Huh? So you feel the need to block him and he stalks you on social media? Some big red flags there.
Sure youâre not trying to hide something?
I wonât have my boyfriend on Facebook. I have nothing to hide.
I would block him too. As if being husband and wife and living in the same house wasnât enough interaction, he still stalks your social media. Thatâs just too much!!!
Monitoring? Are you hiding things that he feels the need to âmonitorâ your social media? lol
What exactly are you posting? Does he not like what you are posting or is it, that he doesnât like whose commenting on them?
My ex husband use to block me like that so I couldnât see when a girl commented or posted to hi. Or whatever⌠he said I was too nosey. And you know what I wasâŚbut I found out he ended up getting my best friend pregnant during our marriageâŚsoooo big flags
I donât see no reason to block my significant other. I donât have shit to hide im keep posting 
let him be miserable 
I dont have mine on FacebookâŚ
Sounds like you have something to hide.
Why would you block them? That literally makes no sense unless youâre trying to hide something then youâre in the wrong anyways ? 
They both sounds toxic. Sheâs toxic because she feels the need to block him on social media. He sounds toxic for monitoring her shĂŻt. Clearly thereâs trust issues and or secrets sitting here
not gonn lie did it a few times itâs the petty in me but he is safe for now till i feel like being petty again
Thatâs why kids should not marry. Marriage is for adults, 2 people that loves each other and building a life together. This here sounds like playing games and usely thatâs why relationship end.
My ex did this. He would passively bring up things in groups I was in, scold me for commenting or posting something. I couldnât do anything without a remarkable from him. Restricting him isnât going to help. Hell join a group with a different name or have someone else stalk you. If heâs doing this online heâs doing it in person too. Get rid of him. Heâs not going to stop.
My ex was like and we broke up. Controlling freak!
Ahh remember wat we did before social media???
Your husband lmaooo you decide.
Nope. You are not wrong! I got so sick of my husband âWhy would you post thatâ messages that I ended up deactivating my page.
I didnât know you could get married at 12 years old
This is how social media kills relationships
If my Husband was acting the same I would block him too. I like to keep my social media annoyance free since everyone else in the world seems to pluck my nerves.
You should care more about your partner than social media
What⌠why is the paranoid and what are you hiding?
Why are u being sneaky
I wish my husband cares enough to look at my stuff
You are an adult. You decide what to post and what not to post.
Lol I know someone that did this many years ago, theyâre still married so it seemed to work for them
My wife will share so many of those âshare this and youâll have good luckâ posts. I think theyâre so pointless and cheesy, but I donât send her messages or ask in a condescending way why she posts them. The woman just wants some extra cash or good fortune Some spouses need to just chill out and pick battles wisely lol I would honestly just tell your husband to leave it alone because youâre gonna post what ya want as long as itâs not inappropriate or pushing boundaries, and if he canât chill, then he has a bigger problem.
Wait I just thought about it⌠why is he monitoring though? Are you giving him reasons to not trust you? Have you broken trust in the past?
While he shouldnât monitor you like a child, he does have the right to ask you to stop doing things that make him uncomfortable. Make sure you arenât at fault too before getting mad at him. The fact you were so vague makes me think you might be hiding the whole story because it paints you poorly. Donât use us to gas light.
But youre still living with him? All the freaking red flagsâŚ
You wouldnât have done it if there wasnât something for him to monitor that you donât want him to see . Very immature of you and only further validates mistrust in your use of SM
What are you hiding ?
Mmmm what are you hiding??? Lol idc if my HUSBAND CHECKS MY PAGE EVERY 5 MINUTES, he is my husband and I have nothing to hide.
blocking him is not the right thing because that just shows that you are being sneaky or he was right and you are hiding something⌠if you donât like him checking on you, divorce him , give him and yourself freedom to do what yall want.
