See, I’m crazy… Cause once she added him… We already have a problem!
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Don’t trust either one of them I feel there up to no good
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Have him block her asap.
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You need to have a talk with him about your feelings and how that is not appropriate as your husband, she shouldn’t be in his fb, he doesn’t work with her, he is not her friend, you guys are not close friends with her, so there is not reason for her to be in his fb or any social media. He wouldn’t like it if his guy friends did that, and make sure to tell him how he would feel if the roles were reverse!
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Your Husband Make The Move, Hes Dumb, No Loyalty 
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He is the one that is married. Temptation is everywhere being strong is up to him.
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Throw a pot at him to smarten tf up
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Whydoes she have your husband on her social media. Block her. And tell him to stop trying to bone your friends
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You said that she was a co-worker, she is NOT your friend. Granted you made a mistake by inviting her over but, not to become FB friends with your husband!!! Close all FB ties, especially your husbands. A woman knows!!!
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I don’t trust anyone ……. Hate to live like it and I know there are good people and I’m not a hater … but when it happens to you right under your nose…. They say when you have a ‘gut feeling’ follow it …… I did …. and I was right……
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Nope you’re not!! He’s emotionally cheating!!
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He needs to unfriend her.
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Go with your intuition. She’s reeling him in.
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The first mistake was him accepting her friend request, instead of putting her in her place. Sounds like he’s in to her too.
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She is not ur friend treat her accordingly
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He better correct himself! You better speak up. That’s a no no. Why would she need to be friends with your family on fb…. Your husband. That’s an emotional affair. Take care of it now. Because you can not trust anyone with your man these days. NOT A SOUL.
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Put a stop to that shit NOW!
Make him block her also tell that hussy to move around
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Give him an ultimatum. You or her. If he’s smart he will choose your marriage and child.
He needs to stop this now before she gets the idea he wants more with her
She also is a disgrace how can you do that to someone’s husband smh
He should block her and you do the same she won’t stop
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Make him block her, that’s so disrespectful to you.
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Emotionally cheating… He should of never accepted her request. It’s time to tell him to delete her immediately. Then tell her to stop contacting YOUR husband in ANY way…
PERIOD
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No you are not overreacting! You coworker is out of line confront them both
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They want each other. Shut it down immediately any way you wish. It might be innocent friendliness now but it will be more if allowed. Tell him delete her and tell him you see what he’s doing. If he’s not willing or doesn’t stop get rid of him
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I’m seeing all these “have him block her” comments. Like that’s REALLY going to stop him from talking to her.
If they want to talk and whatever. There are other ways.
Talk to him. Talk to her. Set boundaries.
If neither respect you. Change jobs. And kick him to the curb.
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Get his phone and block her on everything! If they say something tell them both to stop it! That is so rude and very disrespectful to you from both of them. You are nicer then I am I would go off on them both.
Put a STOP to that BS right now! Cut her out of both of your lives in any way possible, she is bad news.
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I think you answered your own question, but if it sounds like a duck and it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, it’s a duck
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no you are not over reacting and I think you should confront him immediately be behaviour is questionnable
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That’s sucks… confront… and take back your independence and never accept anything but what you deserve
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Oh u feel some type of way all right! Kick him and her outta your life girl! You’re worth so much more than this!!! Its obvious girl…he is already cheating…get rid of him and live your life for you!
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Openly comment under her posts or pics where he has liked and commented saying she needs to mind it and not to mess around with him. Tackle him differently the way you want.
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Definitely confront him. I wouldn’t tell him to block her because that should be his choice but if he really cares and puts his family first he will and stop
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Oh hell no. Not ok, put your co worker in her place real fast! Never trust a thirsty B!
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That’s not your friend, honey!
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I’d feel some type of way. maybe have a chat with him. Tell him their interactions makes you feel uncomfortable.
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Get on his Facebook and block her
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Step on that shit real quick! That’s not appropriate behaviour from either of them.
You’re not over reacting. Whatever he’s doing needs to stop. I would tell her to block out of respect and him to do the same. Just simply say that their relationship is too close for comfort for you. You’re pregnant and he’s trying to get some on the side. Nah. I would stop that in its tracks. Everyone is deleting everybody. I kinda wanna see who these people look like so I can get a vibe about the situation. No, you definitely are not overreacting. He’s enjoying the attention while you’re tired and creating life. I would say just leave but it doesn’t solve everything. People say that but the amount of people leaving their SO is so slim from a Facebook comment. It’s already hard in person. But yeah I would stop it all and if he protests than he’s hiding more.
