I have a 3 years old daughter she is going to be 4 in August…
The problem is she is not potty trained as yet I am doing my best with her I don’t if she is shy.
When she wants to do number 2 she comes and tell me and when I tell her she have to go used her toilet she said no and she keeps it in until she ready to do it in her Pampers
I tried many times to put her on her little toilet and she does nothing and cry I dont know what to do.
A little help form you can make me try something different.
Thank you in advance
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Kids feel like they are loosing a part of them when they poop while
Potty training. It’s normal. Just keep trying till she gets it & isn’t scared
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Try n get her a big toilet chair. And take her as often as possible
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My girls weren’t potty trained till they were 4. Each child potty trains at their own pace. Just take her to the potty often and don’t get discouraged. She’ll pick it up eventually momma 
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My daughter was the same way but I got her a actual potty chair and she did it right away. I guess being up so high scared her!!
Get yoyr regular little girl panties…I never used pull ups waste of 
…she won’t wear it long…
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Maybe doing a sticker chart if she goes potty on her little toilet,sitting down with her while she potty’s even if she doesn’t go so she starts to get comfortable sitting and reading a book to her, getting her favorite doll if she has one and a little toilet and show her that her doll can to idk just trying to help,
I’m currently trying with my 1 1/2 year old. And I do those things and it helps well I use a Daniel tiger toy that came with a little toilet and also a potty book that I read to him and makes noise. Even if he doesn’t go I still sit with him so he gets use to it and comfortable with the idea sometimes he goes poppy and pee and sometimes he has accidents but I try every day
Try rewards, make a potty chart so she’s encouraged to poop. And offer rewards if she goes, like stickers, candy, small toys, you could even make a “treasure box” for her to pick something from when she goes.
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Don’t put the diaper on her period. Ever. None.
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my youngest i kinda bribed her and rewards it took a minute but it worked . but all kids can be different
Stop putting diapers back on her and she have to use the big girl bathroom she won’t like the feeling of peeing herself and will learn real quick she needs to use the potty
Kids go at their own pace. You’re doing it right by sitting her on the potty but if she’s not quite ready, you’re not going to make any progress. Just remember: you’re not going to be sending her to college in a pamper
I put my kiddo straight in undies except bedtime and nap for a start. She didn’t like the feeling of being wet and then I would just put a new pair of undies on her…be prepared to use A LOT of pairs in one day. Combined with having her try to sit on her little minnie mouse potty every 15 minutes. Sit with her and tell her she needs to pee on her potty and not in her undies…same with poop. She will get there 
she did much better using this method and was fully potty trained in less than a month. She was 2 months shy of being 3 when I did this.
Dont put her in diapers. Put her in a dress w nothing else
Beat that brat’s ass.
First …take away the pampers. She needs to be in big girl panties. Then reinforce she is a big girl now and needs to use the big girl potty like mama
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Get rid of the pullups. That’s the only thing that worked for my now 4.5 year old girl.
When she tells you she has to go take her and have you tried telling her big girls use the toilet, get a step stool and a small potty seat for the toilet she will be doing it by herself before you know it and get her out of those pampers let her pick her own big girl panties
Take her when u go potty. Then every 30 mins. Give her a book to look at. It works.
Tell her to sot on the potty in the pamper. Then gradually ease it away as far as taking it off her and placing the pamper inside the potty so shes still going in it but not “on” her. And reward with toys or candy and just try to phase her out if it. Also can do big girl undies. She may not want to poop in them so shell only have one other place to go. Chalk up the undies about being pretty and being such a big girl and wearing big girl undies and not wanting to mess them up by pooping in them and such. Good luck
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My 4 year old is still working on potty training… We’ve been trying since he was 2. He will go potty but refuses to poop and his doc says if he keeps doing certain things he’s gonna refer him to a specialist.
Try getting a training seat for the bog toilet. My daughter was the same she wouldn’t use her potty so I started putting her on the big potty and in three days she was trained also use panties stopped using pull ups they didn’t work
I would sit on the floor and read a book with my son and if he was having trouble using the bathroom o told him to pit his arms around my neck and squeeze if it hurt and it always seemed to help karo syrup will help soften the stool
Try going to the bathroom and sitting on the toilet while she is on hers don’t get up till she done and during the day make her sit on it for bout 10 minutes at a time
Underwear only even at night. There will be a few messes. That’s the only thing that worked with my boys.
Only use underwear no more pull ups or diapers. My daughter realized she could use her pull up and not have to stop what she was doing. Put in her underwear and she hated them being dirty. Buy lots of undies and prepare for some messes. Good luck!
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Have her pick out her own big girl panties, No more pampers. as long as she’s wearing them she gonna potty in it. Tell her that she’s not a baby anymore & other moms need then diapers for their baby’s. Talk about how great it is that shes a big girl and all the fun things she can do now since she able to use her big girl potty… Try doing a sticker chart reward. one Lollipop for #1 2 lollipops for #2. Once the chart is filled with stickers reward her by taking out for a small treat.
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Use the Pampers for bed time and put her in training panties for day time, it makes a big difference in how it feels and they don’t tend to like it but but plenty cause she will go through them at first but the wash and you can reuse them so it saves money too
Start telling her she can go by herself, ask her if she needs help opening the door and turning on the light, let her have a book or sit her on it paint her nails.
I’m going through the same thing my baby turned 3 in March and I think it’s just getting them into the habit of telling before they go instead of after give lots of praise and tell her what a good job she did even if she doesn’t go and I always tell her to say bye bye to her pee pee as she flushes, hope some of this helps
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Make her sit on the crapper when she says she has to go and tell her she ain’t moving tell she uses the bathroom plain and simple she’ll learn it’s easier to just take a crap and piss in the toilet vs having to sit in a bathroom and not get to play
My Grandson turns 4 in August. He goes pee just fine on the toilet. But poop he will hold it in forever. He’s had poops that hurt when he was younger, it scared him. Now very seldom does he go on the toilet.
He can now mind you, he definitely has. But- he freaks out. Screams/shakes. Half the time it doesn’t hurt. But he thinks all will hurt. He will hold it a week.
He sleeps in just big boy underwear. But sometimes he just refuses to go.
Dr told my Daughter-In-Law and Son its normal. They give him tons of fruit and vegetables. He loves them. Plus he loves prunes as well…
Lots of water. Dr said, not to worry.
She said saposatories. They work but said don’t let him get used to them. His body needs to go on his own.
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