I found a package with womens underwear on my front porch: Thoughts?

Yeah but there’s websites you can send this stuff to people, I’ve nearly done it as jokes to friends, pantysniffer etc

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Check your accounts :woozy_face::laughing:

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Yes it is. I have an onlyfans and sell mine. I also always use their address as a return address so mine isnt known.

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He opened and showed them to you?

This is a thing and the women are actually told to put their address as the Person who ordered’s address. Your man ordered dirty underwear off the dark web.

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Ewww gross I check his credit cards immediately

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It was a thing on orange is new black netflix series

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Hubs bought a porn stars used undies :rofl::sob: lilith sage is a pornstar and she used the same return address because she obviously doesnt want her customers to know her location. Look for any recent transactions using paypal cashapp or onlyfans. Any random charges you cant explain. Thatll tell ya. But ya its possible if he has dirty friends they bought them for him as a joke. Maybe he mentioned he liked her etc. Dirty old man.

Women have been selling worn underwear for over like 12 years that I know of. :rofl: I would believe my husband. Where the trust? Maybe one of his friends is playing a joke. Guys do that. I don’t think he would chance you finding the package like that. But who knows. Lol

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RebeccaMarie Salaiz no the post says that she opened it out of curiosity

He has a fetish he’s buying women worn underwear

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They do ive seen it on tiktok and charge according to how worn the pantiea are lol

It’s a thing and he ordered ‘the thing’.

Okay. Listen. Before you do any serious confrontation, do your homework and clean out that bank account sis.

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I will come to his defense, though it’s probable he did actually purchase them (& shame on him if he did do it and lied), his friends could have easily done a prank on him. My boss and his group of buddies are always playing pranks like this on each other. One of them subscribed to a gay porn magazine and filled out the subscription as one of their friends and had it sent to his house.

They have gone as far as renting out a billboard :rofl::joy:

Um yeah there are definitely men who pay women to send them their worn underwear

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moral of story, " don’t open what is not addressed to you…

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And there are women who definitely make a living sending men their worn underwear

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Side note: I have a new idea to make some cash so, thanks for that :rofl:🤷:sweat_smile:

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I’m only here for the comments

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Wether it’s your husband or not you can still get in trouble for opening mail that doesn’t have your name on it. Men do weird shit… atleast it wasn’t a mail order bride you found on the front porch. He probably found a site that sells used women’s underwear for people with fetishes.

I would be checking all of our bank accounts and credit cards to see if he actually ordered them.

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Sounds like he done made someone mad :flushed:🤦

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Brandee Bruner i didnt even fully read this LOL just instantly stopped when i saw the name :rofl:

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Why would anyone laugh at this?

He ordered those undies lol. Lilith is a super common SWer name.

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My husband’s friend used to sell his wife’s used underwear to people with an underwear fetish. I had no idea it was a thing, but evidently it is a money maker.

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Side note: this woman has nothing to do with the situation. Your husband ordered a product from her. They have no relationship. She doesn’t know or care about the life you share.

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He must buy them online and then sniff them and yank his yonker. It’s common

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U definitely can buy used underwear its big thing

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I mean, do you trust him? Is he the type to lie to you? Has he ever made you question his loyalty before?

I’d definitely be put off if I opened up a package like that. But I have 100% trust and faith in my husband so if he told me someone was fucking with him, I’d believe it. He has never lied to me or given me a reason to not believe him. Even when he’s made mistakes (Nothing bad, before it paints him in that sort of light haha), he has always admitted to them. Down to just simple things like, “I just didn’t feel like stopping for xyz”, he could tell little white lies and say the store didn’t have whatever I asked for, but he has never even done that.

If I couldn’t trust him though? I would definitely be on edge. That’s a sketchy situation for sure.

It sounds really fake… With the name, the fact that there’s no legitimate return address, what’s inside of it.

But the bottom line is, do you trust him or have any reason to not believe him right now? If there’s no reason not to trust him, and he legitimately seemed confused/concerned/upset about it too, then I say trust him, and maybe do some sleuthing/ask him to try to figure it out too, because that’s… Gross, and concerning. If you don’t trust him, it might be best to let him know you’re really upset by this, give him one last chance to come clean (If he is lying), and still try to figure it out, so you can get some closure.

Maybe he likes to wear womens underwear ??

Girl he ordered those panties :rofl::rofl: Don’t panic. Just get on his level. :v:

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I have a few friends that do only fans and sell them from there…

Here for the comments

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You haven’t heard of OnlyFans?! Sounds to me like your husband has a fetish. If he’s lying tho, he needs busted! Check bank accounts and credit cards.

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I had a friend who’s now ex boyfriend ordered used undies tried to claim they weren’t orders by him so she took them somewhere while he was at work and got rid of them all…and they split . I knew his next girlfriend as well and she randomly told me about finding underwear that she knows wasn’t hers in his dresser . :woman_facepalming:t2::roll_eyes: Weird obsessions

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He totally bought those babe.

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….is this a real question? He bought used panties. Lmfao.

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Or he could be having an affair and the mistress wanted to let the secret out :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Could be from a phone/video relationship.

EW! Who the hell would buy used panties from a person they dk?!

Yup, selling used underwear is a thing

Here for the comments…

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Ppl do sell their worn underwear. It’s a thing, a fetish. Lol

Sounds like someone wanted you to know about them…

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stress is killing me…

Could be a prank or also people buy used underwear if that’s what they are into

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He ordered it. You can look through his financials and find it.

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Do yall share a bank account or do you have access to his to see if he paid for them? Either way I’d wear a pair for several days and mail them to him from your address and send him a hefty bill.

