I guess nothing is sacred anymore….
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This is a question for a bdsm group ! I would try Reddit , fetlife , or any specific fb groups pertaining to threesomes/poly etc
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100% he will run off with the other women…then repeat himself what he did to you in suggesting a threesome
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Y’all mind your business.
She said they both agreed. She may be the one to have brought it up. If if isn’t for you, that’s fine. But why try to make her change her mind in her marriage?
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I’d b worried about std in today’s world…for this very reason. Everyone sleeping with everyone. Old freind of mine did a 3 some with her bf n they got herpes from the chick. The gift that just keeps giving. I’ve heard goods n bads with 3 somes…more bad than good tho. Opening that door can lead to more temptation. People can say they won’t do this or that but you truely don’t kno until it happens…I personally wouldn’t be able to fathom my man with another women n then shit goes sideways…totally not worth ruining something good
IF I were to ever do it, we would go to The Bunny Ranch and I would pick! Then no worries about “chance encounters” with the 3rd party. Just sayin’ 
#IDontLikeToShare
#ItsAllMine
#HeWouldNeverTouchHer
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Look into swingers clubs and see if any are in your area.
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Why yall so damn judgy? Her n her husband have clearly put a lot of communication and thought into this. Its not for everyone. Keep the boundaries u agree on and always communicate all ur thoughts/feelings. I was surprised to see a lot of what u are looking for on fbook dating and meet me. If its what u n ur husband are looking for. Try it. (U only live once) if u dont like it u dont have to do it again.
This page has become a joke… don’t like your husband? Leave. This is pathetic.
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Go to Michael Baisden group. And you will learn from them. However, trust and believe it won’t be just one time. It doesn’t work like that. No matter what you partner said, once you let that crack door open, the relationship won’t be the same.
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So to me that’s like cheating people never cease to amaze me.
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This is just inviting trouble
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First think about if this is something you’re really wanting or think about why you want this in the first place…
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It’s giving him the “ok” to have sex with a woman in front of you. Not a good idea. My sister did that for her hubby…he started cheating because he said it was so exciting and he was bored. Needless to say they are divorced. I’m too stingy to share
this is his way of cheating on you so you know about it and are okay with it 
unless it’s a guy you’re bringing in to peg him as well but if it’s a girl 10000% cheating
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As fun as it sounds it doesn’t ever workout how you picture it you will just end up heartbroken especially if it is with another woman
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It’s not gonna be a one time thing…feeling will always get involved…and it always leads to destruction…
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There is nothing wrong with a threesome if you both want it, don’t listen to the people that can’t handle it. I like them myself, I had some in the past and I don’t regret them at all. I always did with females I trusted but I heard swingers clubs are good to look at if you want someone you both don’t know and if it’s someone you both don’t know then get a hotel room. Good luck and have fun 
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I did it. And it was my idea with absolutely No regrets. I’m bi so I feel like that made everything way easier. I had the time of my life and I definitely want to experience it again. But I’m a firm believer that you yourself have to genuinely want to do it for it to work. Don’t do it for him m. Everyone has to be 100% comfortable with the situation.
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Everyone is saying don’t do it or leave him what if it’s her that wants it just to have a feel of what it’s like? I would say go with ur gut if u can go on a vacation and find a girl there that way u know nothing about her and it’s more of a mystery
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I also feel like things play out better when the woman chooses the girl also….
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Only do it if you completely trust your partner and understand that it’s you and him. I work in the sex field so understanding that it’s just sex and nothing more is very important. I say try something once and make sure your partner is very equal during the sex with you both because it is the first time so you never feel some type of way. You never know you might end up enjoying it more than him lol. My husband doesn’t even look at porn the same lol. If you don’t like it don’t overthink the situation just simply don’t do it again. Like certain foods it’s not for everyone.
I knew a couple that did this… Same agreement.
This is what happened.
It wasn’t a one time thing. Than he divorced his wife and married the other chick.
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Seeking make it as a couple and be up front about your expectations
Bad idea don’t do it!!
