My son’s father and I weren’t a couple when we got pregnant. He was married; he cheated because his wife cheated, which was his excuse. We only messed around for a month before getting pregnant, so naturally, we went through that stage; it’s not mine. When my son turned one or so, he asked for DNA, no problem, even though he signed a birth certificate. DNA 99.999. Fast forward, when my son was 3/4, his dad was diagnosed with Cancer; throughout that entire year, I would ask how he was doing, he would tell me it was none of my business. He was always active in our son’s life, so all of a sudden, he stopped coming around not answering calls, I would message him, or at this time, our son would message him; you could tell messages were being read but unanswered. When he would finally call or message, he would say he didn’t get it. My son’s dad died when he was 5, and it’s been hard on him. Come to find out, his GF at the time was deleting his messages and ignoring his calls (he was no longer with his wife). She had his phone because he was weak from treatments. It’s been 3yrs, and I’m still angry about this. Should I confront her or just leave it alone?? I feel that my son lost out on a lot of precious time with his dad.
I don’t think confronting it at this point is going to do anything but cause pain. But it was really crappy of her to do that