Trust your gut! Communicate with him how you are feeling in a non argumentative way. It doesn’t make sense if you have had it all this time and it randomly gets changed and now he won’t let you have it.
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It’s not too weird for him to change it but it’s definitely weird if he won’t tell you the new password. That don’t sound right.
Maybe he’s planning a surprise with a group of friends for your wedding day and he doesn’t want you to read messages that might ruin the surprise…
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Ask him to switch phones for a day don’t let him open any apps just unlock it. If he has nothing to hide he will do it 
if he don’t then take the phone and toss it in the lake … I mean be nice about it 
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Just trust your feelings and talk to him xx
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Well clearly you didn’t ask this time, you just went
I don’t know why so many people are so consumed with getting on their partner’s phone. If you have that many trust issues that you have to get on your partner’s phone then it’s probably time to move on. I get on my husband’s phone only because he hates answering it and doesn’t know how to text. People need to stay in their own lane.
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Was MY first clue that my boyfriend of 24 years had a girlfriend.
Sometimes I have to change mine once in a while when it gets old. Ask them… I go on my husband’s phone all the time and he goes on mine. It’s no big deal. Unless it is, THEN there is a problem
You gotta talk to him. Any cagey or harsh answer would set red flags but if hes cool about it and gives you the new password without hesitation Im sure things are ok and theres a simple explaination having nothing to do with you. Like if he had it that long and had a friend or somebody just take his phone and he didnt want that and changed it bc of them is a totally acceptable answer to me. I wouldnt be to defensive about it until he becomes defensive.
Ask him for the password. 
If he’s always been open about it with you in the past and is beginning to act shady now, you might want to start asking questions.
I’ve been married for 45 years, my husband has my password for my phone and I know his but it’s also to the understanding, he or I have no right to go through each others phone. It’s personal like what I carry in my purse. Maybe he has a surprise for you and doesn’t want you to see it. If you don’t trust him now your marriage will not last very long
Well he’s hiding something… that something could be something good… usually it’s something horrible though. Hopefully yours is the exception, not the rule. 🫶🏽
Yeah no….
Ask him for it and if he refuses let that 
If you do not know you’re so’s password. They are hiding something. Stop saying you trust them. They know that, which means they will cheat right under your nose ‘because you trust them’
Ask him why he changed it
It is suggested that people change their passwords on a regular basis. This helps prevent accounts from being hacked.
Why wouldn’t you ask if you can add somebody to the plan?
I change my password all the time because I can never remember🤷🏽♀️
It’s his phone after all…… not yours.
People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
Let’s put it this way I wish I had changed my password when I was planning my wedding. My husband asked to use my phone when we were at a family dinner…no problem we don’t keep anything from each other. Well…he was going to show his cousin a picture of something and what did he see!!! Me in my wedding dress…that I made a point to keep from him. I was devastated…and it was an innocent mistake…but in other words…maybe he is planning something for you and he doesn’t want you to stumble across it. Or possibly someone trying to talk him out of marrying you and he doesn’t want your feelings to be hurt if you saw the conversation. Try asking him…just say “hey we’re bout to be married…why did you change your password?”
Cheating or surprising you.
Men are so terrible at hiding stuff…lol doesn’t matter if it’s bad or good. They try but make it more suspicious than anything.
She already said he won’t tell her.