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You allowing the enemy to take control. One of you will end up wanting it all the time and eventually neglect your life partner causing big problems…watch Deep Water
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try app called meet me it’s purple with a white chat bubble with a smiley face inside of it in the App Store/play store
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Would he do it if it was another man, don’t
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Go on TikTok you can find someone there
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Make sure you do it out of your town if you decide to go along with it
There is nothing wrong with wanting a threesome if you both want it,it also does not mean that there are feelings involved or that your relationship won’t be the same. Everyone is different so you have to put the card on the table before doing this, if you both know what you want and are mature enough you guys won’t have any trouble and this threesome will only be a pleasurable experience. Good luck!
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Why yall in here attacking her husband
She clearly stated they BOTH WANT TO…
Lawd…smh
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Set rules…set fucking rules. The second one is broken, the threesome is done. Do not continue. Abort abort. Also, it’s nice if it’s someone who you both don’t know, but make sure they are familiar with the situation and okay with being a “toy”. There are a lot of online communities that support the third. And who knows, you may end up liking it and have a “regular” friend.
Have standards you both agree on, a safe word established, and make sure it’s something you both want to do. I cannot stress this enough, your spouses feelings matter even if it’s overwhelming/over stimulating.
There’s some swinger apps, SCS or Tabuu or 3rder. Some people are a bit more casual, but for those who actually live this lifestyle they’re usually cautious and aware of situations. Communication is 100% key.
In my opinion, you’re basically telling him it’s okay to have sex with other women… What makes you think he won’t do it without you the next time?
Marriage is sacred, is love, respect, honour and protect till death but if u allow the third party to intervene it’s allowing the devil to come between u two. If he likes it too much what’s stopping him from doing it again and if he thinks it’s ok with you he might and what if the other woman likes it too and they hook up without you ? Anything could happen it could destroy your marriage. See if he is up for watching another man do you ? Then see if you “both” still agree ? It’s just something to think about…but it’s your life and all we can do is give our opinions…but you should think carefully of the consequences before you go ahead…
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It wont be a one time thing
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If u try to find a 3 man for the threesome I’m sure he will freak out:joy_cat:
Same rights 
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Hire a sex worker. What you’re doing is called Unicorn Hunting, and it’s unethical unless you’re hiring a sex worker.
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Just give him a good BJ & make the man a sandwich.
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Hire an escort. No strings attached
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Don’t do it with your friend! You may find that your threesome turns into a twosome without you
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Don’t do it you will have so many regrets and it’s not all what you think it will be
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You’re going to get very straight laced skewed advice asking on a general public site. Look for Facebook groups for what you are wanting. If you’re Bicurious or Bisexual there is a lot of advice in LGTBQ… groups about polyamory. A lot of discussion is had on the matter. I never have done a threesome because I know its very unlikely to happen with no strings/consequences attached. Theres three feelings to consider and its hard to appease everyone. Its hard enough appeasing just two people in a relationship and I dont want the drama. My husband is the same. Hes more square than I am even. So its not for us, but there are successful thruples …and it takes a lot of communication and respect. So, if you’re looking for that…find advice from successful thruples. There are reddits and FB groups for that that will help you.
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She didn’t ask yall if she should do it or not. She asked what apps or how to find someone and if you done it before. Obviously her mind is set and clear what she wants.
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i’ve done it with two men. i’m not even the slightest bit attracted to women so i couldn’t do it mff. and fabswingers.com is great! i have an account on there and let me tell you, it’s easy, fun, you’ll love it!
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Get a working girl, professional and not clingy
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My hubby just hooks up with my bestie… The rules are no pregnancy scares hahah
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I’m not sure. Do you know if you want a guy or a girl? From personal experience, it must remain a one time thing, but I don’t think it’s a good idea, because the other person secretly compares them to their partner. It sounds fun, but it CAN lead to heart ache. Just be super careful. Tinder have them.
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I don’t suggest the regular dating apps. Look for specialized groups on fb, TikTok accounts, Instagram. Be very specific when you search. And be thorough when you look into optional partners. Don’t be afraid to ask questions…have fun!
