Is it wrong for your fiancé to follow women on social media that post half-naked pictures every day? My fiancé and I have been together for five years and have two children together. One is 2, and the other is eight months. My body has changed a lot and I’m very insecure about it. My fiancé never really followed women like that before, and today I noticed a picture as he was scrolling on Facebook (he even stopped scrolling to look at it), and when I asked him about it he laughed it off but it made me feel terrible that he’s looking at women like that all the time. We’ve talked about this before and I thought that was the end of it but I guess not.
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I have been married for 34 years, I know my husband did , and he is home every night and weekends, but I did not tell him to stop, because I didn’t want him to hide it from me. But I did tell him that it made me uncomfortable, and it made me question my own body. He told me that just because he looks, that he has no desire to know them, chat with them or or be involved with them. I have noticed that after I told him how it put my self esteem in the garbage pail, he doesn’t do that anymore.
Coming on here your gonna get different opinions. If it bothers you have a talk with him. When you have extra time try to work out at home while the little ones are sleeping. Best of luck
Well since you never required him to marry you, which includes a commitment to God & everyone in your lives, that he’ll be faithful to you, I guess he’s able to do stuff like that. I don’t think you needed 5 years and a couple kids to realize what kind of guy you have on your hands.
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I feel like it is wrong and disrespectful towards you!
I also feel like that can cause temptation and cause a whole bunch of problems when it could easily be avoided by not doing that. Just my opinion
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Me personally, I don’t care what my husband looks at. As long as everything else still has to do with me. We are all humans. You are gonna find other people attractive. As long as he don’t interacting with anyone I could care less. I’ve had 3 kids in 5 years. 4 kids total and my body is nothing near perfect. So I get being insecure! I just quit asking what he was looking at and stuff. Our “personal”relationship is just fine so I don’t question what he does!
A lot of woman are insecure with their bodies especially getting older and seeing your body change over the years. My husband and I have complete trust in our relationship. He’s only human. If you trust each him there should be no problem. Try taking some walks a few days a week. This will probably help with self confidence
A married man should not be looking at other women. PERIOD. its wrong and disrespectful. And a married woman should not be looking at other men. It’s not a matter of trust its a matter of what’s right.
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Guess you’d better start looking at some buff guys then. What, he doesn’t like it? Okay then. Yes, sometimes what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
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Hes a man…but one has to ask herself…do you stop and take a second glance at a man other than him you find attractive.
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It doesn’t bother me at all but to be fair our marriage is not typical.
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I followed a page called the kilted coaches… basically 2 half naked Scotsmen in kilts doing exercises…my husband was less than amused so I’ve unfollwed them 
But if you wanna wind him up as he is winding you up, get the kilted coaches page up and make sure he she’s you lookin 
PS I know Rab, maybe made my hubby more jealous because of that
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Red flag for me. Just my thought…
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No!! He has a “B I G” Problem.
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Do you get mad when both of you watch a movie and a half naked woman comes out? I think you have to work on your insecurities before you help destroy your relationship.
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If he’s doing it because he’s not attracted to you anymore then its wrong af. If he’s doing it simply because he’s a man then no harm no foul
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