So me and my husband have been together 3 years. We have been through alot throughout our relationship and struggled hard. But he is my soul mate. I feel like he is the one person put on this earth just for me. We have great frequent sex. Our intimacy is not a problem. However he is obsessed with making his own porno. He is 38 and super hawt. Gots a banging six pack and amazing abs. He wants to show it off and use it before he gets “old”. I on the other hand am chubby, super self conscious and insecure. Always have been. So im not really meeting his needs in this area obviously because i aint trying to have people see me. I told him that i think he should search around and look for a girl or girls to help him fufill this desire. He got all offensive and kinda freaked on me. I dont get it. Im his wife and know he has needs/wants that arent being met. Its my job to help figure out how to meet them right!!! I mean obviously i dont want him to go get in another relationship and play house and fall in love. But if its like a “working” relationship so to say, and strictly just fkkin to make porn… then why not? Id rather know what he is doing and why than just ignore it and have him out fkkin bitches making me look a fool. Opinions???