Mamas, what’s the best way to conceive?

Hips up. Feet up on the back of the couch turn it down to 1 or 2 times a day daily.

Only have sex your most fertile day. I got pregnant the first time we tried doing this :rofl:

We used an app on my phone that told me when I was ovulating and the best days to try to conceive
We ended up with twins lol

Nothing. Waited 7 years for nature to work

Way too much hes probably shooting blanks more often then not. Give him time to regenerate his sperm count. Plus you can only get pregnant when you are ovulating. Alot of woman do not know how their reproductive system works and thats nothing to brle ashamed of , ask your OBGYN to tell you. Download an app track your periods and your ovulation cycle and it will tell you the best possible window to conceive ( its a guess obviously ) . i never tried to get pregnant but i never prevented it with my husband and oddly enough all 3 were conceived after arguments that lead to great make up sex i joke and say thats why my kids are so mean :joy::joy::joy:

Nothing will help you… if it happens it will… you can’t force it… just have fun and if it happens then it will…

I used the Flo app to track my periods and ovulation dates. We’d have sex once a day every other day.

Its not about the quantity but the quality lol you should start tracking your ovulation cycle

Stop trying & just have sex to make a baby . Enjoy your sex life . Also track your period as well to tell when your ovulating & get on a birth control pill or patch to get your period as well .

Sex every other day from day 8 to day 21 of your cycle. Drink orange juice everyday. Legs up after sex. Exercise regularly.

Should try once every three days. Sperm stays alive inside you for 3-5 days.

Tried for 3 years to get pregnant… Finally got pregnant with my son after me and my husband partied and smoked some weed. Maybe crazy but it worked

I agree that not trying is probably how it will happen.

Decide you actually don’t want a kid. Boom, pregnant.

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I got told to track my ovulation and a few days before u ovulate

Stop trying so hard, it will eventually happen when you least expect it…

5 to 6 times a day? Wow is it going in the right hole?

Get you an Italian. :woman_shrugging:t3: Was with my ex for 3 years after having our last son never got pregnant. Left him got with a Sicilian and :boom: boom​:boom: pregnant within a week now we have 3 together lol :joy:

Get an ovulation kit, otherwise, y’all will end up exhausted with a happy man, though :crazy_face:

have fun!! Don’t try force it, it will happen.

Track your cycle. Have sex when your most firtile

What is ur job timing? R u guys working from home? :rofl:

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Lord 5-6 times a day turns the wine into water🤦🏾‍♀️ Let the juice build up! Stop thinking about it so much. Missionary -lay there when done, Cowgirl -sit there when done, backshots -stay there when done. Whatever you do DO NOT USE THE BATHROOM. After sex…Try to avoid using those muscles to push for 30mins - 1hr. If all else fails take a tablespoon of Geritol every morning before/after breakfast. Good luck❤️

Use an ovulation test.

Figure out your ovulation.

Figure out when you ovulate

Don’t become obsessed about it. Just enjoy each other

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Quality not quantity couple of times a week will suffice.

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Holy shit. I think If my husband even wanted a kid after 15 years he will wouldn’t have sex with me 3 timesa a day… you go girl!

Have fun, be spontaneous, Romantic, have fun, don’t stress

Make sure he goes deep when relieving himself too.

Stop trying…just have fun and love eachother.

Stop trying. Stressing over it will hamper success. Go away for a romantic weekend!!

Cut out sugar. Repoductive health is vastly improved when u remove sugar. Don’t think about it. Actually be aroused. Let the jiz soak in there lol and voila. Baby.

Track your cycle, that way you know which days you are ovulating, get an ovulation test this will help. And check your mucus when its clear slippery and strechy is most likely when your ovulating. And 5 to 6x a day lol they say to try and do it every other day. Stop trying so hard the more you want it the less likely its going to happen. Enjoy your downtime stop thinking about it so much. Just let it happen. Also I’ve read certain foods are good for swimmers and others are good for your eggs. Maybe try eating some of the food they suggest?

You need to track ovulation… you can only concierge 3-5 days a month. You could be skipping your most fertile days doing it every 3 days… sounds like a robotic system and not very Romantic. Forget about trying to get knocked up whole doing it and let your freak flag fly. Seduce him. Make it super hot and sexy. Get Romantic. Bust out some lingerie and toys. Have freaking fun with it. Only have sex that many times a day if you truly desire (I do lol) not just to get pregnant. Again. Get tracking is most important! Get an app for your phone and go hog wild those fertile days :grin:

14 days after you start your period.

That’s far to much sex.

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Track your cycle and have sex on fertile days x

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Have sex every other day that’s what I was told

Not trying works best for me

I used the app “my days” to track everything and legs up :joy::joy::joy::woman_shrugging:t2: worked both times right away

Have sex once a day, every day for 31 days. You will hit the right time. After a while, it kinda feels like a chore and you just do the deed and get it over with :sweat_smile:
Lay sill with hips elevated for a good 15-20 minutes.
After 7.5 years of trying, me and my husband tried this. Took one month and I was pregnant.