Not enough info. But I am disappointed in responses on here NEWS FLASH women and me can have opposite sex friends. Post things to make themselves feel better etc âŚ
He shouldnât be âmonitoringâ you but also if youâre not doing anything shady then why block him? I wouldnât care if my partner was checking mine i have nothing to hide and if for some reason heâs insecure id prefer that he could see im not doing anything than block him and fuel to his worries and anxieties (if thats the reason for him checking up on you) habe you sat down and asked him why he does it? Hear his reasoning and also tell him it makes you uncomfortable that heâs checking up on you
She is saying he is monitoring and being controlling, gives her a good reason to Block him actually, if nobody has been with a controlling narcissistic then they clearly donât get it
And I canât even get a 
when I tag mine in a post 
My ex husband did that to me the day I found out about the other woman. We were still very much married.
Everyone jumps to âwhat are you hiding?â When he could just be super controlling, insecure and/or paranoid. A simple meme or selfie to her could be a whole diff thing to him. I had an ex like that unfortunately. Posting for fun could turn into huge fights. It can either be donât post anything at all or block him . She didnât give any details though so we can only speculate at this point.
If my SO was on my page there would be no peace⌠im a smartass & thereâs no way he could handle it. Just because I post something doesnât mean anything, I just find stuff & want to share it⌠I have 1 ex on my fb page & hes restricted on content
Hmm why? Cause youâre doing shit youâre not supposed to be doing? Sounds like youâre a shady p0s. Lots of them around. 
My fiance and I see what each of us posts doesnât bother us. I have noithing to hide
so your hiding something and dont wanna get caughtâ:thinking:
Yâall need to just delete social media.
Red flag if my companion does it I know why but then he canât see mine I canât see his but you hiding something or you wouldnât care
Why is he monitoring you like a child?
Mine passes me off too but Iâd never block him from my accounts your obviously trying to hide something
Lol yes b*tch not because he is controlling but because he is a serial unfriender so heâs permanently in the block list. Plus I have a mouth that shocks him
Mine used to mesg every guy on there even family he did not know and ask if they slept with me and how they knew me. It was regrating I found out it was due to his infidelity and being on dating sitesâŚ
Sounds like yâall may have bigger issues than social mediaâŚ.
well, is he monitoring you cause youâre frisky and canât be trusted?
Or is he monitoring cause heâs abusive. Need more information to give you accurate advice.
He isnât my husband⌠weâve been together for about 5 years. I intentionally do not have him on any social media myself. You arenât alone.
We need more context. Why does he monitor you? Have you donât something to create trust issues? Has he done anything to create trust issues with you so his behavior of needing to monitor you is to see if youâre doing the same thing?
If you have absolutely nothing to hide why block him? It just gives him even more of a reason to suspect things and having it create issues between you two.
I donât see a reason to block a significant other. Even if they snoop around on your page if theres noting to hide who cares
The issue isnât social media. Itâs a lack of trust. Maybe sit down and have a serious talk about why he feels the need to monitor your accounts.
I would say both of you should just put the phone down for a while and spend time together 
Either you gave him a reason, or he is controlling and abusive. Either way, probably best to just go your separate ways⌠a relationship like that isnt worth it⌠ever. Blocking him will only cause more problems in person. Neither side is healthy.
If you have to block him send him packing.
I donât have mine blocked but we arenât connected on social media.
Mine guy unmarried me unfriend me was on dating sites treats me like shit so i have him blocked now fuck him and i will find me friends just as he has had our entire joke of a relationship we have three babies i always stay loyal n two marriages later 22 years i am s t ill losing 12 babies how do we learn to be cold and heartless n sneaky like them
I blocked my ex when we were married because he would hit on my friends as well as my kidâs friends.
My other half isnât on my Facebook and we are totally ok with that.
Wrong is NOT the word⌠but if you are blocking your hubby, when does it become the non toxic, adult thought process of WTF you doing? Now an ex, different story, but if you have to block your partner, youâre in the wrong relationship, but many of yâall are not grown enough for that conversation. And, in some cases if you are blocking your partner, they are in the wrong relationship. Childish a$$ sh!t.
We live together. We donât need to be connected on social media. And itâs nobodyâs business what you do to begin with.
A. Monitoring spirt?? Seriously it isnât a âspiritâ. He needs to get some therapy if he has trust issues that you didnât cause. And even if you did cause him to have trust issues he needs therapy for it.
B. What are you doing that you care that he sees? I give absolutely zero fucks if my husband sees anything and everything I do on any and all social media platforms, he can even unlock my phone and has the passwords for all 5 of my email accounts. However, he can say the exact same thing. We have nothing to hide from each other.
