i co parent with someone who does not want to co parent with me . i reply to all his messages. i try to go out of my way and do what the judge for my divorce has “suggested “ & my co parent still does nothing . now i have trial concerning placement for our kids because he is demanding to not pay any more child support . any suggestions for me ? i feel like a doormat!
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Just do you…don’t get involved in his crap…don’t engage in his bs…the only aide you can control is your own…and I know it’s easier said than done but try and let his bs not affect you to the best of your ability. In the end the judge will see you’ve been desperately trying to keep the peace. Good luck.
Document everything. Every time he says something demeaning or disparaging, every time he doesn’t follow court orders, everything.
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Continue doing what you’re doing. Do what the agreement says. You can’t control what he doesn’t or does do but in the end, it’ll show that you’ve tried
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