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It won’t just do it once 
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Yes I had 2 of them…both with men and common friends…let me tell you it’s exhausting…imo It was fine after however my bf at the time though he could just bring the one into bed anytime he wanted after that so it didn’t go well after the fact…however we never communicated any rules etc either
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If relationship is to continue I personally wouldnt do it.
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Why be married then lol jst stay single n f*** who u want and how many that away noone gets hurt or the other takes off with whoever js
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Sex worker. She doesnt care about him/you she just wants $$.
We did it but it was another guy. Was ok but wasn’t my cup of tea. As long as you won’t get jealous then have at it, I just know several women that were on board until it actually happened and then they changed their minds.
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It is going to ruin your marriage.
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This is why I think marriage is a joke
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IMO once you open bedroom door to others all the boundaries go out the window, be content with who and what you have. There’s safety in small numbers
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Pay a sex worker, please
Lots of negative Nancy’s here Lol
It won’t ruin your relationship if you both agreed to it and you both keep your minds open it most certainly can enhance a dull relationship. Good luck and have fun!!
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Dont do it. From what Ive read online it will most likely ruin your marriage. Somebody will be jealous afterwards or start cheating afterwards. Hopefully it wasnt your idea. Good luck with your divorce.
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I recommend a councillor this could go badly wrong and end your marriage
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One why tell her something will ruin her marriage. It’s HER marriage. As long as she has an open mind and they’re completely honest and comfortable I do not see the issue. Maybe not judge them for experimenting in thier marriage. I wouldn’t do it, but I’m NOT her. I hope you have a wonder experience and I would try a dating site or a site like tinder maybe. I’m sure you can Google apps for hook ups
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You don’t love or respect each other if you’re even thinking of committing such an act
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I hope you don’t have children. This is a pathway to end your relationship !
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It can get complicated. Keep life simple
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I personally have never seen this turn a positive note. However, this is your marriage. No one can dictate how you and yours will go about this. However, if you’re having to come to social media about this, I don’t believe you’re truly in all the way. The thing is some people have this kind of relationship and it works for them and then there’s the type where it’s only a two person thing. I think from this post that you do not truly want it but rather to experience you olds ways one last time. I can say my husband and I discussed it a very long time but in turn never did it because we knew it was not within our boundaries of love for one another. But if you do decide to do it, make sure it is 100% the both of you all in. No doubts or second guesses!!! Good luck on your journey, and I hope you are happy!!
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I wish you well.
I known many marridges break up over this.
As long as both on board. And have a set of guidelines. However dont do anything youre uncomfortable with. Stay safe. Keep safe. X
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There’s going back from here…if you love your mariage, dont do it!
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Marriage is sacred. Geeze people if you want a threesome dont get married. 
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You can just download any dating app. I’ve seen so many couples profiles looking for a 3rd. My advice would be to get their full names and at least look up basic backgrounds. There are too many scams of “threesomes” that end up to be the couple just robbing or kil**** people on these sites. Please be safe, always let someone know your location, and always bring your own money, car or transportation anywhere you go.
I’ve done it before getting married it was a lot of fun actually 
9 out of 10 people say DON’T. Which means she will. 
And another covenant is a broken joke.
Marriage is a covenant not just some paper like people try and imply.
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My friend and her husband tried and it’s ruining their marriage. They both enjoyed it initially but now he sneaks around behind her back because sure doesn’t want to continue doing it and he does. Another couple I know tried it once, enjoyed it and said they might do it like once a year but I guess he enjoyed it so much he’d bring it up at least a few times a week, it became a huge problem and they broke up over it. I would suggest unless you plan on becoming poly or having an open marriage… don’t do it….
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Pandora’s box 
Don’t do it!!! Dangerous road to go down. DONT SHARE YOUR HUSBAND, EVER!!!
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It’s never a one time thing. Don’t even do it if y’all are strong enough to handle it. Issues usually Arise
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Yall are trippin… you can have VERY successful sex life with other people. If both partners are on board and communication is opened. Anyways Fetlife is an awesome app. Have fun be safe
Wow! You don’t truly LOVE each other if you have to do that! Marriage and love are sacred! Why would you even consider such a thing?! Sad.
