Is it weird to have a relationship with someone who looks like my dad?

Is it appropriate to text and have relations with a guy I met at my work who looks like my dad almost identically?

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it weird to have a relaationship with someone who looks like my dad?

Sometimes I wonder if people are actually this dense or if they ask dumb questions for attention. :woman_facepalming:

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I mean… I absolutely couldnt do it :nauseated_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face:

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uh…very. i cant believe you actually asked that question.

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I think the question answers itself

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Have him take a DNA test !

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Ummmm, so many questions :woozy_face:

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Ummmmm yeah that’s weird af.

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Ok. Im pretty sure this one is made up! Lol

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Lol…I mean I think it’s normal to date someone with the same morals, values, and work ethic as your dad but I’d be a little creeped out if my significant other looked like my dad lol

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It’s a little weird to me, but it’s not uncommon. I apparently have a thing for dudes with full beards :person_shrugging:

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Weird is an understatement

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Why is this a question :sob:

Weird yes, illegal and wrong, no. I mean all in all its all you boo.

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feel like I need comparison pictures😂

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Makes calling him daddy even more awkward, huh?
:nauseated_face::face_vomiting:

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I’d be too weirded out. I couldn’t have a relationship with one dude, because he had the same name as my brother, and the thought of intercourse and moaning that name was a little too much for me. Lmao.

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Daddy issues maybe? Very weird. But what I wanna know is are you attracted to him cause he looks like your dad or just attracted to him as a person? That’s the real question!

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Ummm, I simply do not see how you can have a relationship with someone who could be your dads twin. . Like let’s be for real, this man turns you on? . . . .
I am no one to judge you but . .

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Id be asking for a DNA test to make he wasnt your brother…

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How close is identical :sweat_smile:

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New meaning to daddy issues

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I would Pass :rofl: bit odd

my ex didn’t look like my dad but there was always something that reminded me like there’s a 13 year age gap which is just like my mum and dad, his elbows were like his because he’s older, the way he smoked. but i couldn’t be with a man that looked like him.

if it’s weird to you then don’t be with him, if it’s not weird then carry on. it doesn’t matter what strangers on the internet think. of course everyone’s gonna tell you it’s weird because they’re not you.

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After 16 years of being together and 11 years of being married i realized that my husband resembles my biological dad a little bit. In the end its all u if its too weird for u then don’t do it.

Are u sure he’s not your uncle :rofl:jk. They say woman date or marry guys that are like there father so I guess that’s up to u.

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I mean…its weird to kiss and find someone that looks like your dad attractive IMO… Not to mention when yall eventually have sex isnt it gonna be weird screwing someone that’s identical to your father?.. Ew…

It’s weird that you even have to ask this

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This… Subconsciously is very normal. While people choose to make light of the situation there are numerous psychological studies where women seek out men with characteristics of their fathers and boys do the same with women who have certain features or characteristics as their mothers.

What’s more is the draw could be due to the similarities, not on sexual level, but the familiarity level. Which makes sense.

Grow up people…

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Only weird if you make it. Also maybe dna test??:sweat_smile:

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Ask SIGMUND FREUD. :joy::joy:

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You’re probably related if he actually looks identical to him :joy: this has to be bait, nobody is this oblivious

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Are you or have you ever been attracted to your dad?

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I wonder how weird your dad would feel

Another golden post today :joy:

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how could you ever try to date a guy that looks like your dad… just say you’re sexually attracted to your dad lmao :skull::eyes:
0/10 don’t recommend going for it

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Are you serious or is this an early April Fools joke🥴

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I’m sure your mum would love to meet him

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Lmfao weird you’re sexually attracted to you dad lol I’d have them meet they might just be related

Definitely weird I’d be grossed out during sex :woozy_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face::nauseated_face::face_vomiting:

Wtf kind of question is this?

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Yeah, no… I would not allow myself to have any sexual or romantic relations with a man whom looked almost identical to my dad. Nope. No, ma’am. I do not care how sweet and caring he may be. To me, I would feel dirty and gross. And if they’re that close in physical characteristics that they could be twins, I would be asking some questions. Though it is rare, it does happen that a pair of siblings who didn’t know they were related date and don’t find out until later on.

It’s weird that you are even asking this question.

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Sounds like you got daddy issues which is why you want someone that looks like him.

