It happens. He doesn’t owe you anything. Let him go. Pack his things for him. And call his coworker and let her know he is on his WAY:+1:
Sad truth you become very attached to these people I no Asking questions is good means you no the answer hard to break the cycle take care stay strong takes time step out stay proud Goodluck
Fuck him!!! Leave his dusty ass behind.
I need a sugar mama too
I’d of gave him lots of laxatives & packed my stuff and left but I’m not very nice
I’ve done the lax thing bc of cheating!! His ass going call me from work, mf dine shit himself. Never regretted it!! Asshole decided to break it off after Thanksgiving with my family! Unfortunately we got back together after, but happy to say I’m almost 5yrs free of a narssastic cheating douche bag!!
Lol Laxative is better than rat poison I just think that you sometimes you just have to sit back and analyze a persons behavior you can’t just keep doing for people who either don’t care or disregard you it’s hard I understand I am a giver and a very generous person I like to help people so a lot of times we get taken advantage of
I’d chuck up the deuces! You deserve better and somewhere out there is the right one for you. Please don’t settle
He was planning on playing you after all the things you’ve done for him.
Fuck that guy. It’s not your job to help him get better or be a better person. Leave him behind he’s not worth your sanity and he will tear you down until you have nothing but doubt left in your mind. Addicts are a whole different breed. If he’s a good dad then let him be a good dad… other than that BOY BYYYEEEEE
I literally REQUIRE this to be satire
Drugs change people even after they get clean. It’s sad. I would just move on as hard as it is. It’s not fair for you to be treated like that. Definitely slip the laxative on the way out:joy:
In my opinion sounds like he was covering for drugs if he is willing to say he was cheating on you and talking shit about you then he is hiding something worse and your son don’t need to see his dad like that time to move on
You seem codependent in a very unhealthy toxic relationship. Just because a person gets clean doesn’t mean he doesn’t still have lots of problems that made him use in the first place. His life is still a mess and you can’t fix that. Take care of you and your child and leave.
Sorry but that last line has me rolling
Insanity is repeating something expecting to get different results. Leave and don’t go back.
Put the laxatives in and go.
DO IT!!! Laxative!! Love it. Be salty it’s bullshit
I would have. If he’s going to act like a $hit… then he should …
Life just goes to show you some times that no matter how much you love and do for a person, if they don’t already love you, they aren’t going to. Let him be and wait until you find someone who can give you the love back that you give. Just think if you do all this for the wrong one, imagine what you would do for the fight one, when he’s given back and not just taken!
No one likes to be played, I agree with Stephany Holmes , slip the laxative on your way out!
Toxic move on and be happy with you and your child focus on yous two and fuck him let him do whatever he wants he will soon realise what he’s missing when it’s too late xx
Just move on. Stop playing games, you have a child that you are responsible for and you’ll find someone that wants to actively be apart of your life without all the extra drama.
If you were able to work 2 jobs and do everything you needed to care for your child. You dont need him! You’ve got this! On your own!
Should have knew better.
Honestly , he still has issues . He has lived a very toxic life by the sounds of your post . I would leave him and move on , I wouldn’t raise my son around that . Allow visitation of course but that relationship isn’t healthy . He doesn’t know how to be committed to anything but drugs . He needs to do this on his own now , you cannot hold his hand through life . You have helped guide him and now it’s his turn to figure it out . If he can stay clean , GREAT! And if not , that is on him . Don’t feel bad for leaving . You have to take care of you and your son . But that last line was amazing . Hahah
You did it to yourself
Drug addicts always hurt their loved ones . Recovered or not.
So you plan to stay with him…???
Co-Dependent behavior isn’t healthy.
Obviously he isn’t the right guy…but I bet you’ll stay.
Do it give him the poos then run
So you’re only a little retarded… Read what u wrote. U know what u should do… Fb cant do it for you… Listen to that little voice in the back of your head u got this
Go home. But put exlax in some brownies before ya go.
Uhh buhhhh byeeeee
Girl. Leave and put laxatives in errything on the way out. From the milk, to the condiments, to the lunch.
If he want to be a shitty boyfriend, let him embrace it
YOU KNOW what you have to do… Eliminate him from your life and your son’s. You do not want anymore children with this man.
Sad. Like a nurse or other paying for medical school for husband and then he walks.
Find happiness before it gets worse
So you still made his lunch?
Take your son and go back to wherever your from, you deserve better than him, be smart and don’t invest anymore time into this relationship
I feel like I would have gone ahead with the laxolunch
You have answered your own question. You know what you have to do.
I’m sorry to say this but I don’t get why women put up with men like this if they can’t or won’t respect you get out they are a lot of good one’s out there.
Leave…he has no respect for you and looks at you no longer as a woman but his mother a care giver who isn’t going anywhere. I am sorry to be so blunt but I wasted 20 yrs of my life on 2 different men. I’ve learned I hope you know your worth I had to find mine on my own
You a better woman than me cause I woulda dosed him in a heartbeat
From my experience a meth head will always be a slim shady…
Use that laxative dear. He needs it.
Leave and work on yourself and your son. You deserve better.
Sounds like it’s finally time you got “salty”
Leave it’s only going to get worse and you deserve someone who is going to love you for the wonderful person you are