We are a little different. Like we have our own phone plans through diff services, I don’t drive but he does so he has insurance. I pay my bills that I’m strictly responsible for and he wants to provide for us so he pays the major bills. However, I buy the food, household needs for everyone so we have our own balance
At least you got help my ex husband walked out on me after 14/2 years a marriage he won’t help me with bills he won’t help me with nothing he doesn’t even pay child support
The man of the house should always pay 
Eh we don’t 50 50 its more like my husband pays and is like hey i need this much to cover the rest of the bills this month and normally its nothing out of my pocket and only cause we dont use banks