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Well if he isn’t your dad then no it’s not inappropriate however how the hell do you date someone who looks like your dad that would creep me tf out.

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I married him. Yes the guy that looked liked my dad. Didn’t realize until after when my dad took up a photo of my husband and thought it was himself.

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Love this group for the comments glad my friend added me

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The weird part is being attracted to someone who looks like your dad like how :thinking: :flushed: ive heard of every girl marries her father but i thought that meant characteristics not twins

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This one time a guy with the same name as my dad was trying to hit me up, and I was like, “I don’t date people with the same name as my dad.” :see_no_evil:
So noooo. That’s a hard pass. :joy:

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What if he’s your dad’s long lost twin separated at birth and they don’t know they were twins!

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Why are you asking a bunch of strangers? If you want to date him, go ahead. You probably will anyways.

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There’s different levels to the Daddy kink and I think you unlocked a new one

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Reminds me of the episode of Seinfeld when Jerry dated someone that looked like his sister :joy::joy:

He ain’t ur dad so I say it’s up to you

It’s weird. Really weird.

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Very weird!!! Are you sure he’s not your brother?

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These comments are fucking gold

Only if you had daddy issues grown up…

I mean why would ya want to

I wanna see the comparison!

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I’m gonna need see pictures for comparison before I make a decision!

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Appropriate? Wrong word, that’s pretty gross.

Is this your legal loophole because incest is illegal? :nauseated_face:

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Apparently I fated someone when I was 17 who looked like my Dad (someone said it) I broke up with him. It’s too weird.

I was disturbed by reading this question.
I mean, why would you want to?!?!?!

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I need pictures so I can let you know :joy:

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That’s a no from me dawg. :no_good_woman:t2:

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If your daddy is fine, he fine. :sob::woman_shrugging:t5:

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I don’t necessarily think so, but if they look that much alike i might want to have a DNA test on him done - - - :3

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I mean do you find your dad attractive because not to judge but that’s kind of what your insinuating

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I’m sorry but some of these answers are so stupid I think there is nothing wrong with it

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you do you.
not related so, who cares?

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Quit dating your Unkel

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Are you sure that you’re sure that you’re sure that there is no relation?:thinking:

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Is he your brother. Lol

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Like mother like daughter lol :woman_shrugging:t2::tipping_hand_woman:t2:

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Daddy issues much???

You’re probably the only one that thinks they look alike. :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Lmfaoooo. It would feel weird, no?

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Post pics let us judge.

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Why are you asking…ask yourself CAN YOU.?

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That’s up to you. My husband and dad have the same name and people think it’s weird I don’t even think about it 98% of the time.

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Sis…if u gotta ask its weird😭

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Um… I couldn’t do it, personally lol It’s weird.

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If attracted and happy. I mean me personally I don’t think I could. It’d be weird.

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Just make sure he is not your brother from another mother.

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I would get a dna test done first cause you just never know. I have a brother that is 55 never met him my hubby is 55 to so it worries me

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Nah that’s disgusting goodbye

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When they say women marry men like their fathers…they mean behavior…not looks…if you are bragging about how much he looks like your dad…you might ought to think deeply about that :woman_facepalming::smile:

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Lots of times girls choose their “dads.” I think it’s so healthy because they like and respect their dads, and if they find someone like him…it’s a gift!

It would be weird if you were saying “Yes Daddy!” when you’re actually doing the deed :rofl::rofl::woman_facepalming:

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Psychologically no, most women (who have good paternal relationships) tend to fall in love with a man who is like their father. I mean I personally am a daddy’s girl, raised by my dad, spent more time with him than anyone, and well I fell in love with a man who personality wise is damn near identical to my father.

I think it depends on how you feel about the situation I guess. Lol

At least his not your brother

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The fact you’re on here asking the question should probably be your answer. If you have no issues then nobody else should but if you care what others think then maybe you should ask yourself whats more important … Their opinion or your happiness.

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I’m just waiting for the comparison photos!!:skull:

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This is weird because you made it weird :confounded:

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I couldn’t even date a guy who used the same cologne as my father.

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Considering your father is supposed to demonstrate how and what to look for in a good partner isn’t not surprising you pick someone who resembles your dad as it is fairly normal for guys to find women who resemble there mother.

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Ewwww I find it really weird​:face_vomiting::face_vomiting::face_vomiting::face_vomiting::face_vomiting: