I already know how this is going to come off so please just help me decide on what I should do. My husband is an identical twin. One night, my husband, his twin and I were drinking. We got very very drunk. I hooked up with who I thought was my husband but now looking back at that night… and from what I can remember… his ummm ”man parts” felt different and I could never understand why… (he is circ but I vaguely remember it feeling uncirc) I recently found out I was pregnant and now I’m legit freaking out that it’s my husbands brothers and not my husbands. How do I even bring this up? Like ”hey Brandon, did we hook up the other night” like it’s just weird. And I can’t just ask my husband either bc he doesn’t remember much from that night… so please… someone tell me wtf I do in this situation… I’m dead serious… this is literally my life…
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Even a dna test couldn’t figure that out. They’re identical
There’s a lot to unpack here. Proside- they’ll still look the same as they would if it was his?
Honesty is probably your best policy here
Holy shit lmao I’m invested in this
Genetics can’t help you lol
Even a DNA test couldn’t tell the difference
Get DNA done quietly, from them both. Husband first, if it’s his, end of story…
Okay, but what is the likelihood that their parents would have chose to have one twin circumcised and one not?
This has to be fake… someone wants attention…
Genetically they are both the father. There is no need lol
Commas go a long way…
Maybe do nothing. How would you even be able to know for sure?
Identical twins have the same DNA…
Don’t even stress:rofl:
I’m no penis expert but I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t circumcise one twin and not the other (I know it can be done at anytime of someone’s life)
Doesn’t matter. Dna test will say it’s his anyways.
So if they’re identical they share the exact same DNA so I honestly wouldn’t even worry about it.
Good news is if they’re identical it shouldn’t matter lol
Lord have mercy on us all
I say don’t say anything. Being identical means there DNA is the same. Just don’t drink with both of them again.
What a load of rubbish you are asking!!!
Don’t say a word. Doesn’t matter who provided the sperm, the DNA will be the same. Girl, go old school and keep your mouth shut. Live your life.
I’d say if parents snipped one they snipped them both
You have that beautiful baby and forget about that night! End of story!
Identical twins have identical dna there will be no way to tell whose child it is
Since they have the same dna, I guess you’ll never know !
Same DNA no way of knowing
They have the same DNA lol you won’t find out
First advise is don’t get so drunk that you don’t know who you sleeping with especially after you have your baby.
Uhm… ask ? Does his brother seem different around you ? DNA isn’t going to help if they’re identical. Just ask.
DNA will still be the same, Do nothing !
Unlikely that one twin is uncircumcised and one isn’t. You’re probably just overthinking! If you’re honestly concerned the only way to find out is to ask the husband and the brother… sorry girl, this is a tough one.
Sarah Katelynn Moore
They have the same DNA. It’ll show up as his. There’s a set of twins who married a set of twins and both dads register as fathers of both of the couples’ sons.
I just want to know why parents would circ one son and not his identical twin?
That didn’t happen so much it unhappened some things that had
Same DNA i wouldn’t stress over it.
I’m sure a DNA test would say either of them are the dad, if they are identical…
Now this is a book I would read
Why would one twin be circumcised and the other uncircumcised ?
You are full of crap
If they are identical why is only one circumcised?
I’ll Take Sht That Never Happened For $500 Alex
If it’s his identical twin you’re in the clear. Fraternal? You might have some.'splaining to do.
You’ll never know, they have the same dna
This has gotta be a joke
Why would one twin be circumcised and one not? Do you know his brother isn’t?
So why would one twin be circumcised and not the other? You are likely just worrying for no reason and why would your husband’s brother sleep with you drunk or not knowing your his twin brothers wife??? I honestly think your overreacting to probably nothing. Either way genetically it won’t let you know if it was the brother. Just don’t say anything because your opening and entire can of worms for no reason. Your not even sure you slept with him so I wouldn’t say anything at all
Either don’t bring it up or ask him straight up. Be an adult. You have no other choice
Keep your mouth shut today and your legs shut from now on?
Daniela J Chavez
You aren’t a twin so if the brother hooked up with you then he knew what he was doing drunk or not… They share pretty much the same DNA if the are in fact identical so it shouldn’t matter…
So fake!! Saw this somewhere else
Truth always comes out. One way or another, I don’t have nothing else to say…
This is a troll post. I will die on this hill
First of all, why would one twin be circumcised and the other not? That would make no sense. Second of all…
My husband was an identical twin (his brother passed away). Can’t say I ever had this issue.
