Girl RUN FAST AND RUN FAR!
You let it go on too long and submitted to his control. Leave or stay in that situation. Those are your only options because it’s way too late to change his ways.
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You wear whatever the hell you want. If he doesn’t like it, then he can take himself off to get some therapy for his control issues & insecurities. xx
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Bye Felicia! Controlling what you wear? Nope!
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I would never let anyone tell me what I can and can’t wear… my body my choice…
Read up on narcissistic behavior
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He sounds like a narcissistic person not just the controlling what you wear but the childish way of not speaking to you because you wore something he didn’t like and making you feel in the wrong.
My x husband was a narcissist sadly nothing I did changed that.
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Why have you not set boundaries??? What you Allow WILL continue…break the cycle now or forever reap this harvest
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Get out. Save ur self from hell and heartache. He is controlling and it will only get worse. Love urself and go
Aw hell no… get out and FAST
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Had one like that and left him. Now have another one who doesn’t tell me what not to wear ect. Sorry there’s no way I would go through that hell again. This is controlling abusive behaviour. Next step he will not allow you to see your family or friends final one is he will end up hitting you. Get out before it gets to this stage
Is your outfits the only thing he tries to control because generally that’s how abusive relationships start. They try to control things like how you dress, who your friends are, where you go, etc. I definitely wouldn’t put up with that especially when it’s just summer dresses, shorts, etc. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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Feel very sad for you this would be very hard to deal with , please get some help to understand that this is not ok . It’s not your fault and it is not normal . If possible leave . Now
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You are doing nothing wrong ! Don’t let him do it cos if you do he will start to control more and more of your life ,! Your friends your family ! He could even start now cos he feels like he’s loosing the control he had over you ! Stick to your guns ! You are not in the wrong at all ! X
I would leave. He sounds like a controlling, manipulative, narcissistic a$$clown. If he genuinely didn’t feel comfortable with you wearing something, he should say “hey i personally love that on you, but can you wear something else - only i like to see you like that” etc. instead of demanding you to change and then acting like a child by ignoring you for days to come. I could be wrong but it sounds like he is insecure about himself and doesn’t want anyone to see you in an appealing way
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See ya later Snot Gobbler….don’t allow this for another day….
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Ew… if he cant handle a bad bitch, he shouldnt be with one
Your husband sounds like an asshole.
Do you control what he wears? If you don’t then that tells you all! But he’ll no, my husband has never told me what and what I could not wear! I’m an independent person and I can make up my own mind, now I do make sure that I don’t wear too revealing but that is my choice, not his.
You’re not wrong for standing up for yourself. If he cannot love you for who you are, then leave his ass and go be happy!
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If clothes are more important than your relationship than leave
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Imagine if your best friend asked you if they were wrong for wearing a dang dress, what would you say? Would you say “well yeah, you should listen to your husband”? iiii don’t think so
Hell no i wear what i want too. Whether he likes it or not.
I’d wear the skimpiest most revealing thing I could find out of spite and walk out the door after handing them divorce papers. Adios broham.
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My husband wouldn’t get away with it. I value myself more than that. I’m a grown ass woman and have a mind of my own. No one control me but me,
If he doesn’t care about what you wear then you should be worried. He’s protective over you and this is just an extension of his protective nature. He thinks highly of you and he wants you to look respectable and carry yourself with dignity.
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No way. I do ask his opinion at times just to see if he likes it but, I wear what I want.
He is controlling. Either get counseling or a divorce, he will only get worse.
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He tried to pull this shit and I laughed continue to wear what I wanted and guess what. No issues after that. It’s a controlling behavior tactic. Leave
Acting like a little boy tell him time to change his nappy
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You’ve tolerated it for 8 years … he thinks it’s ok.
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My husband never says anything about my clothes.
Instead of changing clothes, change men. Your man should appreciate your style and accept you, as well as trust even if you get attention in an outfit that you are still faithful to him.
Just another abusive narcissist! 
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Abusive narcissistic behavior, my ex was the same exact way. Then it turned into violent outbursts and he tried taking my daughter and my life. Nope. Run!