I am TTC also, but you have to let the sperm rest, so i was told to have sex every other day atleast twice a day, the more you do it the less likely to increase your chances. However, just have fun with him😁

Cassanovum worked for me took it for a month boom pregnant twice.

Dam lady. Give the man a chance to reload

Doing it that many times a day, you are actually knocking his swimmerd count down and not helping yourselves out. Once in the morning and once at night is good.

Um… just a thought (swear I’m not being rude or judgemental in ANY WAY) but you should try having sex like 1-3x EVERY day and definitely track your period, ovulation, etc. I like Ovia Fertility. I’ve read a lot about logging internal temp, the “position” and “efface” of your uterus, etc. to determine when you have sex/when you’re fertile. Have you tried ovulation tests?

Definitely tell him to get you as wet and turned on as possible! Play and just be with each other. The lubrication will help the sperm get there more easily for fertilization. :gift_heart: GL

Sex every other day. High dose vit C, E, zinc sulfate & folic acid FOR HIM. Cold undies for him

Low stress for you, fertility acupuncture, massages

Trick is… stop trying… track your cycle. You have to be relaxed… just stop trying . Stop for a bit. Sounds like your forcing it… which affects both of you. 3 months give yourself a break… 3 months of tracking your cycle and maybe skip the sex too… and do what comes naturally… month 2 try on ovulation and same… then 3rd month… see where your at. You both need to chill though. Maybe a holiday? I got pregnant on holiday… :sweat_smile: on ovulation day. Relax. Xx

Do a head stand. It work’s

5-6 times a day?! With the same man?! Whos your man?! Super man?! :exploding_head:

Relax don’t push yourselves it will happen if it’s meant to

Wait wait 1 week. Go out get drunk and have fun and then it’ll happen once your having fun and relaxed i say

Find a foot zoner! Both of you get zoned regularly :sparkles:
Positive affirmations for the both of you :heartbeat:

After intercourse sleep on your side.

Slow down, and let the sperm regenerate.

Try ketogenic diet. It helps with fertility issues.

5/6 times a day?? Thats nympho behavior…js

Mine were all conceived on the 10th day of counting from the first day of your last period.

Quality not quantity

Yohimbine root works.
My husband and I used it. He was 57 and i was 37

Damn these people must not have any jobs or children … WHEN?! :laughing:

Once a day during the week of ovulation

Stop trying at all. Give up, then it will happen!!

Have sex less and don’t try

Orgasm at the same time

Stop trying…
Worked for me.

Put pillows underneath you

Track your ovulation and focus on those fertile days. Also use a lubricant called Pre-Seed. It helps those swimmers get to the egg easier.

Sex once a day every 3 days starting approx 10 days after your period. (If you have a 28 day cycle). The window to get pregnant is about 14 days after your period starts. Also consult an OBGYN as well.

Track your basal body temp and when it starts to elevate have sex every other day. Female should remain prone with hips slightly elevated for 20 minutes after sex

I cant stress this enough…
NO ONE on social media knows about your health history, Nor your partner. Please consult a physician for advice about this subject. This isn’t a question for social media.

dont have sex so often its more effective and have sex on ovulation days

The key is to have sex when you’re ovulating. Use an app to Check and on the days that’s deem “not safe” then get wild on those days

You’re having sex too many times a day. Once a day for couples without low sperm count will suffice.

Make sure you have an orgasm after he :sweat_drops: in you. Sorry to be graphic but your cervix sucks the :sweat_drops: up into your uterus with the contractions !

When you freshly get off your period, cum together. It works like a charm (no birth control) currently 9 weeks on my second!

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Track ur ovulation, change ur diet (both of you, take maca root, get a diva cup and try that way. Look it up😉

Have it before bed and just roll over and go to sleep in it. Shower late the next day (or not at all). His swimmers will be in there for hours!!

I didn’t try, I was told I couldn’t have kids but I got 3 on earth

It’s better not to “try”…just let it happen.

If you do it too many times a day it can decrease the sperm count

You need to track your ovulation

Acupuncture. Believe it or not. :slightly_smiling_face:

Stop with the 5 to 6 times a day

Dang… that is all I can say

Stop trying so hard!

Stop trying so hard :upside_down_face:

Chill
Less of the sex
Xx

Check your cervical fluid!! And get this book! You will choose the best method that suits you. Best of luck :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

I’m exhausted just reading this

Get checked and have labs done. Ovulation tests. All the daily “skittles” .

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Have him save up for a few days then maybe there will be a larger number of swimmers in the next time.

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Mamas, what’s the best way to conceive?

I struggled my Dr said every other time days 10-20 you don’t need multiple times a day we did just 1 and it worked out!

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Don’t try, honestly that’s the best advice I could give, give up and just enjoy time with your partner because if your not stressing and worrying about it you will conceive faster but your too busy thinking about it and worrying that it’s not happening xx

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I used a tracking app called Clue ( ‎Clue Period Tracker & Calendar on the App Store ) it helps you find out when you’re ovulating, it also helps track hormonal things too like periods and what not. I also cut back in unhealthy things like caffeine and nicotine and marijuana and only had sex once a day mainly in the morning and I conceived in less than 2 months of trying! Good luck mama!

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