I need advice. My best friend has not talked to me since I told her that I was pregnant (4 weeks ago) before then ,she was at my house every single day and basically living here with my boyfriend and I. I am so confused on what is happening because she wont even take my calls and texts anymore and she unfriended my boyfriend on facebook…she is pregnant too so its not like she cannot have kids or anything so I am just confused on what I did wrong…we have been best friends for years and now i just feel heartbroken that she isnt here for me when i am always there for her…how can i fix this when she wont even talk to me?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My best friend stopped talking to me when I told her I was pregnant: Advice?
This might be far fetched but it sounds to me like she wanted your man.
She’s pregnant with your boyfriends kid.
Knocked up by your bf jk kinda sus tho
She was friends with ur bf on FB but not u? Why unfriend him…ignore u…hmm…was she and him behind ur back and now she’s upset…
I was just about to say all this
Ask your boyfriend ir ask her. Sounds fishy
Dude who is her baby daddy
She was sleeping with your boyfriend
1000% in love with your partner or pregnant to him
It’s just my opinion but maybe she’s pregnant by your man too and that’s why she unfriended him and now refused to see and talk to you…
Some people can’t handle others taking the spotlight away from them. They want to be the centre of attention
Let her go. I smell a rat
She is either upset you and pregnant too and "taking the spotlight " or she wanted your dude or a combo
Maybe she is pregnant with ur boyfriend’s baby too
My first thought was that she’s prego with your bf’s kid and he was probably telling her he was gonna leave you, but now you’re pregnant so she’s pissed that he won’t leave you now.
I’d check that pregnancy and your man - somethings not adding up
Maybe she thinks he aint shi… and is sad to know you are now stuck with him for life.
I think you better start questioning your BF. He knows something.
Sounds like she’s probably pregnant with your man’s kid, and is pissed off because he was still sleeping with you. Unless you know for sure who the father of her kid is, that’s what it probably is.
Might sound crazy, but are you sure your man and friend didn’t have something going on?
Does she have a man?
She got the same baby daddy as you
Your man is her baby daddy…or she hates sharing the spotlight with anyone…or both.
Cause she sleeping with your bf and mad you got pregnant
-cough- she’s not your best friend by any means…
Sad to say it but I agree with everyone else. That’s moat likely your bfs baby she is carrying also.
Sounds like a narcissist and wanted all the attention from you and hubby an now his attention will be on you. Where was she going to live over she had the baby?
Maybe she miscarried. Maybe she feels her “moment” was taken away and now its going to be about you. Maybe she is having problems with boyfriend and is jealous or envious of our relationship working out. OR maybe there was something going on between her and your boyfriend. Maybe her baby is actually his and you being pregnant makes things difficult on her part so she’s upset.
Is she pregnant with his baby?
Could be that she didn’t want to be pregnant at the same time, idk… could be what the other comments are saying, but it’s most definitely something you should be asking her.
Sounds very fishy to me, is she with her baby Dad? The only thing that makes sense why she would be acting this way is because of your boyfriend and her had something why would she delete him and just stop all contact? What does your boyfriend say about all of it ?
Sounds like two pregnant women and one baby father, lol
Maybe she’s pregnant with his
Yeah that’s his baby too. Drop her ass.
Then she wasn’t a very good friend. Don’t waste your time, let her go!
Wow! Very odd and Sketchy as Hell! I’d be doing some research and a Lil digging, I’d hate to ever place blame on something that someone didn’t do but something is very fishy. I have a very toxic mind because I’ve been mistreated and cheated on so of course my mind goes directly to your baby daddy is her baby daddy and she’s pissed but get proof, do research before jumping to conclusions. Especially if you and your man have a rock solid relationship! Good luck hun!
I got the vibe she’s having ur step kid
I’m thinking she might be pregnant and have the same father as your child! The sudden cold turkey is super alarming.
I’m thinking that your baby daddy is his baby daddy too
She’s guilty of something. Beware. Make up your mind and be alert. Cheers
At your house every single day basically living with you guys … that should tell u right there … some people are very sneaky and u wouldn’t even know it … sorry
My first thought was she’s having his baby too
You sure your bf isnt the dad of her unborn? Sounds like he made promises to be with her and then went and also got you pregnant too
Jessica Nichol all the comments saying “she’s pregnant w ur mans kid, ur man said he was gonna leave u for her but now that ur pregnant he wont” and just I mean, sounds right but Holy shit
My first thought is she’s been sleeping with your bf and is pregnant with his baby
Yall have the same baby daddy!
Maybe she’s jealous or envious. Regardless, she’s no friend. I’m sorry that has happened.
Ok I’m gonna need a part 2 or an update!!!
Maybe she had something going on with your man or wanted something with him then got butthurt finding out yous were having a family!
Or she’s just a shitty friend in general & can’t be happy for you
I agree with everyone here, but don’t feel like you should be trying to fix anything you didn’t break.
