Hello I would love to ask a guestion and get some advice please. Am I wrong I haven’t been well with a virus a splitting headache. A few nights ago my partner was talking to his Sister on his phone on loud speaker He was drunk she was drunk and they were screaming at each other I thought my head would burst. I was lying on the couch watching tv. I asked him to please turn the volume down he told me to go to bed . Fast forward a couple of days I am still very unwell and asked him please if you make your calls on Sunday please don’t have them on loud speaker please as the noise really hurts my head. he usally makes them in the lounge . He drinks and talks so loud . He got so mad slamming doors yelling swearing calling me all the names under the sun. saying I am nagging nag nag nag. Slamming the glass doors over and over again while talking to his adult son saying I hope it hurts my head. The way the house is laided out I couldn’t get away from the noise. I feel so unwell haven’t eaten for days feel very weak and I see my partner as I 58 year old man having a tantrum and when I said after I was trying to state my needs he’s started yelling I don’t want to hear it over and over. I am so tired of this behavior. am I wrong?