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Everyone saying don’t and judging her is ridiculous. It’s 2022 and a lot of poly relationships exist these days or swingers or couples who love to experiment. Who are we to judge or shame them? Maybe they’re at a point in their lives where they both want something more exciting and they’re both comfortable with the idea. And btw it’s not my cup of tea, I don’t know where to find someone for that kind of thing but I wish you both all the luck in your marriage and don’t worry about the haters and judgmental people here, every relationship is different so just make sure your both confident and comfortable with it 
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Ive seen people post on tinder for it alot.
Hell yea you will enjoy it
Marriage is suppose to be a sacred bond between a man and woman…It doesn’t seem to mean too much to people anymore…So glad I’m single for life…
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Yeah a no no ! Can I ask why is it another woman and not another man ? And who suggested this ? X
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Your marriage will never be the same after it!! But I’d venture to say if you both are entertaining the idea, you’ve lost true interest in each other. What is the point in going through the process of getting married if you’re just going to break that vow? You think it’s fun now, but mark our words, you’ll be in the bathroom crying 5 months from now because he won’t stop seeing other women. You’ll start catching him messaging and meeting up with them behind your back and you will wish you had never done it.
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Marriage counselor and therapy. These things tend to end marriages or open the door to cheating so be sure it’s something you can both actually handle relationship wise before doing it.
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Bad idea. Gross. I guess with me one guy is enough. This will ruin your relationship. I had friends try this. Swingers. They are now separated and one is remarried.
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I can’t believe how rude some of these women are! If she wants to have a threesome why is that such a big deal?! Damn these people are crazy! Anyways, maybe try a dating website. Talk to someone and tell them what you’re looking for, for you and your husband.
The only threesome you should do is TV, chocolate, remote 
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My husband and I have been together for over 6 years and we are open! We play separately and together! Husband is straight and I am bisexual so we bring both male and females into the bedroom. Everyone on here is so judgmental. We’ve found people on Fb, FetLife, tinder, bumble and 3fun. Just because it doesn’t work for some people, does NOT mean it won’t work for others. If it’s a one time thing, great. If it’s not, let that be y’all’s decision not other peoples. Definitely get tested but still use protection to keep all parties safe and have fun! It helps to set boundaries (if you have any) so you and your partner are on the same page. Don’t be afraid to try something new just because a fear of the unknown. Sometimes mutual experience such as this could build a greater bond
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In my opinion, it will hurt your marriage.
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Please please please realize that this other party is a person and not your sex doll. Wanting a threesome is awesome and can be a great experience for all parties involved if done correctly. Please read and take the time to learn about how to correctly open your marriage. I can’t stress this enough how gross unicorn hunters are. Try apps for swinging and check for local swinger groups in your area.
Kally Kerswell this one is for u
I have 2 friends who’ve tried this and it ended in a breakup for one and the other is currently fighting for the marriage while the partner is out secretly boning strangers…think hard on this.
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I’m not saying don’t do it but make sure your marriage is strong enough to handle it in case one of you decide to still keep seeing that person alone
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This girl do NOT ask for all you peoples judgement-so the only person you should be saying ew or gross to is yourselves. Shame on you! Girl you are the only one who knows your marriage and if a threesome is what you want want and you’ve talked about it with your man and made clear rules and boundaries then I think it’s perfectly fine!! I’ve got no advice since Ive never personally done one but I wanted you to know I support you and ignore these women who think ew is an appropriate response to your question!
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Just remember you decided to do this together but sometimes even the best of couples can’t make it once they start adding in other people to their sex life so good luck.
My partner and I have had two so far, I control everything, from picking the girl to what he is allowed to do, we are a team through the whole process, he has done this because he knows I have serious trust issues from my past abusive relationship. I do not recommend it if you are a jealous person because it will turn out bad. I suggest that you talk about every aspect of it, what you are and are not comfortable with and also tell the person you pick for the threesome, it’s always good to set boundaries and during if anything upsets you speak up and let them know.
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Never done it so I can’t help you out with that but for some of these comments…sit down Dr. Phil!!! Good Lord
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