Oof. This is only speculation, but it seems like she might be pregnant by your boyfriend and he may have been telling her that y’all were going to split and he’d take care of their kid. But now you’re pregnant, so it showed her he wasn’t going to leave you for her. I definitely could be way off base, but the red flag is pretty bright
Sounds like ur man has two of u pregnant maybe he promise her he would leave u and know that u r expecting a baby she knows it won’t happen so she’s hurt
Lmao wtf is going on in this comments section? How are so many of you jumping to her sleeping with OPs boyfriend and being pregnant with his kid???
Listen OP, it could be a lot of things, and unless she tells you don’t jump to any conclusions. When my son was a newborn my “best friend” up and stopped talking to me out of the blue. I hit her up one last time and let her know I was willing to talk about whatever was going on and work on our friendship but was met with silence. That was nearly 4 years ago and I haven’t heard shit from her since. I miss her sometimes but what can you do? Sometimes people just handle things in the worst possible way.
Maybe y’all are having siblings
Is their any chance she could be dealing with a miscarriage and that’s why she talking to you? Some woman don’t tell right away. It’s the only thing that would make sense if she’s dealing with that
That child has a sibling, and that sibling belongs to your best friend.
If she basically lived at your house she may just be jealous that you are pregnant and you have your partner with you and she doesn’t.
Maybe she just wanted all the attention for her
Maybe your bf is her baby daddy too.
Maybe she just wants to give you space .
Sounds like she had something going on with your boyfriend and possibly pregnant with his child
Maybe she feels like you copied her or she can’t have her happiness or her moment bc now you’re pregnant too. Personally I loved being pregnant with my best friend with our first babies. It was such an amazing experience to go through with my all time best friend. You’re clearly upset over it Hun I’ll send good vibes. Don’t stress too much think about your baby +
This was posted already … like last week ???
I think she’s banging your boyfriend
She was sleeping with your bf to
Yall, crazy. This is so vague what if there was an argument or something that was not as important to poster as was to other lady. Yall literally telling a lady this stuff off very little information
I’m sorry your experiencing this during your pregnancy. While I agree with the idea that your partner may have slept with “friend”, it could be something else. Rule out the possibility by getting someone else to do the digging that you trust. Honestly focus on having a safe pregnancy and deal with things as they come however let your obgyn know you suspect infidelity and get tested to ensure you and your baby are not in harms way.
Sounds like she is upset. I over think all situations but my first thought was your boyfriend is her baby daddy and now that your pregnant the “whole I’ll leave her for you baby I promise”bullshit isn’t gonna slide any more
I wish the anonymous OP could comment because the majority vote here is overwhelming. No fooling us mamas.
Give her time to process. Is it coincidental you both became pregnant same time?
I felt bad thinking I was the only one who thought her bf fathered both babies…
Kinda obvious, her baby daddy is your baby daddy
I’m betting she wasn’t your friend for awhile. You mentioned that she was mostly living with you and your boyfriend. Is there a possibility she was seeing him behind your back and is upset because you are having his baby? It happens more often than not when there is 3 in a household.
Didn’t you post this last week bc we’re still waiting on that update Chile, she having his baby too
Why did she delete your bf? That sounds sus
Oh we are gonna SO need an update. Also, we need best friend’s side of the story asap
She was sleeping with your man.
You guys are sharing the same guy
Was she best friends with you before or after you got with your man. Because she could have just been pretending to be your friend the whole time to get close to him
Its not for you to fix. She’s made her choice. Sounds like she’s immature
Yal have the same baby daddy is why
Where is her boyfriend ?
I believe that most of these “posters” are trolls making up stories for fun
Ur boyfriend is her baby daddy too n she slept w him behind ur back. They are both POS n I am so sorry for your betrayal.
Am I the only one wondering if this gals boyfriend got her bff pregnant too
Somebody jealous cuz you’re having her baby daddy’s baby…
Giiirl. She’s pregnant too??? And was practically living with you and your boyfriend??? Is there any chance they were sleeping together? This is just very sus.
My thoughts are you should ask your boyfriend why darl …sorry
Sounds like there was definitely something going on between her and your BF!!!
That’s cause you both have the same baby daddy!
Sis y’all got the same baby daddy
Sounds like yall have the same baby daddy
Yall prolly carrying siblings…that’s what I think…
She is having your bf baby!!
That’s why she’s not talking to you!!
Wow you gotta mess on your hands!!
How close are her and your boyfriend?
Literally me and everyone else thinks she’s pregnant by your boyfriend. Really hope that’s not true, that would be heartbreaking losing the 2 most important people in your life (besides your little one)
I so want this to be real and not just someone bored on fb lol
I think them babies are siblings. He told her he was going to leave you and now you are pregnant too. She realized she played herself.
You need to ask her straight out who the dad is of her baby, and be prepared not to like the answer.
Are u sure she isn’t having your bfs baby
Y’all pregnant by the same guy.
Wow… I agree with All The Comments Above^^^