For example, my fiancé, I can walk up to him and be like “babe this girl is just making me uncomfortable and can you please remove this person from your profile, I removed her as well because she was making me feel really uncomfortable”
He should respond with humility and kindness. We get rid of anyone we don’t approve of. I just asked him like I had a question and his response was “of course I would remove the person because I’m only worried about my family. I would completely delete Facebook if it meant you felt better and more secure.” He just said that. If your husband responds with gaslighting, “you’re just crazy” “we don’t even talk” “you’re just hormonal” etc. keep calmly repeating. “ I would appreciate if you would because I feel uncomfortable and I love you so this bothers me.”- something along those lines. To keep arguments from escalating you keep repeating what you want. If he wants to throw a marriage away for a girl then that’s never someone you should have married.
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Confront both, husband, tell him you saw that he is cheating online by allowing her to openly mess with him… Her, tell her what the f-ck! Are you trying to steal my man cause what you’re posting sure is not kosher.
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No freaking way lol my ass would’ve went on his fb and removed her myself 
What kind of person tells a co worker that they think your husband is cute then adds them on fb the next day. I’m not saying your husband isn’t being a douche, but seriously. What the hell is she doing. I’d be ripping into both of them
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I would be going safari on her bitch arse.
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Yyyyyyeah….bullshit. I hear you though, it’s weird how it goes down on freaking social media platform like you’re not able to see it?!
You can definitely ditch the friend but your husband owes u a certain type of loyalty and respect. He should have known better and should not have put u in this situation by even accepting her or liking her half naked pics.
The truth is men feel attracted to attractive women and vice verca… Or etc etc on this day and age … Even if u married… But the reasonable thing to do is that as a married person … You know yourself … You know exactly the type of ppl u attracted to and what makes u stir inside … Limit interactions with them and don’t open unnecessary doorways that may result in st u regret happening.
Seems like he’s already attracted … How soon b4 he undresses her in his head and wants more.
Address it to see his reaction and make a choice about what u want to do from there
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Sounds like it’s something beginning to be something else.
Tell him to ditch her
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Your feelings are your feelings. You’re not wrong to feel any type of way. And honestly I would feel the same. I would let him know how you feel.
Stay off social media
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I don’t think you are in the wrong at all, girl. All that is suspicious af. Some girls can’t be with a guy unless he’s in a relationship, and they’re the lowest form of girl, in my opinion.
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Honestly let the cheaters cheat. This is game over- time to upgrade x Use his money to pay for a private detective, get your evidence, then take that imposter husband to the cleaners and while you’re at it air your co-workers dirty laundry to your other co-workers ( All you’d have to do is stand near the lunch room and vent to a friend on the phone, loud enough for someone else to hear🤷♀️)
I’m sure they’d appreciate a heads up before inviting this skank-in-a-box into their own homes.
Sometimes being nice is no good and they both know exactly what they are doing is disgusting and wrong, especially considering your now have a baby. I’m truely sorry but personally I’d rather know then not. Stay strong mumma.
She is working her way into your bed sweety cut the cord now tell hubby it’s you or her.
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Not overreacting.
100 percent sketch.
This behavior is absolutely unacceptable and it’s clear that she is looking for a little something something. But my true issue is with your hubby. Homeboy don’t have to reciprocate her efforts so he’s no better than she is. You need to talk to that man for sure about that because this is traveling into a wildly downward and inappropriate direction. He may or may not realize it.
I’d confront him with what you’ve noticed and gage his reaction and determine for yourself how you proceed. I would definitely not do nothing. If he is apologetic and realizes oh yeah this is not good and respects you enough he will either chill it out or completely delete her. If he is defensive then something is definitely in his head that is in appropriate and disrespectful to you. And he may not realize just how this is playing out or he does and he’s being a dog. You gotta figure that out.
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I’d loose my shit on both
I could say a few bad words but it is your life!! He is thinking with his dick, and has no compassion for you. Do what your Heart says, this could break you if left alone. The woman may think he is cute but it needs to stop there. Personally I would hurt her.
