I am pregnant with my friends fathers baby: Advice?

So I have a friend who has a dad who happens to be single…i am 25 and her dad is 46 and when I tell you this man is FINE…I am not exaggerating…their parents split up when she was a teen and are happy appart and she is happy for them…she doesnt know that I have been hooking up with her dad and i have no idea how to even tell her this has been going on for 8 months…we are getting pretty serious and I just found out that I am expecting…her father is THRILLED and so am I…we fell in love…but i do not want to lose my friendship with her…did i do something wrong by getting with her father? I know how dramatic this sounds but like…hes the one…

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I am pregnant with my friends fathers baby: Advice?

Cori Johnson I swear I love the stuff I read on this page lol

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Oh y’all are MESSY messy :eyes::rofl:

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Who needs TV when we have Mama’s Uncut posts?!? :joy:

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You fucked up! But that’s just my opinion :woman_shrugging:

Literally tell her exactly what you wrote here. I mean / leave out the “FINE” part, but explain how you think he’s the one you’re in love etc. better than hiding it.

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You deserve everything your friend throws at you. If you think she’s gonna let that slide, you’re a fkn idiot

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You don’t lose your friendship, you become a family. Tell her youre her mum now :eyes::joy:

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Now when she whoops your ass don’t get mad.

Did u also cut of ur best friend of 10 years? Lol. Now I’m really thinking of a post from earlier

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This page has become too much with these questions :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Um. The friendship is over. For now.

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Yeh I can’t imagine your friends going to be thrilled but you’ve got no choice but to tell her the truth. She doesn’t have to like it. I thought it was just an unwritten rule that you don’t bang your mates family members

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U crossed a line …just saying

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My best advise is be honest and tell her. It’s better she hears it from you than someone else. It will be her half sibling after all. She will probably get mad and may not speak to you for awhile, but, I think if you’re honest from the start, she’ll probably come around. Best of luck and congratulations on your bundle of joy :heart:

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Only you have to live your life don’t worry about other people’s opinions. I know it’s kind of selfish but she doesn’t have to live it and she’s not having a baby

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Well just think she will always be in your life now S your step daughter and your babies sister lol

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Well chalk up that friendship
That’s like sleeping with his daughter

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Is this for real ?

:popcorn: :coffee: :eyes:

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Just be honest with her. Good luck with everything.

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To the person who shared this you’re fired :joy:

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You did something wrong by not telling her from the get go :cry: now she’ll feel betrayed and won’t be able to trust you …8 months is a long time lying and being dishonest with your BFF …that’s gonna be a hard pill to swallow :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Haha just tell her. She’s gonna find out anyway

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If both parents are happy then I don’t see a problem. She may be a little upset at first but if y’all are close, she’ll be able to get past it. Especially if it makes her dad happy. I wouldn’t expect her to run to you with open arms and call you mama though.

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Ewwww
Hey, he’s a perv. You’re welcome.

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Sounds like click bait.

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Consider your friendship OOOOOOOVERRRR

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Should have told her 7 months ago, she may have been happy for you…I doubt now tho

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Tell us what the friend says I mean your Step daughter.

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Tbh yea it’s best she hears it from the both of you but that friendship pretty much ended once you started sleeping with her dad js

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Steph Ross WILD START TO FINISH

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“Did I do something wrong by getting with her father?” Do you seriously not know the answer to that question? LMAO

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Ladies, if a man is that much older than you, he’s only looking for one thing. Let’s be smarter than this.

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And this is why I unfollow lots of pages… but this one stays. :rofl:

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This can’t be real. Think I was this episode on Hallmark

Just tell her the truth. If she have a problem with it, its okay. Just walk away from her. Give her time to think about until she is ready to talk to you again.

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This reminds me of a Maury episode I watched

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I mean its weird yeah but it’s not like you slept with her ex ya know, they’re could be worse things

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You was never her friend you’re weird :joy:

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This can’t be real life!!! :joy::joy::joy::joy::woman_facepalming:t3:

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Just tell her. It’s going to be her sibling and now you and her and really going to be family. :rofl:

She probably going to be Hella mad tho. Just saying. Prepare for her to want nothing to do with you. Especially with you hiding it so long.

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You are both adults. Do what makes your heart happy.

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This sounds like a joke lol tbh. Good luck.

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Haha she gone beat yo ass! :smile::rofl:

Being a member of this group has really made me wonder what kind of people are we?
So many stories here seem made up, totally fake.
8 months in and pregnant with best friends daddy baby. Sounds like the ending of a porn hub video.

Congratulations :baby_bottle::footprints:
Pray about it and you and her father set her down and be honest. Best wishes to you both.

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I think it’s great yall are happy. She will get better with time just be patient with your friend. I want to know what happens when she finds out. Like a part two :grin::grin:

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“Guess who’s your new momma!?”
Good Lord :joy:

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Good luck to you n congratulations on ur baby

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Ummmm… did you do something wrong?! Yes! Yes you did! :woman_facepalming:t2:

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Your friend is literally going to be that child’s sibling. Yes I’d be pi$$ed. especially since it was so secretive

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If you felt the need to hide it from her you must have known it was wrong :eyes:

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The comments are not disappointing lol :joy:

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So you’re having your best friends little brother/sister

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You should’ve never dated her father…weird

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So you’re pregnant with her sibling :neutral_face:

Girl you are BEYOND wrong for keeping that shit going for 8 months
You had no intention of telling her either, you’re only considering it because you’re pregnant and don’t have a choice

I definitely wouldn’t want to be friends w your ass anymore after hooking up w my dad for 8 months straight and lying to my face

So if you marry her dad you’d be your best friends stepmom? Lmao :rofl:

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Shes now yr step daughter :woman_facepalming:

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Things happen
If he’s good guy was no he loves you and you love him I don’t see the problem
Now your friend isn’t going to be happy because you haven’t been honest.
I pray you forgive yourself first and then seek her forgiveness.
This is a beautiful thing having a child.
I hope it works well for everyone

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I mean, nothing to it but to do it. If you don’t, your baby will lol

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Yall are grown folks!!!