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That’s a you probably should keep your eyes open sounds like some girl wanted you to know your husband’s Dirty Little Secret

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No one is concerned about the federal crime she committed opening his mail?

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Yes females sell dirty underware… She could also be his side piece… Check credit card statements… See if theres anything you dont recognize… Check his pay pal… Check his phone pc tablet ect…

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My girlfriend did this to the man that she was sleeping with… She wanted his wife to know it’s messy but it was her way of telling you

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This is 100% a thing! So many women in a moms group I’m in do it! It’s wild how popular it is.

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He bought used underwear… they dont put a return address on so no one can stalk them… if they where wrapped or in a sandwich bag definitely bought

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Yeah, there are actually people buying and selling used underwear from women . Even they make some request like to be worn while you workout, after your period, or that you wear it for more than one day. People pay a lot of money for it. So your husband can be one of those people who likes that :woman_shrugging:

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Into the bin with them

Onlyfans, mistress that wants secret out, or witchcraft :woman_shrugging:t2: don’t touch them lol

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Start digging. Sounds like someone wanted you to know

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Hayley Gavenlock Keita Nikora :eyes:

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How I caught my neighbor having an affair.:flushed:

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Have you googled the name?

Woman absolutely sell their panties.

Dump glitter in the box lol

Sounds like a pissed off side chick !! Not people don’t mail used underwear :face_vomiting:

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How I caught my Aunt Penelope’s new husband cheating :slightly_frowning_face:

Yes, buying used panties is a thing.

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There’s actually a website where men buy used panties and the girls get paid for it… and the men make requests like… use for X amount of days… wear inside out, while on period, etc., but it could be something else too… I mean … how did he react? Was it cool and calm… or was it like embarrassed and mad?

You weren’t supposed to come home early and find them apparently… Who knows how long he’s been doing that. IF it was a joke…a good friend would own up as to not ruin your marriage. :woman_shrugging:

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He bought them from someone on ONLY FANS!!

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I’ve had a woman call and text me for almost 4 years now saying my man is cheating on me with her. It’s his ex. I have proof from confronting her last year but she still calls and text me. I literally work, live, hunt, and fish with my man. We are typically always together and the RARE occasions we aren’t it isn’t for more than a few hours. Some woman I guess get off on shit like that. Now your case and your man​:thinking::thinking::thinking: idk but I would do some investigating and get some proof before you flip out. Could be some dumb shit like I deal with

Years ago I found panties in my boyfriends vehicle. I mailed them to the girl to let her know . Confirmed my thoughts I knew they were cheating left him after that

If like to buy a boat, do women buy guys underwear?? :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Tiktok is a great source of entertainment but it’s also a great place to see and hear things you wish you’d never found out. And that’s how I found out yes, that is a fetish that many men subscribe to. Actually had that blocked out of my mind until just now. Enough that women make money off it … they sell their dirties to wanting men

Yes, that’s a thing. He is stepping out

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Check his bank statement

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Hes cheating on you. He obviously pissed her off

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I recently heard a story… this is a thing. Men do pay for women’s worn underwear! I think your husbands a liar :lying_face: just my opinion though. Trust your gut

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There was something on TV about it before it’s mank

Yes women do sell their clean and dirty usually dirty underwear to men. They also sell pics of their feet, and a bunch more stuff. Regardless that’s weird and suspicious af

Yes people do but used underwear. Yes he could have ordered them. Yes it could be a prank. Trust your gut.

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Selling used panties is definitely a thing…i wouldnt believe him.

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Yall… this is not an angry mistress lmao. I promise you that.

Its also probably not a prank, lmao. The transaction would be traceable in one account or another. Theres likely a long bread crumb trail if he’s good at hiding things. (Money transferred to PayPal, then to a virtual card from there, etc.)

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Sounds like he is buying used panties.

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It is a fetish. Men will pay crazy amounts of money if a pretty girl wears a certain type of underwear for them and then they mail it to them. I knew of someone who paid over $800 for that. If you share a bank account look and see. If you don’t ask him to see if and if he denies it then you know something is up.

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Its totally a thing. Ur hubby is a perv. :rofl::rofl:

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Yes people do sell that. And other things.
He could have ordered it. Or someone else could have ordered it -or sent their own- and had it mailed there as a prank or to mess with y’all’s relationship. Honestly we can’t tell you which it is.

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You should of wrapped them back up and said “babe a package came for you” and walked away and saw how it played out.

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Ooh he is lying …its a fettish thing
You can go online buy girls used underwear ! Gross

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Time to kick him+his used panties to the curb.
$50 bet ya, he pissed his other gal off.
Follow the $$ trail,if there’s none.
That’s the source.

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I first heard of this 25 years ago…a friend of mine said he and 3 buddies posted pick of cute girl in panties local backpages…worn panties sold for 5 bucks a pair the really great thing is that my friend and his buddies were sitting around drinkin beer all day and wearing every pair…let that sink in. Ewww lol

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Sounds like he’s buying used panties.

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What in the orange is the new black :joy::joy:

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Have you pissed off a witch ? The name is rather suspish

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Check his credit card statements

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Women who sell will always use the buyers address as the return address for safety reasons. You’re husband is most likely buying used panties because he has some fetish for it.

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This is disgusting but it’s a fetish for some guys. Either he’s embarrassed to tell you he paid a lot of money for some used undies or he’s cheating and this was her way of telling you. Either way I’d tell him to kick rocks on the way out the door :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Drama Mama! Just to strange

Women have been mailing used panties to buyers for quite some time now. He’s not telling the truth or someone’s setting him up. Doubt anyone’s setting him up tho

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