I have a coworker I called a friend that recently unfriended me (she didn’t even talk to me or tell me) and I’m feeling really upset and like a terrible person. She said I was too negative for her because some days at work I don’t talk to anyone and she feels I have tension with her and others. To be honest, I don’t have tension with anyone. I work full time, go to school in the evening full time, have a baby, and try to maintain my home life and relationship with husband too. Some days I do come in work and that’s my only peace so some days I just sit and do my work so I can come home or go to school & get my day over with. This term has been exhausting for me and this past month it has swung me into depression. Am I in the wrong? or is she just assuming my silence means I have a problem? I really called her a friend but I feel like I didn’t really do anything for her to stop being my friend.…?
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If she bailed as soon as things got a little stressful for you, then she wasn’t actually your friend. It’s really nice when our coworkers become our friends because we spend so much time with them…but sometimes they need to stay just coworkers, and that’s okay.
This is why coworkers are only coworkers and not my friends. I learned from my last job that that’s a line I will not cross again
This does t sound like it was for no reason, then. She gave you one.
I know this isn’t necessarily the advice your are asking about but I never add co-workers on social media in any way, shape, or form. You never know people’s intentions or how you work relationship will pan out. I keep my personal and professional life completely separate. Look at the positive maybe in the long run she did you a favor.
Why, would anyone want to have any of their colleagues on their social media. You’re probably better not having this person on your social media especially since you’re busy. Don’t stress over it.
I truly understand this. People aren’t used to dealing with others emotions. It sounds like y’all are “work” friends. She has no emotional ties to you. I’m just saying…when I was in the too busy, dark place. I had to just hunker down until I could see the end of the tunnel. Now people are surprised as to how social I am. This may just be your season to do it alone or just hang with those who you have deeper ties.
Let it go. That doesn’t sound like someone you would want to call a friend. Sounds like her loss, not yours.
Imagine making a big deal because someone unfriend you on their social media 
Grow up!!! It’s not that serious
Ignore her rise above it x she is no friend
Communication goes a long way in situations like this. 
Have you told her this? A true friend would understand.
You have a busy life. Nice on. Forget her.
Just do you… that’s all you can do, don’t worry about what others think. As long as you’re happy and have a happy family that’s all that matters 
Sounds like she is taking it personally. I would tell her what you just told this group. I know sometimes we think that if she’s a friend she should get it without being told. Is she just a friend at work or do you have a relationship outside of work too?
Honey, you’re doing great. She shouldn’t take it personally, we’re adults.
Is this the adult version of taking her toys and going home leaving you sitting in the sandbox? or is this you worring about a non problem? its on her dont overthink it