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Your friend probably knows but if she doesn’t he should tell her as his daughter. I’d want my dad to tell me.

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You’re asking that now?! :roll_eyes: You didn’t care about her once you hooked up with him.

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You are now her stepmom?! You think she’s going to be ok with that?! :rofl:

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I mean…. She’ll still be in your life. She’s your step daughter now and that baby is her sister/ brother :joy:

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Sounds like A Jerry Springer episode.

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You’re now her step mom :rofl::rofl:
I’m done for today.

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Just tag her on this post🤷🏼‍♀️

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If he is really that great and she is really a good friend she would be happy for youu

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The Jerry Springer Show PLEASE

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Be careful as I fell for a guy a lot older than I and it turned out nasty. I also ended up pg and that is why we got married but once we was he became controlling. He didn’t like me spending time with my parents and I had to let him know whenever I was going anywhere.

Your a bad friend!! Not been a cunt r anything but who the fuck sleeps with their friends dad nd still expects the friendship to be the same, ur fucking delusional girl and to be fair ur actually a failure as a friend in my eyes
As far as the meaning of friend :rofl: sleeping with parents I would imagine is an unspoken rule but clearly in your case u needed to be told!! Shame on u girl! Will mind the friends u have ffs u will need them when u have babies nd not all baby daddies stick around old young r indifferent!!

Well just start off with “I know I’ll never replace your real mom…” :rofl::rofl:

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Wahooooo…you go gurl. Loves is Loves. This is awesome. A pickle yes, for that I have no advice…congratulations on your expected bubba and life love.

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So weird lol… you’ll be your besties step mum essentially :joy:

Shit happens let it be. It will fall into place. If she is a true friend/daughter then she will understand

Sounds like bull shit!

This is one hell of a mess. I don’t have any idea of what to say, so I won’t say anything.

Good luck!!

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I mean if Friendship is gone…now your family lol :laughing:

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First of all hes sick! And second so are you! Your foul as they come! Good bye felicia!Friends how many of us need em? :woozy_face::face_vomiting:

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Y’all did nothing wrong every one deserves happiness and love has no age limits

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it happens. ur both single adults. she probably won’t be thrilled but she will come around. how could she not, it’s her bf, her dad & her sibling coming into the world. give her time to process it all…wishing you all the best of luck & life.

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So , now you are worried about your friendship with her ? You did not care before when you were doing her dad , so

She is going to be maddddddddddddd 🤣🤣
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Obviously you know you did “something wrong” which is why you’ve been sneaking around behind her back
You ended your friendship the second you started hooking up with her dad secretly
Time to just rip the band aid off and enjoy your new baby

Edit she’s not the stepmom…getting knocked up doesn’t automatically mean marriage

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Is she still your friend or stepdaughter :joy: just tell her

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I think it might be best for her dad to talk to her first since his relationship with her is the most important… Good luck.

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You’re not a very good friend love.
First off, that’s her dad! Secondly, you kept it a secret nearly a year. THIRD, you’re way of revealing this is a baby announcement following right behind it…
Lastly, “you’re in love” with her father and that may lead to marriage… Where you become her step mother! Yuck…

But congrats on the baby tho I guess?

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Im gonna need a picture of the dad :sob:

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You’re about to tell your friend that you’re her new step mom sleeping with her dad and giving birth to her sibling? Sis… that friendship is over. But no worries you’ll see her at Christmas

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These mums groups are getting out of hand Chelsea Hawthorne

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Some of y’all… :woman_facepalming: She isn’t her stepmom bc she’s dating the dad. :roll_eyes:

Look, you 2 should sit her down and tell her together. Expect her to be upset and need time. She may come around, she may not. But if both of you are happy, she’ll come around.

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Sorry but as soon as she finds out about you two that’s it and nothing will change it. You over stepped the friendship threshold, you have lost her as a friend.

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Well you have to tell her. Y’all have no decent chance at a future if you don’t. I would assume most people would be upset about their friend getting with their dad so prepare yourself for that and that you probably won’t have a friend anymore, as well as what your response will be. If this advice doesn’t work for you maybe try Maury idk lol Good-luck.

I hope you can fight​:roll_eyes::woman_shrugging:t5:

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The friendship is definitely toast but at least you’ll always have family gatherings LMFAO

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Girl please. Girl code. First off, you don’t go for their man. You definitely don’t go for the dad without her blessing. I definitely would never speak to you again. Like your my BF how could you?! To put her in that predicament between her mother and father ! You been lying for how long to her? Shows what kind of friend you are!

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Just tell her. When she gets angry you can ground her :eyes::grimacing:

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Put yourself in her shoes… flip it…how would you feel?.

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Eww… nooo… you are the same age as his daughter… Disgusting, he needs help.

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