My husband doesn't seem to like me now that I'm showing

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I am currently 19 weeks pregnant. Since I’ve started showing my husband doesn’t show me any love or affection, we started sleeping in different rooms. He said we need to spice up our marriage in the bedroom and every time I try he rejects me then later on watches porn. I’m so proud of my bump (I didn’t think I’d ever be able to have another kid after an accident and doctors told me I couldn’t.) But he makes me feel fat and disgusting. What can I do? Please help

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. My husband doesn't seem to like me now that I'm showing

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You cal lose around 200lb instantly by dropping him for a start

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Let him get on with it, enjoy this pregnancy even more especially because you thought you couldn’t have another one. If he wants to act like this then let him and tell him to grow up. If I’m husband did this (we have 2) I’d of told him to shove him there’s the door and when you learn to respect me as a person and not just an object for your sexual satisfaction and respect I am growing a baby then you can come back till then bye!

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Talk to him, if he doesn’t pick up his game, ditch him. Sick of watching women struggle with shitty unsupportive husband’s when they’d be better off on their own.

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Don’t give a shit! He can get over it, your half way there! I’d let him crack on and have fun with his porn, and I’ll be telling him that too! Enjoy what’s left of your pregnancy think of your self and baby and forget his needs for once as you have to physically and emotionally look after your self temporarily! Xx

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Have you expressed your feelings with him

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Is it the fact he isn’t attracted to you OR is it the fact that now you are showing it has suddenly dawned on him that he’s about to become a dad? It can be very nerve racking for dad’s too. Perhaps have a little sit down and chat with him about what he’s feeling and how you’re feeling x