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Remind him of what attracted him to you when you first met am sure you wore dresses, shorts etc…
So what’s changed? obviously him he is trying to own you like a object rather than a person. Put a stop to it or walk away, good luck.
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Controlling. Not good
Nope never have nor will I ever
He is too controlling and possibly he is scared of other men looking at you. Keep doing what you are, I lived 13 yrs like that, tell him he is not dictating any more. Warn him he will lose you if he carries on
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My man could care less what I wear. A sun dress, my old stained shirts with baggy shorts. He has never commented about the way I dress.
The way your husband is controlling you is not okay
Especially over something that shouldnt even be brought up in a discussion anyways.
He sounds jealous possessive and controlling towards you and that is NOT a healthy marriage.
He can have his opinions but he doesn’t get to decide. Most men I know are proud to show off their lady and know other men want her, but only he can have her.
I had a lifetime of this, he wont change. If you want to explore why he is like this ask/tell him HE needs counselling, it’s all about HIS insecurities. He is jealous of the way you look ,he knows you look good and he can’t handle it. Do you want to have this for the rest of your life? Eventually he will suck the confidence from you. I speak from experience.
He needs to tell u precisely what he doesn’t like ur clothing otherwise he’s just jealous because u look good in what u wear
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Unless you’re dressing like a straight hoe…wear what you want wear and tell him to….
your 
My ex husband was like this. Which is why he’s my ex.
Continue To Match His Energy
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Fck no he doesn’t tell me what to do when to do it or how to do it and if he ever tried 
Nek minit 
Lol 
Keep putting your foot down. And don’t let him tell you what to wear. He should trust you to be loyal to him, no matter what you wear. My hubby is protective and he doesn’t even care what I wear because he’ll let it known that I’m his wife if others try to look. Your husband is to controlling and you let him know that you’re not going to tolerate it anymore
Hell no… I honestly dont even have words… you should leave, this is such disgusting behavior, and by staying your just enabling it…
I would go slap on a g string bikini just to purposely piss him the fuck off then laugh at his ass when he starts whining like a baby
I would leave now before he hurts you. Already the mental and verbal abuse is unhealthy.
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He needs to grow up.
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Grosses me out when someone thinks that they can control an adult, decide what they can or can’t do. Girl, you are a grown ass woman. Don’t let him make decisions for you. Live your life, love yourself and wear that romper 
if he can’t support that, then boy bye 
Leave him. Like for real. He doesn’t own you. I don’t let any man control me. And my man knows it. We talk through things and try to find a solution to problems but that’s not something I’d ever give on because he doesn’t own me.
Leave him.
He doesn’t love you, respect you, trust you. He sees you as nothing but a piece of him that he controls. You are not his property to control.
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Sometimes as women, we need to step back and take a good look at how your man has become like that. Have we allowed it, encouraged it…We shouldn’t give away all our power to the man we love, just because we love them. Perhaps try taking a step forward in decisions and discussions, even if it’s a small one. Once we start to regain our own power as women, we can begin to feel on an equal level with our men. It’s a partnership after all x
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Keep your foot down and be strong!!! Do not back down.
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You’ve put up this for 8 years of marriage 
Get out of that ‘marriage’ to a jealous bully! You deserve to be happy and free to do what you want and that is what divorce lawyers are for!!
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I’m so sorry you have to go through that.Ive noticed that alot of Pakistani men are like that.Ive had relatives return lots of newly bought clothes because their husbands throw a fit if they wear something they dont like
Ew no. He’s controlling and him ignoring you because you stand up for yourself is narcissistic. Wear what the hell you want, tell him to get over himself or fck off.
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that’s called controlling abuse, wear what the hell you want and do not be told what you can and cnt wear girl you gotta tell this man now he is not controlling what you wear or hes gone simple
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Hell no I would never let a man dictate what I can or can’t wear. My body, my choice
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Thats his insecurity issue. Continue to put your foot down cause if you been dealing with it almost a decade you arent going anywhere.