Trust ME. Cut it off now. Say something to them both. There IS something going on
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shes a home wrecker get rid of her or him if he dont agree to take her off his fb…B-i-t-c-h
You better call that Ho out
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It’s a nurrr from me.
Confront that BIA HIM TOO
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I’d be all over that like stink on shit……better get in both of their faces and tell them to knock it off or else
She wants your man hunn 
tell her to scrammmmmmm 
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Coming from experience, she is Swim Fanning into your entire life. Nope. She’s probably already day dreaming about her and your husband taking family photos with YOUR baby. She has to go.
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Talk to your husband, new attention is not seen as a red flag till it’s to late. Tell him nicely how she isn’t your friend but just a co worker, and that u are not comfortable with her getting close to him even though u invited her to the shower she isn’t part of the inner circle. And also just tell him, u are uncomfortable with all of it
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Aha one of those women😲
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I smell trouble. Trust yur gut instinct
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Your husband either should not respond to her, or unfriend her, half naked pics, such a major no no!!!
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He’s a pig and he’s Cheating. He needs to put coworker in her place, stop fb bs and act like a married damn man OR tell him pack his bags. You deserve better.
Seriously! If you have to warn your husband away from another woman, he is not worth keeping. I’m not even kidding about this. The fact he’d go behind your back and talk to one of your coworkers is a form of cheating. Anytime a man has intimate conversation with someone other than his wife it’s a form of cheating
husband needs to grow up
Go to your co worker put a stop to this make your husbanddelete her fb to him she wants your husband can’t you see
Ooof he def shouldn’t be liking her half naked pics and/or replying to her individually. She’s your friend and should only be going through you to communicate. Def shut it down cause this doesn’t seem like it’ll go anywhere good
Tell them both it’s not funny or cute and will not be tolerated
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Have a serious convo to BOTH! they both hella outta line!
That’s a tough one you can speak on it but will they abide … People can delete but still can communicate. I myself would pack his clothes and tell him to make a choice now I would go to work and tell her she better back up … actually I would post on her page this same post . I bet things will change. But then you will be wondering if they are still communicating. Actually you can’t blame her because your husband made the move like he was interested. Idk I’ll have to call his bluff and pack his clothes and send him to her . Because if they being sneaky now they gonna to continue just my opinion
Divorce him. If he didn’t shut it down straight away then he intends to cheat. If not with her then definitely someone else!
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Remember back in the day it was Video Killed The Radio Star now its Social Media Killed ALl Relationships 
My husband had a friend at work ( female ) he trained her !They became friends I had no issues she was married also.We went out as a foursome a few times and I watched her intently …I had to talk to my husband about it.I told him that I wasn’t worried about him but I was concerned about her actions I saw towards him ! I eventually asked him to befriend her except work related meetings etc !Well he did and thank goodness he did cause after my husband and her friendship ended she found another suitable man broke up their marriage and married that man!I wasn’t surprised and very happy my husband now of 52 yrs respected my wishes !We women see through things sometimes more than men do.Question is if he’s flirting with her also what’s the plan ?You need a chat with both of them NO TOLERANCE for this kinda stuff!Good luck 
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This is absolutely unacceptable. Still can’t get past “to my baby shower! Are you pregnant or a new mom? If so that makes this woman even more of a lowlife scumbag. She IS NOT your friend. Confront her and tell her you’re not blind and know exactly what she’s doing and it stops now. Excise this toxic thing from your life if at all possible. As for your husband, I have no respect for men that do this. Imho his actions and betrayal are worse than hers. Trust your gut. Something is up. Don’t tolerate this disrespect and that’s exactly what it is. You’re his wife and you DESERVE better. He’s actively and willingly participating in the destruction of the trust you’ve placed in him. Even if he chooses you what kind of relationship will you have if you can’t trust him? As upsetting as this is you need to make YOU the priority. Worry about you. PROTECT yourself! It’s easy for me to say I know but you must do this. His feelings should be irrelevant because he’s obviously not concerned about hurting you. I’m so sorry you’re having to endure this! 
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Go on his phone and tell him you unfriended her and blocked her. And if he had an issue with you going on is phone and doing so. then chances are they are already hooking up. Tell him it’s over between you period and you want a divorce.