First off all why would one twin be circumcised and the other not be? Just admit you slept with him and you knew cause this story is trash lol
There is a certain test they can do that breaks down the DNA. I’d straight up just ask the brother. See if he remembers or what he says. Either way honesty is the best answer. I’m sure your husband will be understanding if what you are saying is true.
Raise the child with both as the father and the uncle its basically the same, no dna will help you and keep it to the grave if you want to stay in your marrige and dont ever drink together with them again rather drink with your husband alone
If you were too drunk to know which twin it was, how the heck do you remember that it might have felt uncircumcised?
If this story is true, which I seriously doubt, your brother in law raped you. If it isn’t true, you better stop falsely accusing your brother in law of rape.
Go with it to the grave
I dated a guy who got circumcised at 16 years old but his twin didnt. That’s the only way I could think its real. At least that’s what I was told.
I think you’re lying about the drunk incident. You’re probably having an affair with the twin and now you’re too stupid to know that the DNA would be the same so you concocted some ridiculous story to get advice.
Don’t sleep with anyone after drinking or when they are both in the same house together from now on? Also…why would one be clipped and the other not? Doesnt make sense.
There’s no way this is a serious post! I’m so sick of this page ! About to leave it
Don’t drink to the point you don’t know what your doing.
The only way you could tell them apart was his manhood
Just one of those things that’ll have to go to ya grave with ya. Their identical so you will never know for sure who’s the daddy.
Aannddd why were you irresponsible in drinking to the point of drunk with your husband’s brother? Gurl, blame it in the alcohol
I’m going to assume this is an attention post lol stop drinking and maybe look into counseling for yourself…you can get positive attention in other, healthy, ways
Or you could just keep your mouth and legs shut if you can’t drink responsibly don’t drink
HAHAHA does not seem legit.
His man parts would not feel any different unless his bit is bigger or smaller than your husbands. Not having its skin, you wouldn’t feel that in your V.
Well. If they’re twins no one’s gonna notice
Also. As a mother why would you get one circumcised and not the other🤔
Why would one twin brother be circumcised and not the other? Seems off to me
Meh, close enough if they are twins🤷♀️
If you can’t handle your liquor then you need to stop drinking. Being drunk is not an excuse to sleeping with someone other than your husband
DNA won’t dam you so i say hush… if they have identical dna… you’d have the same baby anyway…right…? Lol I’m sorry I’m not trying to be funny
The DNA is not the same. There are about on average 5 genetic mutations that could differentiate them.
Would the parent circ one and not the other?
Either way… even a dna test wouldn’t tell.
Good luck
Mom had one circumcised and not the other? Was it to tell them apart?
If they’re identical their DNA is, they’re both the daddy
Well , if they are identical who cares who is the father
Youre lucky since they are twins. Bahaha
Lmao why would one twin be circumcised but not the other. This is straight up serious jerry springer shit bro
No way that you didn’t know that it wasn’t your husband. I don’t care if he is an identical twin or not…I call bullshit
Why would they parents only circ one of their sons?
I’d say get a DNA test, but it will come back the same; so cheers?
You just destroyed their sibling relationship . I’m not a fan of hiding paternity from any father .Also stop drinking .
I don’t know, they have the same dna:person_shrugging: maybe no one will notice
All the negative comments… People need to educate themselves on rapists. They get off on shit like this. I could literally be the person sitting next to you. Idk if that’s the situation, but seems like the brother knew. Sad that ppl are saying no one will notice. SHE WILL. It’s violating and feels disgusting.
Did they both have the same outfits? If they did, then your brother-in-law is wrong. If not, you are. Regardless, your husband deserves to know.
I mean if you wouldn’t say anything … since their twins … if he comes out looking like him and their twins… would they really know?… I’m literally kidding and yeah good luck that’s crazy as shit my girl.
Girl something about this I’m not believing
What in the V.C. Andrew’s novel is going on?C’mon. I mean, really?
I would pinpoint date of concievement first. If you and hubby had sex any other days of that week… you could have conceived a different day.
But circ vs uncirc doesn’t feel any different.
I mean if they are twins… it’ll be fine.
If they are identical then the DNA would be the same… so