I have. And I have left before with just the shoes on my feet and the clothes on my back. Do what you have to do for you and your children. You will rise above all this and be happy again! I did.
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You already know the answer to your question love. Get out while the getting is good.
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That is why a woman ESPECIALLY with a child should never ever never rush to move in with a man…
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If your heart is telling you yo do it then go! Save your kids and yourself!!
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Run as fast as you can. The red flags wont stop. It will only get worse over time. My best friend tried to run a few times with her 2 children. He swore he would change and got her back each time 
He murdered her when she had finally had enough and went to the courts. They called it murder suicide. He killed her in front of their 2 and 4 year old 
You can do it. 
Do you have a safe place to go? If not, maybe wait to have the baby and get a game plan… then make the move!
It’s really time to start focusing on you and your family. I mean your only 21 years old you’ll come to realize eventually that men aren’t the be all and end all. Just get yourself together and move on, I’m not saying it’s easy but it needs to be done…
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The fact that you keep getting into relationships with broken men and then feel the need to ‘‘runaway’’ shows that you have some issues you need to deal with. I suggest going to therapy.
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Yep. There’s lots of abuse surviors. You can do it you’re strong enough it may seem scary the uncertain but abuse turns deadly.
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If nothing else go to a shelter
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RUN NOW!!! Don’t look back!!
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Run
And focus on you and your kids.
Take a few years to heal and grow.
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Run run they never change
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Nope. Keep the baby or put it up for adoption. Then RUN !!! RUN !!! MAKE A PLAN and get your affairs in order. Start a separate bank account in a different bank. You know the drill. RUN
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I did when I was just 4 months pregnant and I raised my baby in peace!
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Run. Get on birth control. And don’t move in with a guy and his family.
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Best thing I ever did was leave
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Go. If it’s like this now it will get worse.
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Run and go before they baby is born
Run. But not to another man’s home. To your own place or safe family/ friends.
Yep. Run and don’t look back
Yes. It was difficult but the best thing I ever did. I was 22 when I left. If I’d stayed I would’ve been dead before 25.
Fyi, they will often start to hurt your children once the children begin to show a little independence… meaning around 2 years old. These types of men don’t take well to hearing the word no, even from a child. Please don’t hesitate. Leave as soon as you can. My thoughts and best wishes to you for safety and happiness.
Run and don’t look back.
Red flags 