Have you tried minding your own business? Like holy heck
None of your business how she dresses. Stay away if you don’t like it.
I mean, in most states within the United States, women are legally allowed to walk around top less in public, without being arrested, just as a man… unless banned in certain areas by their own local modesty laws… so in your shoes, you should probably be thankful she isn’t feeling that confident whilst you guys are around. Plenty of people also go around without wearing undergarments (underwear), that’s their preference. She could also argue that you were being a pervert by looking up her clothing while she was climbing up the stairs. Perspective can be a motherbitch, can’t it. Yeah, she was probably embarrassed her ol man called attention to her in that light, but probably chose to handle any issues she had with his behavior, in private. With body dysmorphia issues running rampant with soooo many people, I’m so glad that she see’s how beautiful she is, and is comfortable in her own skin! Your children are uncomfortable because you are projecting your own insecurities about YOUR issue with it, onto them. That isn’t fair to your children, you’re actually teaching them to think on a micro level perspective and become very closed minded and judgemental. If you have such an issue, YOU should be the one to say something to her. It’s awfully unfair of you to attempt to put someone else in that position… use your own backbone. However, don’t be surprised if she tells you to stick it in your juice box & suck it.
I can totally understand to appoint. I hate taking my kids to the beach nowadays because the thong bikini bottoms are so popular and I just don’t understand why women want their asses hanging out around my kids, but I am learning that this is just the “new way”.

I love love love a confident woman, but the appropriateness of how women dress nowadays are totally different to how I was raised and now I’m raising my children in a very open & sexual world and it is a little uncomfortable I just try not to entertain it, and if it all possible, I avoid it.
I would just avoid your mother-in-law all together if she makes you that uncomfortable. If they want to come to your house and visit, hand her a sweater or cover as she walks through the door. 
she’ll get the hint. If something makes you uncomfortable and leaving you with awkward feelings address it, take ownership of it, no one can change the situation but you. 
Honestly I would talk to her personally and let her know it makes you and your children uncomfortable. Instead of trying to make your boyfriend say something to his father. Yes she is a grown woman what many of the other comments are saying and should dress how ever she want but she can dress a little better because me a a mother I wouldn’t want my young children see a woman in her glory. And my oldest has seen woman exposed and like I told him it okay to love your body but not everyone should see it either. Because no man wants to buy a cow when they can get the milk for free.
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You shocking with boyfriend and what do you expect…get married tell that boy as long as she dresses that way you and your children will definitely not be around her…
You’re just the girlfriend! Shut up and sit down. How would you feel if she disliked that you and your children were even invited to go on vacation with them? You sound petty and shallow. Be thankful you found a “boyfriend” that accepts your kids, too.
I think the weird part that everybody is missing is that the Dad told her to look, and when she did, she saw this woman’s entire vagina it sounds like. I’d say if that’s actually what happened there’s something a little off with the situation, and them.
It’s none of your business how she dresses 
If she let you know she thinks you dress prudish and it makes her and everyone around her uncomfortable, what would you do? Change your clothes or be offended? Yeah same thing.
Her body. Her choice. Don’t like it, don’t look. We all get to the age where we simply don’t give a fck about what other ppl think and we’ll less than politely tell them so if they do have something to say 
soooo… choose your battles wisely when dealing with us old girls coz when I say we don’t give a fck about what you think, we mean it…sincerely
If you are uncomfortable, it would be up to you to address the person. Don’t involve your boyfriend, and his dad too.
Is this real?! She’s a grown woman. She can dress how she pleases. Be glad his dad isn’t controlling to where he controls what she wears. It’s nobody’s place to tell her what she can and can’t wear. He’s not treating you bad by not telling his dad to say something. Don’t go around if it’s that big of a deal.
Wow!!! It’s amazing how someone who feels comfortable in their own skin gets criticism from another woman. What if she used to couldn’t wear them things and now she can?? How about just don’t go around her? Some of us come from men who told us we were fat and ugly and made our self-esteem so low that we couldn’t wear things we liked and wanted. Then when we finally do. Here come ppl like u trying to be like them 
. Petty.
Her body her choice right?.. she’s a grown ass woman …
A few things….1-Are you and adult? 2-She’s a grown a$$woman whom can dress as she pleases and 3-Mind your business
Mind ya business she is a grown woman. Maybe she doesn’t like how you look, act, smell etc. SMH and not for nothing I bet she doesnt gaf what ya think…just sayin!
You can’t control how everyone around you acts and dress it not your place . Seem s like insecurity
I think it’s very disturbing that she dresses like that around children, I don’t blame you for being upset, I wouldn’t take my children around them anymore, And possibly find a Man who respects you more… just sayin
I might be the only one here cringing, but why does the way his mother looks make you nervous? Are you just insecure about your looks or are you scared your boyfriend might have a thing for his mother?  Because I cannot see any other option hear about why the way that woman dresses affects you so negatively.
Just tell her you saw her lady parts, and looks like she needs a lift.
