you. I’ve been there but his “thing” was drugs.
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Come on! There is no way his friend used his phone. You know what you need to do and what is best for you and your baby.
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Hes full of shit. He made that call and he’s not going to stop.
Sounds like a classic case of manipulation. Leave! It’s not worth your pain or effort. He is not willing to make changes clearly. You could try counseling but it looks like it’s to late. But you might want to try.
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What is he curious about? He’s obviously lying about a coworker using his phone… I mean what a coincidence someone used his phone to do the same thing he has been doing. Confront him and ask what he is o curious about. Either leave him or go to couples therapy and work on the trust issue.
Girl… how many more times are you gonna keep letting him get away with it??
You already know what to do. Stand up and set the standard for how you want to be treated
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You are being played - leave the dude.
Do you really need advice on this?
You should have left him the first time. If you don’t know the answer by now, my only advice is to suck it up and deal with it. You’re not going to leave and he’s not going to change. Sit back and enjoy the shit show. 
Once can be a mistake, twice is a choice. Now it’s your turn to choose.
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I hope you don’t fall for that.
You live with it and any and all consequences or leave and start over. Stay strong
You need to tell him bye bye. He will end up physically cheating on you if you stay with him. No man that is happy in their relationship and truly in love is curious in that stuff. If he loved you and respected you he would not have any interest in any other woman besides you. Put yourself and your son first and leave.
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Stop searching his phone. You already know the answer and you’re still with him. You’re only making yourself miserable.
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I think you know what you should do but you want validated. You don’t need us to tell you that he is the one that made the call and he is going to continue this behavior. What happens when he carries in a disease on you? He knows that crying and I’m curious keeps you there. Show him you’re not stupid and you’re not putting up with it. Deserve better. You allow what is done to you.
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What do you mean what should you do?? Tf? What do you think you should do??
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Theres a saying:
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
In other words, stop believing this lying person. I’d leave before he ends up bringing something home other than lies, like the clap.
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It’s not just curious if it keeps happening.
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When you have to go through his phone it’s just not worth it
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What you allow will always continue …
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When people show you who they are… BELIEVE THEM…THE 1ST TIME
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He cries to make you believe him. Leave
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Tell him his tears don’t mean shit & get to steppin!!
If you aren’t gonna leave him and keep believing the crying bs then let him cheat in peace. You know what it is now. React. Or accept that’s something you’re allowing and quit going through his phone. He’s not gonna stop. He IS going to cheat on you with an escort, if he already hasn’t. He’s shown you over and over and over again. You have all the proof needed.
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You leave. He’s a liar and you’re falling for his bs, thus enabling him to continue to abuse your trust. Leave; don’t go back. If I could save you some of the pain that I went through trying to save a marriage to a man who wasn’t worthy of my trust. Baby girl, you’re not even legally bound to him. Get out and give yourself and your child the life you deserve. This behavior will NOT change, especially if you continue to show him he can get away with it.
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Leave him lol there’s no point in even trying to fix your relationship, his “crying” is just a way to manipulate you… he cries, you believe him, he does it again… repeat. Same shit different day… he’d rather search up prostitutes(“escort” is just a fancy term for it🤷🏻♀️) and call chat numbers than worry about his own relationship it’s not even worth it just do yourself a favor and leave.
You should leave him.
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Start charging him for sex
Start packing because you know he’s not going to stop he’s going to do it over and over again just try to hide it better time to move on he has
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You have been with him 2 years. Why did you not get married ? No one deserves this. He won’t stop. My opinion.
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His a boy in an ice cream store wanting to have a taste of all the flavors of ice cream that’s to be offered…wise up girl…his fishing for other female’s…stay with him…if you don’t mind sharing him…leave him if you don’t…his a player.
That is too many red flags.
