Your feelings are valid to be upset but if you love him what happens when y’all wasn’t together don’t matter he had no reason to be faithful to you yes he should have told you but also maybe he was trying to take on one task at a time and for all you money hungry ass people out there screaming child support you’re pathetic af it’s not about money it’s about relationships with the child and yes I’m a single father with no help from the mother and yea I lived the life of surviving off of noodles and canned food to pay my child support so I have been in both sides of the table. It’s nice to get help when the other parent can afford to help but the parent having time an relationship with the child is most important. Screw the money