Is it appropriate to text and have relations with a guy I met at my work who looks like my dad almost identically?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it weird to have a relaationship with someone who looks like my dad?
Sometimes I wonder if people are actually this dense or if they ask dumb questions for attention.
I mean⌠I absolutely couldnt do it
uhâŚvery. i cant believe you actually asked that question.
I think the question answers itself
Have him take a DNA test !
Ummmm, so many questions
Ummmmm yeah thatâs weird af.
Ok. Im pretty sure this one is made up! Lol
LolâŚI mean I think itâs normal to date someone with the same morals, values, and work ethic as your dad but Iâd be a little creeped out if my significant other looked like my dad lol
Itâs a little weird to me, but itâs not uncommon. I apparently have a thing for dudes with full beards
Weird is an understatement
Why is this a question
Weird yes, illegal and wrong, no. I mean all in all its all you boo.
feel like I need comparison picturesđ
Makes calling him daddy even more awkward, huh?
Iâd be too weirded out. I couldnât have a relationship with one dude, because he had the same name as my brother, and the thought of intercourse and moaning that name was a little too much for me. Lmao.
Daddy issues maybe? Very weird. But what I wanna know is are you attracted to him cause he looks like your dad or just attracted to him as a person? Thatâs the real question!
Ummm, I simply do not see how you can have a relationship with someone who could be your dads twin. . Like letâs be for real, this man turns you on? . . . .
I am no one to judge you but . .
Id be asking for a DNA test to make he wasnt your brotherâŚ
How close is identical
New meaning to daddy issues
I would Pass bit odd
my ex didnât look like my dad but there was always something that reminded me like thereâs a 13 year age gap which is just like my mum and dad, his elbows were like his because heâs older, the way he smoked. but i couldnât be with a man that looked like him.
if itâs weird to you then donât be with him, if itâs not weird then carry on. it doesnât matter what strangers on the internet think. of course everyoneâs gonna tell you itâs weird because theyâre not you.
After 16 years of being together and 11 years of being married i realized that my husband resembles my biological dad a little bit. In the end its all u if its too weird for u then donât do it.
Are u sure heâs not your uncle jk. They say woman date or marry guys that are like there father so I guess thatâs up to u.
I meanâŚits weird to kiss and find someone that looks like your dad attractive IMO⌠Not to mention when yall eventually have sex isnt it gonna be weird screwing someone thatâs identical to your father?.. EwâŚ
Itâs weird that you even have to ask this
This⌠Subconsciously is very normal. While people choose to make light of the situation there are numerous psychological studies where women seek out men with characteristics of their fathers and boys do the same with women who have certain features or characteristics as their mothers.
Whatâs more is the draw could be due to the similarities, not on sexual level, but the familiarity level. Which makes sense.
Grow up peopleâŚ
Only weird if you make it. Also maybe dna test??
Ask SIGMUND FREUD.
Youâre probably related if he actually looks identical to him this has to be bait, nobody is this oblivious
Are you or have you ever been attracted to your dad?
I wonder how weird your dad would feel
Another golden post today
how could you ever try to date a guy that looks like your dad⌠just say youâre sexually attracted to your dad lmao
0/10 donât recommend going for it
Are you serious or is this an early April Fools jokeđĽ´
Iâm sure your mum would love to meet him
Lmfao weird youâre sexually attracted to you dad lol Iâd have them meet they might just be related
Definitely weird Iâd be grossed out during sex
Wtf kind of question is this?
Yeah, no⌠I would not allow myself to have any sexual or romantic relations with a man whom looked almost identical to my dad. Nope. No, maâam. I do not care how sweet and caring he may be. To me, I would feel dirty and gross. And if theyâre that close in physical characteristics that they could be twins, I would be asking some questions. Though it is rare, it does happen that a pair of siblings who didnât know they were related date and donât find out until later on.
Itâs weird that you are even asking this question.
Sounds like you got daddy issues which is why you want someone that looks like him.