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Girl run cause he’s gonna keep “crying” and saying he’s sorry cause he knows you believe him so he’s just gonna keep doing it over and over. Get out now while you still can
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Every one has to decide on what they will except in a relationship. Once can be passed off as an accident, twice not so much, three times nope! Now if you can live with this then just suck it up. If you can’t then get a move on, decide what actions are most benefiting to you and your child.
All you gals out there that think having a baby or even another baby will make a man out of your man hoe or brat; think again! Move on while you still are young, and not trying too take care of you AND child/children. Love is wonderful, for 2 people who are committed, but heartbreaking if it’s one sided. Make a decision and act on it. But even if you stay there is no guarantee he will.
I wouldn’t trust him!
All guys do is LIE and make you feel like shit when they get caught!!!
I’m so OVER it!!!
Get an attorney and sue him for child support AFTER YOU LEAVE HIM.
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Because you feel you have to search his phone is your answer! You can’t trust him. And he may just be curious now but that WILL change it’s just a matter of time. And how gross to be with him after he has sex with an prostitute.
Girl, bounce. That mf can’t be trusted and will not be a good role model for your child.
“He doesn’t let you leave”? You need a man that gives you the respect you deserve. Let him cry and move on!
The fact you have to check his business should scream volumes. Boi bye.
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He getting his cake and the icing on top and the milk for free!
Well as you fell for his sob story the first time he just thinks it will
Work everytime 
give them an inch they will take a mile! time to give him a reality check and tell him pack your bags and go get your escort !
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You should get ready to support yourself and that baby and start making some smarter decisions.
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Leave n he cant hold u from leaving that is considered kidnapping js
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Leave he ain’t changing
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Girl do the same and then cry lmfao 
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You should stay and record how many times he does it before you come to your senses…
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I’d be scared to get something from him sleeping with them. I’m sorry but your gut already tellin you what’s up. Woman’s intuition
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I presume these pregnancies that every one has with unfaithful men are accidents?
And you’re still with him because??? He proved to you BEFORE you got pregnant who he really was. He as proven it time and time again. What more do you need?
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That’s us a sign! Let him go before you end up with an STD or something
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Just leave. He’s not going to stop and the excuses are getting down right ridiculous. Have some self respect and move along.
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Talk dirty to your man and spice up his love life. He’s searching for something. Be it.
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Leave. He’s lying and will never change.
I’m sorry but you are obviously in denial and just don’t want to leave bc he just continues to do it and you continue to stay. The problem is the fact that he sees you staying after catching him, so if he hasn’t done anything yet, he will, bc you stayed. Bc you only confronted him and did not stand up for yourself and leave or set a boundary or an ultimatum he will do it bc he knows he can.
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some of you are ridiculously dumb for even staying when finding such things and believing the lies 
like jesus, why are you even asking this when you already know it’s done and over in the relationship
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He’s only crying cuz he got caught. Don’t fall for that crap. There’s no relationship without trust!!! You should not have to live feeling this way. GET RID OF HIS CRY BABY ASS!!!
Do you know your worth and self love?
Leave!!! Those tears are for him cause he got busted. They’re to make your good forgiving heart feel sorry and forgive again. It won’t change. He’ll have better excuses or better ways to hide it.
Boo hoo his ass out the door.
He knows exactly what he’s doing! He won’t change.
Playing on it by crying to make u feel bad it’s manipulative! Tell him to get out to fuck I wouldn’t be having that shite! Dirty asshole can look up whoever he wants then, on his own.
Keep a diary and write down every time he does it, then slap your dumbass with said diary and leave.
He knows exactly what he is doing. How many times have you caught him? It won’t change. And don’t believe those crocodile tears bc he obviously isn’t sorry! I know it’s easier said than done… but you should definitely leave. No one deserves that.
Just chuck the whole thing in the bin. The fact he lied to you so many times and is always just sorry every time he gets caught out and is back at it again shows he’s a pos and he isn’t sorry.
Only you can decide what to do. But you know what they say. Cheating is cheating in so many ways
You forgave him twice and now again sorry babe but honestly I don’t feel bad for you.
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