Ok I want thoughts and opinions on this and if I’m asking too much. I currently work from home.but my hours will be cut way down very soon. I told my husband this and that I will.need to either A: Get a full time job from home that requires me to be at my desk for 8 hours or B: get a full time job outside the home. Both of which will have me very busy on which I’d say I would need help with house work cuz right now I do it all. Everything by myself. He was on board until he realized he would have to help out. He immediately became negative and said we would have to hire a maid to clean. Cuz hes too tired when he get home. Like uhhh ok…is that how most parents do it when they both work? Am I asking that much for both us us to tag team it? Like I thought most couples juat helped each other out…but he refuses to do so. I told him I think its a waste of money to hire a maid when we can do it as a team and that I’m not comfortable with a stranger coming in and cleaning and touching my things. But he things there is no other way. Is he being selfish? Or am I just behind thr times or something? Like our house elisnt even that big. If we both teamed up it would be possible but it’s like he’s in the mind set of “it’s a women’s hob to clean” so he doesn’t want to do it. Ugh