Well if he isnât your dad then no itâs not inappropriate however how the hell do you date someone who looks like your dad that would creep me tf out.
I married him. Yes the guy that looked liked my dad. Didnât realize until after when my dad took up a photo of my husband and thought it was himself.
Love this group for the comments glad my friend added me
The weird part is being attracted to someone who looks like your dad like how ive heard of every girl marries her father but i thought that meant characteristics not twins
This one time a guy with the same name as my dad was trying to hit me up, and I was like, âI donât date people with the same name as my dad.â
So noooo. Thatâs a hard pass.
What if heâs your dadâs long lost twin separated at birth and they donât know they were twins!
Why are you asking a bunch of strangers? If you want to date him, go ahead. You probably will anyways.
Thereâs different levels to the Daddy kink and I think you unlocked a new one
Reminds me of the episode of Seinfeld when Jerry dated someone that looked like his sister
He ainât ur dad so I say itâs up to you
Itâs weird. Really weird.
Very weird!!! Are you sure heâs not your brother?
These comments are fucking gold
Only if you had daddy issues grown upâŚ
I mean why would ya want to
I wanna see the comparison!
Iâm gonna need see pictures for comparison before I make a decision!
Appropriate? Wrong word, thatâs pretty gross.
Is this your legal loophole because incest is illegal?
Apparently I fated someone when I was 17 who looked like my Dad (someone said it) I broke up with him. Itâs too weird.
I was disturbed by reading this question.
I mean, why would you want to?!?!?!
I need pictures so I can let you know
Thatâs a no from me dawg.
If your daddy is fine, he fine.
I donât necessarily think so, but if they look that much alike i might want to have a DNA test on him done - - - :3
I mean do you find your dad attractive because not to judge but thatâs kind of what your insinuating
Iâm sorry but some of these answers are so stupid I think there is nothing wrong with it
you do you.
not related so, who cares?
Quit dating your Unkel
Are you sure that youâre sure that youâre sure that there is no relation?
Is he your brother. Lol
Like mother like daughter lol
Daddy issues much???
Youâre probably the only one that thinks they look alike.
Lmfaoooo. It would feel weird, no?
Post pics let us judge.
Why are you askingâŚask yourself CAN YOU.?
Thatâs up to you. My husband and dad have the same name and people think itâs weird I donât even think about it 98% of the time.
SisâŚif u gotta ask its weirdđ
Um⌠I couldnât do it, personally lol Itâs weird.
If attracted and happy. I mean me personally I donât think I could. Itâd be weird.
Just make sure he is not your brother from another mother.
I would get a dna test done first cause you just never know. I have a brother that is 55 never met him my hubby is 55 to so it worries me
Nah thatâs disgusting goodbye
When they say women marry men like their fathersâŚthey mean behaviorâŚnot looksâŚif you are bragging about how much he looks like your dadâŚyou might ought to think deeply about that
Lots of times girls choose their âdads.â I think itâs so healthy because they like and respect their dads, and if they find someone like himâŚitâs a gift!
It would be weird if you were saying âYes Daddy!â when youâre actually doing the deed
Psychologically no, most women (who have good paternal relationships) tend to fall in love with a man who is like their father. I mean I personally am a daddyâs girl, raised by my dad, spent more time with him than anyone, and well I fell in love with a man who personality wise is damn near identical to my father.
I think it depends on how you feel about the situation I guess. Lol
At least his not your brother
The fact youâre on here asking the question should probably be your answer. If you have no issues then nobody else should but if you care what others think then maybe you should ask yourself whats more important ⌠Their opinion or your happiness.
Iâm just waiting for the comparison photos!!
This is weird because you made it weird
I couldnât even date a guy who used the same cologne as my father.
Considering your father is supposed to demonstrate how and what to look for in a good partner isnât not surprising you pick someone who resembles your dad as it is fairly normal for guys to find women who resemble there mother.
Ewwww I find it really weirdâ:face_vomiting: