That’s cheating. I’d be pissed.
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That’s Disrespectful I’d be upset lol
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Sounds like he should be an ex.
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My man respects me enough not to do that
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And yet you still call him YOUR boyfriend…You are wrong!!! Boys behave as he is, MEN in a committed relationship don’t save tik tok videos of their ex…or other women…
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No need to save them. That’s shitty school boy behaviour. He needs to grow up
The saving them is a little off putting especially since he probably doesn’t realize deleting them from the device doesn’t delete them from any auto back up accounts like google photos… but realistically he probably has some sort of trophy complex or those are the only he gets off to. I saved my favorite porn vid 
it’s not about it being “weird”, right, or wrong. That’s him. He may stop, but doesn’t mean he still doesn’t desire it. To an extent we can’t help what we like so … deal or don’t. It is worth the trouble?
That’s disrespectful.
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Get rid of him. Don’t waste anymore time
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Well you’re okay with him liking photos why can’t he save them too? 
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Looking leads to something else allll the time…
You mean you EX man right??
Girl…
Get gone!
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Thats so weird and icky lmao
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You are not overreacting & please don’t this is normal, expected partner behavior.
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I have a photo you. Make sure he sees it. 
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Ew this is super disrespectful
Throw him away and start over.
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Throw him to the curb yesterday !
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My opinion only, if he is looking at pictures then he has no respect for you, you should never settle for a man that needs to look around for pictures of other women.
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That’s disrespectful and you set a boundary that he’s disrespecting and that’s a huge red flag
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My thought process is like this…when you’re in a museum & you see a sign that says “don’t touch” a small part of you wants to touch right? In the same way knowing that you/your partner look can lead to wanting to do other things with the same people you’re looking at.
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No , he is shopping!
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Y’all don’t come for me or my browser
Yeah that’s strange:/ liking and saving is completely different
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No, not like all men.
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No your not overreacting talk to him and tell him how you feel see what happens and he did delete them like you asked
My ex did that and it escalated. One of the many reasons he became my ex. My man now…he has pictures of me and pictures of us. Other pictures he looks at all the time…old vehicles for sale he might want parts off of ot buy and fix up or dirt bikes, 4 wheelers and razors…not other women. Throw the whole man away and start over.
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Lol wtf is he looking at bikini pics when there is fucking porn what a noob give me his name I can send him a few links poor guy…
My husband was taking pictures of women at a resort in the Cape. In front of my grandchildren and myself. Forget about watching porn. Get out while you can. It only gets worse.
Usually they save them for shower time to put it lightly. I guarantee he looks at them while he is being inappropriate.
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Yeah, no, not “like all men.” 
It IS okay to hold men to higher standards.
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My imagination goes places I’d rather not consider or imagine that your husband is doing with those photos. If he won’t speak with you about it, ask him to go to couples counseling.
Not all men, girly. Remember that.
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I feel like it would be time (if I were in this situation) for me to sit back and do some soul searching, write down your feelings, decide what you’re willing to blow by or what are deal breakers. You are worth much more than a man who slithers like a snake in his fantasy world. This would be a deal breaker for me solid. Even after 31 years of marriage.
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I don’t see a problem in him looking at porn or photos (besides the ex girlfriend, that’s just plain disrespectful) but to be saving the photos does cross a line.
Well damn, I save hot pics of women occasionally for the sole purpose of showing them to my husband! Lol Especially if it’s someone I know is his type or she’s wearing something I just know he’d appreciate. We’re way too solid for me to be worried about random hot girl pics. We all have eyes and can appreciate a beautiful face or body. If simply admiring stranger’s pics is gonna break you…you might want to reconsider being ready for a serious commitment. There’s way more serious stuff to worry about. Now saving pics of an ex to be checking out is a whole different issue, and not cool.
I can’t comment on here anymore Caz I always say the same thing… do it back and then leave lmaooo
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Not all men have red flags like your one 
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Yeah definitely a cheater
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I’m seeing comments of ladies being like “no not ALL men” and i’m just here to say Yes, ALL MEN look at other women. Whether it’s pictures/videos/livestreams/pornagraphy/other women at the store/beach ect. Yeah girl they are looking, and you’re dumb if you think they aren’t
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because he stores gals pics is most often so he can pleasure himself with visuals like a magazine. leave this alone. if you force him to remove them, he’ll get more, and if continue to make a big deal of it he will get sneaky and start getting the real thing pics, such as ex gf. You already said your piece, he removed them. Leave it alone unless you are planning on leaving him and this is your “go to” plan.
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Sounds like he has to much free time
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Um no been with my man for 7 years he don’t do that. The only thing he looks at on his phone is offer up or he plays games. There is no reason for the looking at all… Throw the whole man away!!!
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It’s one thing to admire someone in passing and completely another to take it another step. I’m not a jealous person but I don’t do disrespect. If you got that kinda time and energy to put into another female… be single. I got shit to do.
But I will say this in my relationship experience, never address things or act out of emotion when you’re discussing something important to you, your feelings or your boundaries. Because a mf’er will only focus on your actions of how you said it, yelling, cursing, being physical, etc. Then call you dramatic or over reacting. Plus nothing is scarier than being psycho killer calm in a situation they know they fk’d up in. When you do things out of emotion, narcissist people know you still have feelings towards them that they can get away with whatever they did and you’ll forgive them. They pride themselves on the cue of being a person in an emotional state and being able to calm them down. It’s a power trip.
Also, walk away from that type of manipulation.
Yeet the dude. He’s for the streets!
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No, today look, tomorrow May touch
My man has tons of pictures on his phone but not one of them is of a female that isn’t either me or family. It is not normal for a man in a committed relationship to look at much less save pictures like that.
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Saving photos and videos of his ex is highly disrespectful. I mean he doesn’t really need to save photos and videos anyway. They have that many websites of photos and videos for him to look at. Why do they need to be saved 
he shouldn’t be doing anything that involves anyone he’s been involved with or knows. That’s disrespectful in my eyes completely.
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That’s sick. Move on
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bet he has them some where and you should think that too!!!
Erm nope. That’s not ok.
no that’s weird. if he keeps up start saving pictures of men lolol hot men that look nothing like your bf.
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Sounds like he was building up a spank bank to me. 
absolutely grosss.
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I would be extremely disgusting if I were to find out some random dude was saving pictures/videos of me on his phone. No thanks.
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That’s weird behaviour! And it’s disrespectful af! The fact he told you that you were over reacting too! Yuck!
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Uh my husband definitely does NOT look at other women so it isn’t all women
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Not overreacting at all. He is in the emotional cheating stage and it’s only a matter of time before it turns to physical cheating (if it hasn’t already). Leave that waste of oxygen.
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he’s saving them so he can rub one out when you’re not around. You’re not over reacting, set boundaries in your relationship.
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I think you know the answer!
It’s one thing to come across attractive people going about your day—we all have eyes, but you leave it at just that. Good for them.
It’s another thing stalking down an ex (and randoms) online and saving their thirst trap video or photo for later “viewing”.
Don’t let him gaslight you that you’re overreacting.
Your boundaries matter. 
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Resolve your control issues with your individual therapist and date someone you trust next time
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Like all men?? No, my husband definitely doesn’t like to spend time looking at other women’s photos like that. The occasional adult video to take care of himself, yeah… and that I’m fine with but if he was looking at others girls regularly I would find that extremely disrespectful…
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Seriously - dudes are a dime a dozen. If he doesn’t act right - DROP HIM YESTERDAY!!! This is how we collectively make men act better. We don’t put up with their crap. Expect better!!
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That’s disrespectful! He needs to go!
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This is disrespectful & dishonest! There is no exception for this behavior!!! If he loved you he would only have his eyes on you only!!!
This is called emotional cheating!!! Once trust is broken it’s difficult too not let it ruin your thoughts, It’s easier said then done but you need to think about you now!!!
trust me he won’t change, this is narcissist behavior!