If youâre to this point is the relationship worth spending more time on?
Whatever gives you peace, do that.
We both have facebook but hubby doesnât have any friends on his haha he chooses it that just likes to read sports pages comedy pages etc.
My bf and I have been together for almost 3 months now. We live in a small town where everyone knows everyoneâs business. We have chosen not to be the âtypicalâ social media couple. Most in our town know that we are together, however, it is not our priority to post it all over Facebook. We both feel that we donât need social media to convey our relationship, we can do that our own way.
My boyfriend and I arenât. We have tried a few times an it leads to more silly arguments. Not watching each other or cheating but other stuff so we decided best not to be friends with each otbee
My husband and I have been married almost 4 years and weâre friends on Facebook. BUT weâre a military couple so heâs been gone a lot and Facebook and email are the only way to stay connected. Now we just message each other memes from the other side of the couch so we donât have to get uncomfortable to show each other lol
This post suuuuucks. So much wanted validation on how to conduct relationships. Nobody truly knows, just hush. Find your person, and if you feel you havenât, then just leave. Itâs always better that way.
Wow these comments⌠Iâm glad my husband and I have no secrets we follow each other on social media i post what i want and he doesnât care unless it would be a nude photo which i donât post! But for the most part he letâs me do what I want
Must be hiding something.
I feel like more context is needed here.
But I get the vibe that either his actions or yours are a red flag and itâs time to revaluate the relationship as a whole if youâre feeling the need to block him on social media.
Blocking wonât help that. It will only tell him you have something to hide. If youâre open and honest and he still attempts to monitor you, then it becomes more or a him problem.
So either he is just too jealous or nosey or possibly controllingâŚOR you are too flirty or friendly with folks and he dont like itâŚor too secretive and not open about things that could be perceived as secretive.
Neither of you should have anything to hide or block the other one from seeing.
But honestly you really dont say whatâs wrong you just want us to know that you blocked your husband. Do really want advice or is this a way to let someone know theyâre ok to reach out now since your husband is blocked?
You and your husband have more issues than him controlling your social media. Maybe you should seek couples therapy
You shouldnt have anything to block your husband from seeing âŚi take it you can still see what he is doing
Girl you are not wrong i did the same thing for that exact same reason
What is the question?
What exactly is he monitoring. Need more information.
Imo he will assume youâre trying to hide something.
But Iâm with you if you tried to talk to him and he still does it adios lol
Since you didnât really give any info as to why Iâd say youâre wrong
so⌠either
#1 you done something
#2 hes done something
either way, yall are acting childish
I did that to my Dad once because he was just trolling me all the time. You have to learn to trust each other. That takes time unfortunately. Marriage should be sacred and not just thrown away. Thereâs always Karma that comes back to bite us in the ass every negative action results in more negative things coming back.
His monitoring spirit? What??
Not wrong at all. I do it to mine if he gets ahead of himself too 
Youâre not wrong⌠i would do the same thing.
Nope, not wrong at all. Iâm thankful mine isnât on any platforms, but my teenage children are. I have nothing to hide, but being monitored and questioned isnât right.
Both of yâall sound wrong.
If you gotta block him your probably doing something wrong.
And if he feels heâs gotta monitor you he obviously doesnât trust you.
So neither of you need to be in that relationship.
Nope. Not wrong. I blocked my ex due to the fact that he would constantly accuse me of sleeping with everyone that like even a random picture (not of me) literally if I posted a pretty moon⌠yes, family and regardless of if it were male or female. Also, come to find out he would pick these âtimesâ to accuse me of something we BOTH knew better than⌠he was the one actually hiding stuff, but I had gotten sick of him add/block/deleting me for false accusations, so I left him blocked and yeah, MAJOR 
. In MY case the one doing the âmonitoringâ and all that WAS the ONE doing stuff and hiding it.
Shoot if my hubby started doing that I delete the whole.man from my life like I donât have time to not have inner or mental peace like buh bye
Idk why i read this and my brain instantly though ex husband and i was like yeah that is good. Then, I saw peopleâs responses and reread your post. Not ex. Just husband? Yeah, that is weird.