Hi Everyone! I’m currently 31 weeks pregnant with our first baby. I have the most amazing husband who supports me throughout all the hard times I’ve experienced during the pregnancy. (I won’t go into detail.)
However, our sex life has sure slowed down tremendously! I’m sure this happens to quite a few women during pregnancy. However, I really want some lovin’… but I’m not feeling sexy since I have a big belly.
What are some things you have done to help your self esteem so you can feel confident in the bedroom?
Ask him what he thinks of the belly, my man finds me quite sexy while pregnant
My man told me regularly how beautiful he thought i was while carrying our daughter, but i guess we never had a problem because my sex drive was through the roof
Might help your self esteem with some self care outside the bedroom like going to get your hair done. Great way to feel better about your “looks” when you might not see the “glow” that I’m sure he sees in you
I know how this goes. 38 weeks pregnant and huge. It makes it really hard to get in the mood, especially since I’ve been getting contractions since 32 weeks. I just try to focus on the actions and on my husband. Not to say I haven’t been turning him down more than usual… he’s an absolute angel though. Never gets upset, tells me how beautiful he thinks I am, and he’s been super supportive picking up most of the housework since this has been a particularly complicated pregnancy for me and I’ve been between complete bed rest and modified bed rest for quite some time.