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now all men do that… you need to quit lying to yourself to make yourself feel better LOL
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Not all men do that… it’s honestly weird as hell
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No you aren’t and he is being very disrespectful. Saying you are over reacting is trying to put the blame on you. Disgusting. Run girl run
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I agree not appropriate I don’t care what some these women say is okay it’s just a fantasy. I’m a nude content creator. Most these girls that say it’s okay their men are easily in the inbox of women like me asking how much to meet up. I’d never meet up but I know plenty of women who will. The most repulsive part to me is the fact he’s saving stuff of his ex that’s a boundary I’m sure that you felt kinda burned. Don’t ever settle. If my husband can reframe from looking at women by choice. When he told me after he took a class in college, and realized how disrespectful it was before I even was with him he said he stopped looking at porn, or looking at women like that because it was degrading. I’m a content creator I don’t stop him from anything. Looking at people at the grocery store aren’t the same thing. I can’t help but notice Guy’s, or girls I walk by because I’m walking past them they were in my direction, and same for my husband. But not everyone looks. Leave if it over steps you’re boundaries.
It’s not going to change, it’ll just get worse. He’ll learn to be sneaky now that he knows you don’t like it. You have to decide how if you’re going to out up with it.
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I would not be okay with that and my husband agrees that that’s not right 
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All men look, if anyone says otherwise they’re either in denial or lying. But when he starts saving pictures or looking for pictures of girls with the intent to save the pictures or to try to talk to them, that’s crossing the line… if this is the case he may not physically be cheating right now…but one day he will.
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He is Violating the boundaries of your relationship.
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Like all men lmao my man don’t. He doesn’t have social media 
you don’t get to allow it and then dictate it. You’re either ok with it or you’re not. If you don’t want him saving pics then YOURE NOT OK WITH IT
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I would feel uncomfortable if my husband looked at pictures of other women.
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First of all you are not overreacting whatsoever that’s very hurtful what he’s been doing it’s so disrespectful to you he shouldn’t even be looking at other women he should only have eyes for you not wondering eyes looking at women in bikinis yes it’s not cheating but it’s still disrespectful to you like why not be happy with your pictures not all men are looking at other women the way he’s been doing so please don’t think all men are the same as us women are not all the same either, he’s just dismissing your feelings by saying your overreacting when you have a good enough reason to feel how you feel
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That’s just super strange in my opinion, I’d be mad as hell if my man was doing that!
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Generally, when two people are in a healthy relationship they don’t have time to scope out the competition because they are busy being happy in their current relationship. So there’s a few things to look at. Don’t expect his behavior to change just because you don’t like it. You shouldn’t have to express that saving other women’s pictures is crossing a line and the fact that you do have to express that shows his interest level in being committed. I’d say just cut your loss and move on and find someone whose values align with yours.
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No. Not normal at all. I speak from experience here…if he is doing what you say he is doing then he will or probably already has gone out on you. You should, for your own sake, kick his butt to the curb before you get too old to find someone else because it will get worse. Trust me.
I like to look at my gf and that’s it, I feel guilty if I’m gawking at other women.
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If you have been in your relationship a short while and he already doing this you have to wonder what will your future together be like?..did you explain to him how it made you feel when you found them on his phone good communication is the key to a good relationship…
If he deleted them right away thats good but if he starts saving again i would seriously think hard about staying with someone who does this its not respecting you
When im on facebook there is a newsfeed and you cant help but see pics of practically naked young gorgeous females that do make your eyes almost pop out of your head …lol…but to click on it and save it is totally a different story…
I can say ive been married forever and i do click on sone of this pics of woman and show him and he always practically drools and i also show him a pic of a super buff guy and he just rolls his eyes but to us its just a pic and it doesnt mean anything…maybe because we are happy and content in our marriage and we arent looking for something or someone to fill a void
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Leave him. He’s saving them so he can do things with them later and if it’s his ex he still want her so you need to run
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My man knows that if he disrespects me like yours is doing, that there would be absolute hell on earth.
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Not all men, cause my husband doesn’t, and knows what would happen if he did 
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I don’t think so. Respect is respect
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No, if you don’t like it he should not save them.
Not all men. Find u a new one girl.
Lol all men do not do this. Especially a man that is working his ass off to support his family and spends time with his family. Get a new man or tell him to get his act together.
Why the hell do we keep getting questions like this. If he isn’t respecting you and you don’t like what he’s doing LEAVE he’s not doing it by accident and clearly doesn’t care about you enough to be loyal. I was in the same situation kept thinking things will get better …NO enough.
Ur wrong that u think its fine boys looking at bikini pics in first place 
just scroll over those id say
If it makes you feel uncomfortable, he should love you enough to stop. That’s how a single person acts.
If you don’t like how he’s treating you…leave.