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I’ve been in a long term relationship just like that. It never got better for us, and I ended it. My current husband would never ever tell me how to dress and neither would I tell him how. I hope it gets better for you. If the clothes really make you happy…then maybe it will get better as you hold your ground. It’s what is really important to you and what is really worth the fight. Does he control other areas of your life in that way?
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My hubs doesn’t and won’t but I’ve also NEVER worn anything revealing or short etc bc I personally don’t like when females do and I think that being too revealing isnt respectful to yourself ,your spouse or others . Plus too revealing leads to lust,I wouldn’t want another woman’s husband lookinv me down making her feel less than etc. I dress nice and how I like. U SHOULD TOO. now if it’s way revealing I could see where he is coming from but u ultimately have given him the control by not addressing it in the beginning and instead follow his demands. That’s going to be hard to unravel at least imo
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Leave him thats a form of abuse leave before it gets worse and he abuses you in other ways
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Fuck no. Leave him. Sounds like he’s abusive and if it hasn’t slipped to physical, it could one day. You don’t want to be there when it does.
Control freak!!! Wear wat u want to wear he does NOT OWN YOU!
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I divorced my husband
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fuck him off! simple! love yourself lady enough to run don’t walk run as far away from him damn!!
Simple: he convents you …look up controlling narcissistic…I am sure you will be interested…
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Turn it around and tell him what to wear
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Men shouldn’t try to control anything about a woman… Your husband is weak.
Nope…I like the gypsy rose Lee look when it’s warm…I like my style…other half says I think this will suit you…nope don’t like it…why? Because its ugly…stay your ground girl…you wear what makes you feel comfortable and pretty x
Sounds insecure. Tell HIM what he can and can not wear
What a bully!!! Why have you put up with this…I’m sorry I just wouldn’t put up with it I would of left ages ago.
Then you find him eyeing those wearing what he doesn’t want you to wear 
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Well done for finally standing ur ground… u have a right to wear what ever u like… let the toddler throw his tantrum… carry on standing up for urself… well done 
No way. Leave that motherfker
Please leave him before it wears you down and end up feeling depressed coz it will get worse, no man and I mean no man has the right to tell a woman what to wear, who to talk to, how to wear your hair and so on, that is a control freak
My husband doesn’t choose my clothes hairstyle or anything else I do. He is my husband not my keeper
You do you hun not him
Get rid of him and get someone who specialises u
Fuck no! He should be proud u look good in dresses and such and know that ur coming home to him and if others guys look it’s a compliment that he has a sexy women. That’s a narcissistic man there turning it around and making u feel like u did something wrong… ur in the right ur a grown ass women gotta flaunt what ur momma gave u
Not okay.
Never okay.
Do not tolerate it for one second longer.
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My man is strong enough to fight if anyone disrespects me just because i look good, so he doesnt worry about what i wear unless im trying to walk to the corner shop in my robe 
This is abuse. He doesn’t need to try to control you in any way.
People will only treat you how you allow them…
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Be very careful. All of the above is good information but you could be in danger. Mentally and possibly physically if the fight were to get worse. Perhaps try counseling. It’s at least a step towards help for you.
I agree with the fact that this will wear you down. Even the strongest person can be worn down and lose themselves.
This is a tough situation bc he has you doubting yourself.
One of the top regrets people have on their death bed… is living under the expectations of others.
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Never let a man tell you what to do
You are in a coercive relationship. Things won’t get better only worse. He is controlling you. Get out while you can.
I ended a relationship after 3.5 years due to this and never felt more free. Then, I had to rebuild my self-image because I didn’t know who I was anymore.
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RED FLAG 
dump his ass!
Use to ! We fought but he eventually shut up and got over it
That’s not ok. Tell him he can’t wear anything he likes to wear.
Yikes… throw the whole dude away.
My bf of 17 years was the exact same, if I wore jeans without pockets or leggings without a long sweater. were both in new relationships his new gf post pics of herself in thongs and he’s the photographer, crazy how things change ! Don’t allow it! I left and found a man who embraces and loves to see me in it all
Simple, don’t let him control you 
It just gets worse from here
This is the definition of abusive husband. Get out fast
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