How to handle toddler tantrums?

Hello Mommas, I normally don’t post here but, I have a question… I have a 2.5 year old daughter who’s tantrums are out of hand some days and I’m at the point of not knowing what to do, I normally ignore them and let her decide when she is ready, anyway there have been times where I lose my cool and I’ll yell stop, which doesn’t help. I try to hold her and help her and let her cry… I also put on a movie for her just to stop… I don’t want my daughter to walk all over me, some say she already is…

Advice is good here please! No negative comments please.

Y’all have a great day!