I’m wondering wondering why the dad is encouraging his son to look at his stepmothers bare crotch
She can and should wear what she’s comfortable with. You dont have to like it. Just respect her choices and move on. Where I draw the line is the FIL showing off her “glory”. And I’m assuming you mean her private parts. ThTs what I’m concerned about. Like why would he purposefully call that out to you? Is that a kink they are playing out publically?!? Like what was that about?
Look if your morals for raising your kids is no to the kind of dressing that she does then those are your kids and you can say no. If the BF isn’t agreeing to this prepare that when you two separate you don’t get a say.
Why are your kids uncomfortable? Have you influenced them to be or has there been an issue directly with them? Similar to Genoa showing off her “glory” to them?
You are upset with your boyfriend for not telling his stepmother how to dress? Why would he care, what’s he supposed to say?
What treatment are you saying you can’t tolerate?
You should grow up. 
The step mother can wear whatever she wants. Her clothing has nothing to do with you. It isn’t your concern.
Advice: get over yourself. You don’t get to dictate how someone else dresses.
Umm…that’s not your mama. Or his mama. But his step mom. No one should tell her shit unless she’s treating y’all badly. Let that woman dress how she wants. Remember, you’ll be old too one day. Doubt you’ll care what people think.
If my stepson’s girlfriend had an issue with how I dressed, and told me to “put some clothes on”, she wouldn’t be welcome in my home anymore. A grown woman has every right to dress how ever she wants because there were so many women before us who went through hell to get that right for us.
I’m all for supporting moms, but this is one of those situations that isn’t the poster’s business. It’s really simple; don’t go around her, because you have no control over other’s actions.
I get it. It’s embarrassing to be around… and I read a lot of comments on personal preference. It’s really sad when older women try and dress out of their group. Please don’t come at me lol. I’m not saying grandma should wear a moomoo! But honestly saggy knees should give up mini skirts. If granny is happy rocking her thong and grandpa likes it that’s great! But no need to advertise. Nothing ages a woman more than under dressing. I would be hesitant to invite or go anywhere with someone like that. She won’t change if you love him you cope, it’s not his fault dad married a hoochie unwilling to hang up the look. Just don’t take her anywhere important. As for the kids it’s a shame she couldn’t be a better role model.
Yeah, sorry kiddo, you can’t control how other people choose to dress. It’s her choice. She’s a grown woman.
Mind your own business lol how another woman dresses is none of your concern. It seems insecure that it bothers you that much.
Not your problem…. She’s a grown woman and can dress however the hell she wants. If you’re insecure just say that:woman_shrugging:t2:
and mind your business.
She is a slob. Leave him…
I mean IF it bothered me that much I wouldn’t be going around them nor would my children however if I’m seeing your vagina and butt hole when you’re out and about I’m surprised she isn’t being arrested for public indecency
You really should get over it. Her clothes are really not your concern. Seriously, grow up.
You say something woman to women. Make it a joke like I see more of your ass then your toilet seat
I have 3 boys & would be mortified if they saw mine or another family’s full blown pussy, disgusting… & i think it’s fucking weird, couldn’t imagine if I had a daughter seeing that. I’d dump the dude or not go around her with the children until they broke up or she gained some sense of decency around children.
Just tell her. Say girl your business is hanging out and the kids can see your parts. Make her uncomfortable. She should have some respect around the kids. There’s a time and place to dress sexy. Grandkids aren’t one of these places
Definitely wouldn’t take my kids around her. That’s gross. A lot of women are no longer modest with their bodies and in my opinion it’s gross and causes people to lust. And to do it around children!?! Yeah, that’s a no for me.
Stop worrying about her body, make sure your kids aren’t underneath her on the way up the stairs, and get over it. I highly doubt your children are sexualizing someone in a grandmother role… There’s gonna be women in public with their titties and asses out literally everywhere you go, are you gonna control how they dress too? It was inappropriate of your father in law to point it out, but you have no right to tell someone else how to dress
Not your problem about her you are going to have t I except it and just cut kids and your from family relationship over the kids come first
Don’t bring the kids around if your busy s3xualiszing her.
Maybe their swingers. . Hopefully not with their son partner’s 
Emphasis “boyfriend” EMPHASIS “your kids”
Needless to say more …
You are not FORCED to be in that situation … you choose to be
Seek theraphy
It’s almost like you can just not be around her if it makes your that uncomfortable. She’s a grown ass woman and can wear what the hell she wants.
I would care more that your kids grandpa is a creep, than the way she dresses. Only a weirdo would tell people to look up his girlfriends skirt.
It’s so hard to advise my gender 
Are you dating the stepmom? Mukyala you are even not yet married to hos stepson and want to change your in-laws lifestyle 
. Learn to mind your business. If you kids are uncomfortable, then breakup with your boyfriend or don’t let them hang around the stepmom to your boyfriend.
Wtf…are these ppl on here actually condoning dressing half naked in front of lo. And I seriously thought this was a page for parents. I worked in strip clubs for over half of My adult life I’m the very first one to condone sexy body image. But if she’s flashing her vagina in your kids face absolutely tell her about herself. It’s your children. There uncomfortable. You advocate for them. Ppl saying your insecure what the hell…your a mother. What is our world coming too. Teach your kidd to respect their bodies. And others. Do better friends.
Tell me you’re insecure without telling me you’re insecure….